like the title says, we meeting with him tonight at 7.30 to talk about what we want, but i dont know what to ask him, he's asked us to think about the shots we want but i dont know i hate having my photo taken, all i want is the kids done, help what do i do

Ask about feeding them, as I got confused about this. Some ask you to provide a meal as they are there all day, others will bring their own food, some even specify that the meal has to be the same as the wedding banquet (cheeky!).

See someone's complete album
Ask for references
Do you like them
What are payment terms
Do they know the venue - will they visit it?
Are they a member of at trade organisation
How long have they been shooting, how many weddings have they shot?
Will you get prints, CD, slideshow, album, coffee tabel book
Do you choose the images
Can guests buy pictures
Can you have all the pictures
Will the images be re-touched / air-brushed?
How long will they be there for?
Will yours be the only wedding on the day
What are the cancellation terms?
Are they insured?
Do they have back-up
Will it actually be the person you meet who shoots your wedding

Our photographer took some pics of us to show us what the photos he took of us looked like, rather than just looking at pics of other people. x

Hay hunni if you use the search button above there is a thread that has LOADS of questions to ask your photographer as well as another one of must have shots.
If you can't find them give me a shout and i'll look for you

well i had meet him and asked loads of questions im so so so happy with him and what he has to offer us, roll on july 22nd now