I bought some white brollys off a fellow bride (thanks hun) and i put it on fb coz i was so excited and my friend hos marrying next march, who am bm for....asked me this....
"I've got mine, but could I be cheeky n say for u to bring at least two of yours for yourself and ***** just in case."

i replied:

"Tbh they're going in the loft and hadn't really planned on using them beforehand cz I don't really wanna risk them getting lost or damaged sorry chick xxx"

Is it just me or is that rude?! id NEVER, EVER ask another bride, whos gettng married after me and theyve not even had the chance to use their own stuff....
actually really annoyed...

Me too, if I had already been married and someone wanted to borrow something that I had already used then fine but not before the wedding. I think you are right is saying no. Did she respond to you saying no?

I think U are right to say no as well and it is very rude couldn't agree more with Leigh x

Stick to ur gun they are fir U wedding and nothing else until then x

o after my wedding fine (already had someone ask me!) but NO WAY is anyone having themm before my wedding! i dont care if i have to go all bridezilla! and no she ddnt rreply to me!!! x

a tad cheeky I think. I wouldn't dream of asking to use something of another persons before they'd had chance to use it themselves. A different story if they offer but you should never ask x

I do find that a bit cheeky tbh!

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My sister asked me if she could borrow the really expensive comb id bought for her (and the rest of my bridesmaids) to wear to the races and got mardy with me when i said no. Some people dont understand boundaries or blinking manners lol xx

I don't think it's that bad really, they're umbrellas and she wants you to use them for yourself. If it was me and it was between using my umbrellas and getting wet I'd probably just take mine!

Unless they were proper fancy and would out do the brides brolly anyway haha!

Deffo cheeky! U've bought these umbrellas especially for ur wedding, course u dont want to risk ruining them at someone elses wedding. Just tell her nicely that u dont really want to incase u damage them for ur wedding... what a cheek! lol xx

Dont blame you hun x

ohhh i would be a little anoyed to be honest x

i know... im watching mrs brown anyway so not stressin x

Yeah i agree, I think after the wedding its fine to ask if you can borrow things but before you've used the things yourself is just no on! I'd be annoyed as its puts you in a tricky position of not wanting to appear like the rude one - which you are not - but it just is an awkward situation. She shouldn't have asked. xxx

Hehehehe she is just jealous luv and your gorgeous big white brollies :) I'm made up you're so pleased with them, they served me well on my wedding day. You done the right thing as in the fuss of the day, they can easily get lost or taken home by others by accident. As for the people that want to use them after you, I would say to them that they can buy them off you? You've bought them so why should they get to use them for free? Up to you tho luv xxx

I think it's cheeky, especially because they're white, as they could get dirty.