How on earth do people do this more than once? Plus move? I've not set a realistic budget because I don't know how much we'll be able to put aside but luckily help from both sets of parents may be available, just my head feels like it's going to explode and we live in London and are marrying in Norwich... at what point do you decide between bridezilla and pretending its not happening (head firmly in the sand)...??? Forgive this rant I've only wanted to do it since we got engaged three months ago!!