I am Indian national marrying italian in Italy. In 28 days I am getting married and all done and happy to look farward for wedding. Last weekend we went to Italy to finalised all preparations and sorted hairstylist for my family. As I involved my mother in law and I was happy but didnt taught it will be problem while going on . She is not liking what we did in planning and want to change this and that last moment and creating stress to us. She is insiting to change my family hairstylist dont know what is the reason and all .We are stress as last moment change the plan and do what she is saying .Not with hairstylist but also flower decorations and other plans . I feel I am in too stress before 28 days of wedding this is happening.Anyone gone through this .How to handle tjis,it is very stressful ,I am just trying to be calm and said yes to her in few things and all things its looking too much as its my day too. How to handle at this moment. Hope to hear from you . Thanks
CommentAuthorNicoleW665
Sorry to hear you are going through this Asha,
Calmly tell Mother in Law that it is too late to change any of the details now as it is so close to the wedding and even if you could that you actually like things as they are and wouldn't want to change anyway.
Has your husband to be tried speaking to his mother for you? x
When we met: August 2009
When we announced engagement: December 2015
When we will get married: September 2017
CommentAuthorAsha123
Thanks Nicole! and best wishes,he is trying to but its hard to make her realize it is late.