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    • Finally Susan B
      CommentAuthorFinally Susan B
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    I'm actually feeling very chilled and relaxed about our wedding ( in 3 weeks)
    except the Bleep bleep table seating plan - this has been my bug bear all the way along.
    I guess it's closely related to not receiving RSVP's so making up tables with 'maybe' and realising there'll be only 3 left on that table if a certain group just dont reply/arrive.

    What's been your most stressful part of planning your whole wedding?
    (I'm wondering if most brides have this nightmare of if I just have a special family lol )
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    • MrsH-2B
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    This would have been my most stressful part of the wedding !! Both our families are awkward as a lot of people have several kids each which only leaves 2-3 spaces on some tables which are very hard to fill... Luckily my draft run stressed me out so much that my mum has offered to do it for me :-) I just have to write a 'couples/families' list for H2B's family so she knows who belongs to who lol.. xxx

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    • barbie86
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    Two things: his mother, who keeps trying to suggest we invite people we don't want to invite, and also finding and booking a photographer. Everything else has been pretty plain-sailing so far.
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    • *KelBel*
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    Ours was definitely doing a preliminary table plan which eventually went out the sundown and we decided to plead ignorance for a while as we don't get married til next year, we also had stress with cars as we didn't wanna spend £800 on transport and a few companies were already booked x

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    • MrsC
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    Most stressful has to be the guests. Not in a nasty way but the chasing of rsvps, menu choices, silly questions that were already answered on the invitation.
    Oh and friends that offer to help and then pull out at the last minute.

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    • RachaelC84
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    I found chasing up the rsvp's so stressful, I began to feel like poeple would think I was obsessed but I honestly thinki it is so rude not to reply then when you ask they say yes they will be coming. Managed to get all the day ones back but I would say a 1/4 of the night still havent said yes or no which isnt that important yet.
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    • kimi1987
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    mine has to be h2b and my make up.
    h2b because he disagrees about n early everything i want.
    make up because 7 weeks before wedding she phoned to cancel because shes out of the country on the day but luckily i found another one within 4 weeks of the wedding

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    • MrsK2b
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    Im just waiting for a few people to RSVP back but our table plan is nearly done.

    But were having problems with our thank you presents, we cant decide what to get everyone.

    Everything else has been going really well so far (fingers crossed it says like that)

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    • Tatty
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    Sorry I commented on here whilst reading another thread and got confused :/ x

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    • Finally Susan B
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    It seems all of us have something stressful - the MIL one has to be really difficult to deal with.
    Our issue with RSVP's (apart from the table plan) is regisrty office has a strict limit of 50 for the ceremony and I really don't want much less than 50 for the day - so if I only knew earlier who couldn't make it, I could've asked others to fill it up
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    • Rennie1989
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    Paying off a large chunk of the wedding yesterday was a little stressful. I was worried they wouldn't get it and we'd be out of pocket. Apart from that the bridesmaids are the most stressful as they have now decided to lose weight AFTER being measured (one more dramatic then the other) but fortunately my auntie, who is making the dresses, hasn't started on theirs yet. I can imagine more things will be stressing me out in a month or so.
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    • ElizabethP8
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    At the moment it is my mum wanting us to get married in a church because she is religious (we're not) and also wanting to invite tenuously related people and old family friends that I haven't seen in decades! & we've only just started so I'm sure there will be plenty more to come!
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    • Lulu1388
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    you know what has stressed me out the most?!
    Confetti & Knickers.... !!!!

    I found my bra ages ago and completely forgot until 2 weeks ago i need to find undies haha. all my fittings ive gone in standard black.. but cant for the day, so that has become a nightmare to find that sits nicely & sort of matches my bra!

    Crazy i know!! of all the things! xx

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    • sita_meena
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    Chasing guests for RSVPs and Menus!! I've felt awful about chasing certain people but we put a date on the invites for a reason!!
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    • Llosa
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    Guests! lol....love them all dearly but my gosh i want to shake them everytime they ask me when the wedding is/what time/ where....its on your blooming invite, stop ringing/texting/Fbing me and return my RSVP already lol
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    • Liz3yy
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    The only thing I'm stressed about is hoping that our guests have a good time...sounds daft I know but the reception venue isn't the most glamourous of places and I don't want people thinking we're cheap skates!

    Can't wait until the day I become Mrs. Johnson :)


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    • mrsV2013
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    Too many things :/
    Like everyone else family seating plans and just general family 'I'm not going if she is' kinda thing. My auntie is the only one who thought RSVP was not nessasary and was just going to come anyway.
    My hair and makeup trying to rob me :/ 'we didn't realise it was a bank holiday the price has gone up by £100' err don't think so....
    My friends mum was supposed to make my cake for cheap but when she quoted me it would have been cheaper to go to a cake shop. Luckily my MOH is skilled and want to make my cake for me as my wedding gift :)
    And to top it all off one of my BMs has broken her arm :/
    Next thing which is going to go wrong is the weather :( I bet ya

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