Well what can i say thought things were going so well. She paid off £200, we picked all the bm dresses in 10 mins and she said she was brining the deposit 3 days after she was so confident and excited or so i thought She never turned up with the deposits because she doesnt like the dress man. Really! I dont care if you like him or not. She has now fallen out with me. So we now have to find the deposit money. Hmmmmf. Sorry for having a rant ladies! Help? Xxx
CommentAuthorTsukijin
Omg that's really awful of her to pull the mat from under your feet! Is there a reason she doesn't like the man or is it a typical mil excuse. I swear mils just set out to ruin the day, well, mine does.
eru, shiteiru ka? shinigami wa ringo shika tabenai?
^_^
CommentAuthorkerriface
Really?! Get your other half to speak to her and find out what's going on. What was the £200 for?x
CommentAuthorRobynFrances1990
Well the dress is £816 and ive been paying as i go.... so she put £200 to =D. She says theres something about him. Also with her not talking to us (both me and OH) were in trouble as that is how i was going to make the invites via her porinted... Hmmmf. Xx
CommentAuthorkerriface
Haven't you got another friend with a printer? Or you could print them at the library? Or a print shop? You don't need this kind of stress. Write her a letter about how you feel if she's not talking to you. Then speak with the shop and explain the situation (leave out the part about her not liking the guy) and see what they can help you with. She should hopefully come to her senses.x
Well we need the deposit cause he needs to make the dresses. A friend has recently decided to get married before me to spite me. Ahhha he has jus bought a printer to make his invites. the mil is vry manipulative so saying or doing anything to / with her will be twisted. She has told all my oh side of the family he is having an affair with my cbm and will find proof.
CommentAuthorkerriface
Wait, I'm confused, who is she saying is having an affair?!
CommentAuthorRobynFrances1990
mil is saying My other half and my chief bm Lol. Haha I know they aint :D Love to see the proof shes gunna get!
CommentAuthorkerriface
Why are you even talking to this woman if she's accusing her own son of infidelity?! X
CommentAuthorRobynFrances1990
Because i want her printer and her money lmfao!!!! She is always like this.... She has been 'normal' for over 6 months knew something was brewing!
CommentAuthorkerriface
Just borrow a friends printer! It sounds a lot of hassle to put yourself through. If she's like this a lot though, surely you've learnt to ignore her! My mil is so negative and criticises everything I do. Worst part is we live with them, so I'm always being told how things should be done. I just smile and nod and do it all my own way anyway. I only get upset when she gets mean about how I'm not Emilia's mum and how I'm nothing to do with her family.... Sorry, my issues! Must be calm!x
CommentAuthorkerriface
What does she mean she doesn't like the dress guy? As in she thinks he won't make them properly? Or he's a bit p e r v y? I can understand she's worried about losing money.x
CommentAuthorTsukijin
I wouldn't want anything from someone like that, she sounds mad. Tell her to keep her £200 and you keep your sanity.... Like Kerri said print at the library, or ask a friend, even if you just print one and take it to a copy shop. Or buy a printer you can get a decent one for around £40
eru, shiteiru ka? shinigami wa ringo shika tabenai?
^_^
CommentAuthorMadam Butterfly
Oh my goodness, YOU have chosen the dresses you want and like from who YOU want and they need paying for so she should have just paid it if she said she was going to! x
You To Me Are Everything
The Sweetest Song That I Could Sing
Oh Baby
16th June 2012 x
CommentAuthorjo Santa
I don't envy you, because the MIL won't change - you've a lifetime of this ahead!!
Jo Santa
CommentAuthorsamwiseheart
she doesnt have to like him hes selling the dress! not asking her out to dinner! thats extreamly unfair to do, she should of paid it if she said she was going to! xx
CommentAuthortrikstaniksta
how unfair of her to do that, can see why you want the money from her to help out with things but i wouldnt put up with her saying your H2Bs having an affair, how dare she!!!
CommentAuthorRobynFrances1990
Thanks girlies you domake me smile =D Tommorow is another day i suppose
CommentAuthorMrsC2B
Oft see these folk that reckon they have more of a say in YOUR wedding than you do!!! Glad my MIL is great :-) Sorry to hear whats shes done.. thats so unfair :( xx
CommentAuthorSweetchilli
I would say thanks for trying to spoil our wedding but we will manage fine without your money and you are uninvited to the wedding.
CommentAuthorRobynFrances1990
Well my dads reasoning behind things i have my princess dress so he shall get the suits from the place people pat thier bums haha Xx
