My moh is also my twin sister, it is our birthday the week before i get married, well my moh has decided to throw a big 30th birthday party the week before, but she has invited most of my guests from my wedding
i know most of my friends cant afford to do both the party and the wedding, also i didn't want to see some of these people until my big day when i look decent,
but i know that if i dont turn up to her party she wont turn up to be my moh the week after
what do i do? am i being stupid? i know shes jealous of me and my wedding
thanks for your help ladies xx

it's your birthday too and it probably will be nice to see some people who can't make it to the wedding if they are invited to the party that is

I agree with Jaesin. Its your birthday as well and gives you a chance to see everyone and have a proper good catch up before the madness of your wedding day. I wouldnt think she has done it out of jealousy, another way of looking at it is why shouldnt she (and you) celebrate your 30ths just because your getting married? Its a big birthday and you cant expect her to not want to celebrate surely? If anything, you booked your wedding knowing it was just a week after your 30th birthdays?
Just playing devils advocate and trying to see the bigger picture, your wedding day is the most important day in your life, your twin sister is sharing that with you by being your moh, however, its not going to be the most important day in her life is it?
Have fun at both the occassions, and if people cant afford to attend both you will probably find that most of them would rather be at your wedding so dont worry. Just maybe get the STDs sent out before she gets birthday invites out etc... xx

shes daft really as everyone will be talking about how excited they are for your big day. The limelight will be on you not her at her own party.

thank you ladies, now i have had time to think i feel a lot better about it, everybody knows when my wedding is x