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    • jocelinetex
      CommentAuthorjocelinetex
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    Hi ladies,
    I think the rains getting me down and I'm letting off some steam.

    I'm off to the dress shop on Saturday to get measured for my dress to be ordered, it's a corset back and has the added thing inside to hold you in (I can’t remember what it’s called), being a larger lady I can’t think of anything worse than my fat spilling out everywhere, I'm so stressed about it I really don't want to go, if the dress shop says I need a size 24 after losing so much weight I might start crying in the shop, I know that sounds shallow but I’ve worked so hard, I’m thinking at most I'll need a 22 but I'd love to get a size 20, I guess I’m just setting myself up for a fall, sorry ladies for the moan but my littlest has just started her periods for the first time and my emotions are everywhere, I’m feeling a little redundant and I don’t know what to do with myself now my babies all grown up ; (
    Thanks for reading hopefully I'll feel better tomorrow ; ) x

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    • CommentAuthorFuture mrs mac
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    Aww hunny wedding dress sizes can be upto 2 sizes smaller (I'm a 14 and have a size 18 wedding dress) so if you do need the bigger size don't be upset xxx
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    • Glitterfairy
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    They most often come up smaller. I'm a 14 and having to order a 16.

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    • InDreamland
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    As Future mrs mac said, wedding dress sizes tend to come up differently. I've not got mine yet but when my sister ordered hers it was ordered in a size 12 .................she's a 6/8!!! It didn't need much alteration either when it came in. So don't stress hun xx

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    • madhen
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    Mrs Mac is right - first few times I tried dresses on I got totally depressed about it too, so I know how you feel. Looking at your weight loss to date is awe-inspiring, you have worked so so so hard you should feel so proud that you had the motivation, dedication and discipline to do that. Don't pay attention to the size on the label because no-body sees that, they just see you looking beautiful in a made-to measure dress, stealing all the limelight on your big day!
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    • jodie b
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    Wedding dress sizes are weird! Just think how amazing you'll look in it try not to think of the size xx

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    • Tsukijin
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    I'm a size 22. My dress is size 18 as I brought it a few years ago and I am too tight to buy another. It took me giving up the use of a lung, and my bridesmaid having to use her foot to force me into it but I bloody got in it lol and no my fat doesn't spill out and you will look great :)

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    • PB
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    Oh no wonder you feel blue.Your babies are all growing up and don't need you anymore.....wrong they'll need you more than ever! My 22 year old needs mothering just as much if not more than my 7 year old lol! You have done so well with your weight loss and you should be proud. Your littlest one needs you to show her how to be a strong confident woman as she herself embarks on these difficult teenage years so like it or not you still have plenty of mothering ahead of you.
    As the other ladies have said don't worry about what the label says it really doesn't matter.Hope you feel better tomorrow xxx
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    • Nicsquared
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    I dont know what size my wedding dress is - - I think I prefer it that way, I really hoped I'd fit a certain size but on the day it was ordered I just let them measure me and order it. They didnt tell me what size they ordered and I didnt ask :)

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    • MrsKisywisy
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    please take no notice of the size on the dress!! wedding dress sizes are really weird!!!

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    • KellyN29
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    i agree wedding dresses make their own sizes, best you judge yourself by how good you look and not on a number nobody else will see
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    • jocelinetex
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    Thanks ladies for your kind words i am feeling little better now, altho its lashing it down today lol

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    • SelinaK
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    I know how you feel, I'm a 22 as well and it scared me senseless going and trying dresses on. I had tried to lose weight, joined a gym, ate heathily and got nowhere. You should be proud of what you have acheived so far, and don't be scared of your dress! I feel amazing in mine, will feel even better if the mother in law can make the adjustment to hold my boobs in place lol!!!

    You will be fine, your children will always need you!

    As for the rain, sorry, no kind words can be said that are meant, its going to rain constantly I think! Its depressing me too :(

    xxx
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    • Nicsquared
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    Good luck, I'm sure you will look and feel amazing xx

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    • weemindyxx
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    I agree with Poulton bride huni your kids will always need you i have a boy and a girl and my little girl has just started her period aswell, and i am so proud of her and the way we can talk about all the horrible things that happen to us poor women growing up, although she is sooooo crabby lol, and as for my son he is 14 and still struggles to open a can of soup to the extent he walked 1/4 of a mile to his grans so she would make him something because i refused to give into him lol he never leaves my side lol think he will still be living with me when he is in his 30's, and as for your dress huni try and not get stressed you have done brilliant with your weightloss you should be giving yourself a pat on the back. put some happy music on turn it right up and dance about thinking to your self i have a wonderful life, a great h2b and fantastic kids, what more in life could be better. who care's if its raining lol put your wellies on and go n jump in some puddles hahahaha getting carried away with myself there lol.

    hope your feeling better.xxxx

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    • Officially Mrs M
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    hun i'm a size 16/18 and had to order a size 20/22 wedding dress it really depressed me but i looked past it and saw what an amazing shape the corset gave me, just don't pay attention to the size, the ladies in my bridal shop didn't even tell me what size they were ordering so they didn't upset me but its on the receipt but i don't care cos i looked great in it :-)

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    • SamanthaP4
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    A dress size is only a number. It doesnt actually mean much at all. What's important is that you look beautiful in your dress and that you are happy. People care so much about the size of their clothes that they dont pay enough attention to what fits and what looks good. I've seen girls in size 16 jeans that look a million times better than girls in size 10s, because they wear what fits and flatters, regardless of the meaningless number attached to the label.
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    • natalie2614
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    Take no notice of the size on the label, cut it out if it makes you feel better. As long as it fits and you will look stunning thats all you need to worry about x x

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    • b2bnicola
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    Ask the woman not to tell u the size of dress she is ordering you hun! Then no distress over size :)x

    Happily Married! :) xxx


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    • jocelinetex
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    first off when I walked in she didn’t recognize me lol, it had only been 7 months and when she clicked who I was she was shocked how much weight I’d lost, she measured me and said I was between the 20 and 22 in Ronald Joyce dress sizes and that I had a perfect hour glass figure lol (no one has ever said that to me before I’m sure she was just being nice), anyway she asked me to try on another of his dresses in a size 18 because it was the same cut as my dress but not 'the one' and she could see were I was on that size, well I felt soooo slim and amazing I looked totally different in it, when I added it up I have lost 17" just from around my waist so you can imagine how different I looked, I was shocked the dress only had a 1 " gap! So she recommended ordering me a size 18 I can't believe it! I have months to lose just 1" I know what you’re saying about sizes but it really felt good when I was walking out of that shop, I felt proud of myself which I hadn’t done in a long time; ) hopefully I can get some pics of me in my wedding dress when it gets here in a few months time ; D I’m so excited lol

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    • madison_uk
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    well done 17" is allot to loose you must be so proud of yourself and she didn't recognise you that's even better compliment




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    • madhen
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    Wow! 17 inches?! That is fantastic, well done you you should be so so proud!!
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    • Bobsi
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    wow 17" is amazing. x

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    • Suzyb
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    Thats fab news, well done you x

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    • jocelinetex
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    thanks ladies ; )
    I’m just so glad I decided to change my life style now before it got too late and I ended up making myself ill, I’m just going to keep going to the gym 3 times a week and make better food chooses, and get myself to a normal healthy weight ; ) x

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    • PB
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    Amazing achievement on the weight /inch loss,i bet you are walking on air.Well done you and so glad you had such a positive experience at your fitting xxx
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    • Linzi-jo
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    I have just read through this post and was going to say the same as most of the other ladies on here, size is just a number and wedding dress sizes can be funny anyway, but now I dont have to because you have done so well on your weightloss/ inch loss that you have got a dress a size smaller than what you wanted! So congratulations and I am so glad to hear that you felt great in your dress. I love a happy ending! lol xxx

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