i have not had any exspierence with this but why not sew a little pocket under ur dress so it can go in there it may make it a little easier babe im sure u will be fine xx

ur welcome any time hun im sure u will be able to change it discretly and i no u will not want to put ur mum out but u dont want to be worrying about it on your big day xx

How about a 2 piece instead of a dress? That way you will be able to deal with your bag a little easier? I have a friend who has a bag and my only worry would be if it opens, as hers very occasionally does and she has to go home, fix her bag and then change, so perhaps some sort of pouch or something sewn into the dress? x

Hi hun, are you having your reception in a venue that you can stay at i.e. with hotel rooms? Or they should at least have disabled toilets which should be more roomy than a standard toilet cubicle. May I suggest if the option is available to you that someone i.e. mum or BM helps you out of the dress so you can sort it out without having to negotiate a big dress at the same time, and then help you back into your dress when you've done what you need to do?

This is a good tip for any bride not wanting help going to the toilet, my sister did this and I will be doing the same as I really don't want someone else in the bathroom with me whilst I'm doing my business.

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aww thanks girls - your all fab. was worried about asking such a daft question.

yeh thats a good idea Indreamland :) sorry dont know your name! lol. hadnt thought of taking it all off completley to be honest. not sure whats worse! them helping me go or seeing my super size bussoms! lol not wearing a bra. i got it all going on under my dress! like a bloody freak show under there lmao.

cford think spanx or a bandage may cause un-necessary pressure and dont want my bag popping or leaking :( that really would upset me! xxx

lol, thanks Kathryn, it's Tracey ;) Everyone on here calls me InDreamland though, it's fine :D

Don't worry about showing your bussoms, if it's your mum or BM helping, well they have seen them before! Not necessarily yours but they've seen boobs before, we're all women lol. They're probably jealous ;)

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Lol - ok Kas. Although everyone on here will call you Johns girl ;)

You are lucky, my sister told me when we were BM dress shopping for her wedding "that's a really nice dress, but you need to wear a padded bra with it" ..........my response "I am wearing a padded push-up cleavage enhancing bra!". I'm a 34B :(

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Sorry wasn't too sure. Hope everything goes ok :)

my nieces don't have that exact problem but they do both have diabetes with pumps for insulin which is a little box bit bigger then a phone that they have to attach to there clothes or pop in a pocket as they have a canular which feeds the insulin constantly they have both had huge prom dress and the seamstress just fitted a pocket on the inside so they could easily get to the pump to adjust doses and such it didn't cost to much either and worked a treat for them both xx

all you need them to do is untie it at the back and then when your ready you just step back into it and shout them to come and lace u back up if your worried about everyone seenig your bussoms!

if you havent already got your dress, what about a 2 piece? a bodice and skirt. that way the skirt can be pulled down instead of lifted up and fighting with all those layers

I did it AGAIN!

babe, my gud mate has a stoma too, and am a nurse so i know all ins and outs this is wat i wud seriously do.....


cos u cud have an 'accidnet' while emptying it, i wud go to ure room and take ure dress off and empty it then put it back on, there wud be no way i wud chance it goin on ure dress hun! x