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    • KirstyM3690
      CommentAuthorKirstyM3690
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    Im so sorry to post here just need a rant feel free not to read lol :-)

    Ok so i was in a horrid car accident in may.. just after my contract for worked ended! was only on a year contract and new that seemed everything happened at once doctor has signed me off as got so much issues with back n tummy have spent 4 times in hospitcal 3-4 days at a time!

    Im now annoyed im always broke.. Paying of the wedding..and feel so depressed!! Just being stuck indoors or at physio once a week or acupuncture Ive had enough!!!

    were getting married in cyprus so im soo excited for that..but cant plan much with no money! :-( Altho i no ill get compensation id rather go back to work and not get a single penny!!

    FED UP!! so sorry 4 ranting ladies! Just no one to talk too! :-( xxx

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    • AmyP7
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    I no how you feel I had the same problems after I had a car accident, wasn't paying for a wedding but was hard enough just paying for bills. Just take each day one at a time and it will get better. I know you won't think it will but it will. Physio is great, not at the time but it really helps. Chin up, and I hope your feeling better soon x x

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    • KirstyM3690
      CommentAuthorKirstyM3690
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    Thanks Hun Just really stresses me out im soo use to being so busy.. and going gym meeting friends and being out with my 7 year old but my back is sooo sore.. headaches i get are awful Just wanna be better and fast haha yeh physio seems good had 15 season 5 more left.. :-) Thanks for ur msg xxx

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    • AmyP7
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    No worries, just hope your back on your feet soon and it will feel like it was a long time ago. I can remember what it was like, so I know how awful it is x x

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    • KirstyM3690
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    :-) had accident may 4th so ages ago.. Lol Thanks Hun hoping i feel better asap xxx

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    • Hayley Elizabeth
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    Did you not get a pay out from insurance hun? They usual cover you for loss of earnings xxx
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    • AmyP7
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    Yes but a lot of the times the pay out comes after. That's how mine worked. Really hope your better soon x x

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    • KirstyM3690
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    havent had any pay outs yet,, My contract from work had ended was due to go to 5 interviews the next week which i had lined up as new my contract was ending but with the accident i was in hospitcal 5 days so had to cancel them! :-( xxx

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    • Hayley Elizabeth
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    Have you tried one of those no win no fee things? Or contact your own insurance. If it wasn't your fault then i'd definitely contact a solicitor. I'm only saying this as a similar thing has happened to my MOH and she has had a massive payout xx
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    • KirstyM3690
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    Yeh its all going threw insurance other person has admited was there fault.. so its between my insurance and theres can take a few years! just wanna get back to normal thanks hun for advice xxx

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    • AmyP7
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    Yeah mine took a few years, it's not fair how they do it x x

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    • PB
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    Sounds like you are having a rough time of it.It must be really frustrating especially when you have been used to being so active and progress seems so slow.It also seems wrong when you are an innocent victim that your whole way of life has been turned upside down,you are in constant pain AND you are out of pocket....its not right!I hope you get your compensation and your health back very soon.Also remember that your doctor can help if you are struggling with depression on top of everything else...its not a sign of weakness,just a symptom of a very difficult time.xxx
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    • KirstyM3690
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    Thank You Ladies.. Yes i just cant believe in the last few months how much life has changed! all i wanna do is go back to work,and plan my wedding! :D Did speak to doctor and felt much better have had same doctor a long time lol so ive been getting out mainly just sitting in sunshine as much as i can! :-) Just hate this wait! ;( and too make matter worse h2b is in same boat altho working as obv he had a job and we couldnt cope both us of :-( i no in time ill look back and feel much stronger just hate the stress of all the appointments xxxx

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    • Hayley Elizabeth
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    Hope everything works out, i'll keep my fingers crossed for you. BIG HUGS xx
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    • KirstyM3690
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    thank you hun xxxxx

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    • ClareS
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    oh i really feel for you hunny. I was off work quite a bit last year with my back and I ended up getting so depressed as I felt cut off from the world. I'd gone from working regular shifts and having friends, nights out, taking my lad to places, to doing virtually nothing - and even needing help to do that :( Was humiliating having to be helped to get dressed or even go to the loo. I got into a very dark place and just cried all day when h2b went out to work . My ony communication was with docs and the physio ( who didn't seem to be doing much and I got the feeling they didn't believe how much pain i was in) It did get better though once my pain management was under control and I could sleep better. Sending you lots of big careful hugs hun from one wonky walking lady to another xx
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    • KirstyM3690
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    aww hun this made me feel so much better my mum and h2b has been helpin getting me in the bath.. is such a struggle and i cry moan im fed up! :-( All i want is to be back to normal and feel so much better just want my life back esp as wedding is only 10months away! and im in need of money!! ;( xxx Thank u for ur hugs same back to you xxx

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    • Sam
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    it will all work out, I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you that a solution to your problem will present itself
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    • Princess2be
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    Aww, it is bound to all work out hun. hope you make a speedy recovery.
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    • KirstyM3690
      CommentAuthorKirstyM3690
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    Thank you ladies feeling ok today!! Just fed up cant meet up with friends.. or go out on sooo many pills etc but like i say Will all work out xxx

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    • AmyP7
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    Glad your feeling better, won't your friends come to you? X x

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    • KirstyM3690
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    Yh they have been great but ive missed a friends hen weekend away and a trip to theme park! just mean where we use to go out and do stuff kinda hard at moment but i no hopefully in a few weeks the pain would of calmed down!! and i can be back to my usual happy self :D Lol xxxx

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    • Velcro
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    It'll all come together when you get your payout, you just need to soldier on for the time being, hope you have a speedy recovery, it must be poo at the moment, but it'll sort itself out, and you'll bounce back :) x

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    • KirstyM3690
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    Thank you hun yes nearing the end now been a hard 5 months but nearly at the end then can plan more back to the gym Haha have put on sooo much weight day time tv and chocs dont go.. Lol xxxx

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    • Velcro
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    Hahahaha, gotta love a bit of Jezza though!! If it makes you feel any better, I powered through a family sized chocolate mousse/cakey thing before, it was amazing, but I still feel abit sick lol

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    • KirstyM3690
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    Haha oh god thats like me.. !! Haha glad im not alone xxx

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