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    • MrsUnwin2b
      CommentAuthorMrsUnwin2b
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    After reading some other post i realise i have to have a good moan to !

    Me and my h2b sat down an looked at our finances and realised we cant afford our weddind whilst we are paying out so much rent and bills ect. So my mum offered us to move back home (he lived there with me before). i thought this was a really good idea, save for the wedding with out going in to debit and save for a deposit for our own house.

    H2b agreed with me and we gave our 2 months notice on the house we rent but all of a sudden im in the bad books for MAKING him move back to my mums. IM making him give up his bit of freedom and its my fault we havent got spare money.

    TYPICAL man doesnt even think about what im goin through seriously who wants to move back in to their parents house ? ? ? ?
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    • Soon2beMrsHall
      CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
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    Aw hun. Tel him he agreed to it and that if he didnt want to do it why agree in the first place. I lived with my parent in laws for three years until 4 months ago. Tell him it is only for a little while. xxx

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    • clareabella
      CommentAuthorclareabella
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    well i think thats a good idea moving bk home if u wanna get married and then save 4 a deposit 4 a house at least u get ur weddin of ur dreams but its not all bad u can have a tv in ur room n stuff at least u wont have a mountain of bills 2 folk out 4 everymonth good luck :)

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    • MrsUnwin2b
      CommentAuthorMrsUnwin2b
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    I dont think he realises we will be £1200 better off a month. He will come round he knows im always right ha ha ha
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    • Soon2beMrsHall
      CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
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    Women are always right no matter what happens lol

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    i think you need to show him that after giving your mum board you are still masses better offand that you are lucky to have the oppurtunity....if you owned your house you wouldnt be able to do this ........selfish ********************.

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    • btb2011
      CommentAuthorbtb2011
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    We've been living at my mum's since January for the same reason. We hope to be back in our own place by the same time next year. It really is soo much easier to save that way
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    • angelan1986
      CommentAuthorangelan1986
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    i wish i could go back to my parents house but with 2 kids its impossible unless we all fit into a 8m2 room haha, bunk beds all the way. but no seriously, if it is going to benefit you both and your mum is happy for you to be there then there shouldnt be a problem, somebody has probably said something like "oh your moving backwards blah blah blah" but your hubby2b must realise it is temporary and it is to make your future far better xx

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    • Rags
      CommentAuthorRags
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    I'v lived independently for 10 years and couldn't go back! I love my own space too much. H2b is only person I have been able to share my space with in all this time, I've had lodgers and a couple of boyf's but they all wound me up to high heavens, so glad I've met him.

    Good luck moving back into parents, and maybe you could keep an eye out for somewhere cheaper to live??

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