been married before and have to meet with minister tonight to see if he will marry us does anyone know what to expect what questions i will be asked starting to get a bit nervouse now
CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
What denomination is the church hun? As some have different rules to others xx
Got together 14.02.2008
Got engaged 31.12.2010
Will become a Mrs on 30.08.2014 xxxxxx
CommentAuthorCatrinaP
the parish church in scotland its about 6 miles from where i live he asked me on the phone why i didnt go to the church in the town told him i had not long moved here and felt it was a bit too modern for me lol he said as i had been married before he would need to speak to me further so got to see him tonight x
CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
Ahhh ok well I'm not too sure then as I am CofE. If he has agreed to talk to you then that means that he will probably marry you, as if not he would have not even mentioned a meeting. My uncle got married in a CofE church last year after being married twice before and had to go to a meeting with the reverand. I know he was asked why the previous marriage ended, why he thought it would be different this time, and also had to show him his absoloute decree as proof that he was no longer married. The reverand also got in touch with his last 2 wives to see if he was telling the truth as to why the marriages ended and also asked them if they gave permission for him to re-marry in a church. So it wasn't anything too bad, so dont worry about it too much xxx
Got together 14.02.2008
Got engaged 31.12.2010
Will become a Mrs on 30.08.2014 xxxxxx
CommentAuthorCatrinaP
wow imagine asking his last 2 wifes, he cant ask my ex as he died 2 month after our divorce threw drink thats why i left him oh well fingers crossed all goes well tonight x
Got together 14.02.2008
Got engaged 31.12.2010
Will become a Mrs on 30.08.2014 xxxxxx
CommentAuthorSazzell23
I think Church of Scotland is very similar to Church of England in their practices, altho each Diocese may do things slightly differently. He may want you to start worshipping there before he will marry you both hun. Dont worry and just go along and see what he says, nothing ventured nothing gained ;) xx
CommentAuthorHeather
Hiya, we have been married before and went to see our vicar. He asks why did your other marriage break down. Was it the fault of your partner. My Mr wife died nearly ten years before we met and my marriage broke down before of met. He will ask why do you want to marry in church. And just chat with you about normal stuff. Its really relaxed and not like an interview:/ Don't worry about it. Just be yourself.
CommentAuthorPrincess2be
Goood luck, im sure he will marry you!x
CommentAuthorCatrinaP
well was all worried about nothing , he hardly asked me anything, said he would marry us yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa dont need to go back to see him till next may then we can finalise music etc xx
