I know, we're so excited! I had my heart set on it but one travel agents told us to forget about it as it is too far away or a week, so we went to to another one just to see what they could offer and ended up booking, including upgraded flights, complimetary champagne lounge in the airport and a few other treats thrown in, really can't wait!!
Very happy to say I'm now Mrs Keates and loving it!
CommentAuthorSijen
Ooh Lofty how fabulous?
I got all excited today and bought my wedding perfume and earrings (from Debs - got 10% off perfume and 25% off earrings). I also bought the board for our table plan for £2.99 as it was in the sale. Want to do lots of wedding stuff now but haven't got the time this weekend. Next weekend me and my mum are going MOB outfit shopping as she has seen a couple that she like and of course it's Mothers Day on Sunday so next weekend will get nothing done.
Got a shock as looking through my diary yesterday in work and saw a note for 30th March saying "Write out daytime invites" eek - need to get a wriggle on.
Only 4 months to go now ladies - how is everyone getting on?
10 years together...
Finally Mr & Mrs
27.07.12
CommentAuthorlows
So I have a few up dates had a call on friday that my dress is now in and i need to arrange an appointment for my fitting!!! think it will have to be in the easter hols as all my weekends are booked up. Went to cardiff yesterday to watch the rugby and ended up buying the necklaces for my bm's only £23 each. will add a pic of them soon. Also went to see my grandmother whilst in SW and have picked up her pearls that im planning on wearing, she said if they didnt look right wiht the dress I can buy new ones and she will pay for them.
Got to get all my invites cut out tomorrow evening so that i can get them posted out soon. xx
CommentAuthorKat
Sorted out the suits yesterday.....well apart from cravats as they didn't have the right shade of green, so another job done and dusted!! It's sorting out BM dresses that it stressing me now
Oh and in other news some idiot crashed a stolen car into mine last night....grrrr
CommentAuthorserine4andrew
Hiya, not been on here for ages now, thought id check in and see how everyones getting on! getting really close now girls, cant believe where the times going, it doesnt seem like two minutes ago we were all excited at the 12month mark!! I have done most of the big things, just waiting on the bridesmaid dresses to come at which point we can get shoes to match have to get my makeup sorted and then the orders of service and need to get my alterations done on my dress but have to wait until paril or may to do that... thats it! Ive received back quite a few acceptances and have done the place cards/menus for each as they come in! I sent my invites out at the end of Feb. Very excited but extremely nervous too :)
This day i marry my friend, the one i laugh with, live for
dream with, love..... 14/07/2012
I know Serine - how quick is this year going ? I can't believe we're already half way through March! Just scary. We really need to get cracking on writing out our invites and I need to finish making the evening invites too - but going to do that over Easter and get them out just after. RSVP date is 10th May for daytime invites though. Do you think I should get them out before 10th April? to give them a good month to respond?
10 years together...
Finally Mr & Mrs
27.07.12
CommentAuthorLofty
Serine I seem to be about the same stage as you too! Our invites went out at the end of Feb too and I get excited each time we get a new RSVP! Sijen I'd say if you can, get them out a bit earlier as ours have been out about 3 weeks now and we've still only had about 1/3 of them back.
I got back from work the other day and H2B announced that he'd written a 'How well do you know the new Mr and Mrs Keates' quiz which people can fill in during the late afternoon/early evening, then we'll rope some cousins/friends in to mark it and give a bottle of bubbly out as a prize! He was so proud of himself, bless him! He wanted to keep it a surprise from me but decided he wouldn't be able to! I've also just booked shoot-it-yourself video cameras which I'm really excited about too.
We still have a lot of decisions to make like readings, hymns, DJ playlist and final menu, but pretty much everything we actually need to do is done. Still got everything to pay off though! Although we do have the money in the bank, it is mainly just a case of writing the cheques and sending them out. I've also not started on table plans or place names but I intend to start over Easter, I hope! My dress should hopefully arrive about Easter time too and I'm so excited about that!
And I've got my hen do coming up soon - we're actually going on Easter Sunday - Monday! I've got no idea what we're doing as my sister has organised it all as a surprise. It's very early I know but as I live in France I had to do it during school holidays, and I don't have another holiday until summer! And then I've got my best friends hen do 5 days later - that I've organised this time!
Easter is going to be busy but great!
Very happy to say I'm now Mrs Keates and loving it!
CommentAuthorSijen
I bought an A1 foam board from The Works on Satuday for our table plan and already had the card to print onto and fix on. Full price, the board was only £5.99 but I got one in the sale for £2.99, then had to battle through town with it and get it home on the bus which wasn't great lol.
Thanks for the invite info. We've only got 60 guests and these are all close family and friends so we know it shouldn't be too much hassle getting RSVP's but we'll get started on them asap and aim to get them out by the end of this month, get them delivered before Easter.
Lofty - your hen do sounds so intriguing. Wonder where it will be?
10 years together...
Finally Mr & Mrs
27.07.12
CommentAuthorMRSL2BE
Hi BRIDES-2-BE - 4 MONTHS TO GO!!
I havent been on here for ages!! Hope everyone is getting excited!!!
UPDATE ON WEDDING
Ordered and recieved my 3 BM dresses Picked up my tiara the other day - absolutely stunning & my veil should be here next month picked 2 of the 3 BM shoes Ordered Cake topper guestbook presents for dad and BM's - still need to get both mums (havent a clue with that one) paid off flowers paid off chair & decorations got the cake cutter & knife Our glasses Post box received Just arranged to have my 1st fitting in May (cant do it any earlier) OH & finally arranged my HEN NIGHT OUT :-D
Still need to send out the invites, get my shoes, jewellery, perfume, his present (which I'm literally stuck on because he does'nt like wearing cufflinks), book the honeymoon & finally pay everyone else off!!!
You think you have thought of everything and then you realise NO, NO YOU HAVENT hahaha
CommentAuthorMrsL2Be
110 days to my wedding!! When did it go so fast. Starting to get butterflies and feel nervous. Everything is basically done now except sending evening invites out. Which will be done in the next 2 weeks. Probably cutting it fine but oh well.
CommentAuthorclareabella
131 till my wedding
ooooo muchly love my mr c fletcher
CommentAuthorMrsL2Be
Going to fast and its changed to getting married in 3 months. Eeek. xx
CommentAuthorlows
MrsL2B ive not even sent out my day invites yet!! not even made them!!!! so dont think your cutting it fine with sending evening out in 2 weeks time.
Ive got loads left to do!!!! :o(
CommentAuthorMRSL2BE
120 til ours!!!!!!!
CommentAuthorShaz1984
Hello Fellow July 2012 Brides, So nice to be able to speak to other people in the same boat as me. Especially when loads of friends who aren't married don't realise how much work it takes to make your day the way you want. I'm getting married on Saturday 14th July and can't wait. A lot of the wedding is DIY to save as much money as possible. I made all my save the date cards which went out before Xmas and the invites which went out at the beginning of February. My bridesmaids flowers are home made as I have 5 of them which can get really pricey. My dress has been on order since March 2011 and is due in very soon. Had to lose a considerable amount of weight to get into it but i think it's gonna fit..
CommentAuthorSally
hello ladies! well i just looked and we have 100 days to go!! eeeeekkk! i was starting to get pretty scared then the other night i had a dream...it was the day after the wedding, we were married, i could not remember a single thing about the actualy day but everyone kept telling me how lovely it was, i've never felt so content. i was curious about the actual wedding but i didnt really care what had happened because we were finally married and it felt perfect :) now although i hope that the day is as beautiful as i've planned it as long as at the end of it we're husband and wife then i dont care about the rest as long as we fly to mexico as mr & mrs owen :) xx
CommentAuthorMrsL2Be
93 days :|!! Going too fast now. Everyone sorted their music for ceremony? I'm stuck haha xx
CommentAuthorKat
errrr no MrsL2B. I'm stuck as well. I might pass that buck to the h2b. I have just sorted BM dresses and handbags though and cufflinks for the groomsmen.
CommentAuthorMrsL2Be
Lol. Just done the entrance song, thats sorted hehe now the rest xx
CommentAuthorKat
Let me know what you decide so I can pinch it ;)
CommentAuthorMrsL2Be
I message you my entrance song if you want. Its more emotional and special touch than anything lol xx
CommentAuthorKat
The only song we have decided on is our first dance. And that's because it's the song that was playing when h2b realised he loved me for the first time. I didn't realise why until fairly recently lol
CommentAuthorLofty
93 days for me too! Tomorrow I'm going MOB shopping with my mum and two sisters, and on Tues I'm going for my first dress fitting and taking my two little bridesmaids to order my dress.
And more excitingly, this weekend is my hen do!! It's so early because I live abroad and I knew I was home over Easter. It was supposed to be a complete surprise but I now know we're going to Liverpool but I have no idea what we're doing when we're there!
I think we've pretty much sorted our ceremony music but ours is a church wedding so it has to be hymns. I'm mostly leaving that up to H2B too.
Can't wait for this weekend!
Very happy to say I'm now Mrs Keates and loving it!
CommentAuthorSijen
Ooh you'll have a fab time - Happy Hen Do! Did you sort out where to stay and go etc?
10 years together...
Finally Mr & Mrs
27.07.12
CommentAuthorMrsL2Be
We've got a church wedding too, our hymns are chosen its the music for walking down the aisle, signing the marriage certificate & walking back out lol!! I'm on a mission to get all music sorted tonight while h2b is not here. In peace then discuss when he gets back.
Ooo have a nice time :D!! xx
CommentAuthorSally
We're having Ludovico Einaudi - I Giorni for my entrance music, the story behind this was last year i was on my way to the airport for a girls holiday and scott mills randomly played it on radio 1, we hadnt talked much bout marriage as we'd just started living together but Jason rang me and said 'babe i heard this song and i think if we ever get married it'd be lovely at our wedding' :) so since then thats what it has been, we're then having Peter Frampton - baby i love your way signing the register, and Israel Kamakawiwo'ole - Somewhere you the rainbow (off 51st dates, sounds cheesy but really cool) as our exit music.
Have a fab Hen Do Lofty
xx
CommentAuthorLofty
Thanks! I haven't sorted anything, my sister has done everything but I've been assured she has been working really hard so I can't wait to see what has been planned! I've just got back from MOB outfit shopping and I've also got a new dress and accessories for my hen do too!
I've also just booked myself in for a manicure, pedicure and bridal make up trial on Saturday. Getting really excited now!
Very happy to say I'm now Mrs Keates and loving it!
CommentAuthorLofty
It's my hen do tomorrow, yay!! I can't wait!
Very happy to say I'm now Mrs Keates and loving it!
CommentAuthorSijen
We finished making our daytime invites today and delivered the first one to my Nan. She was made up and it was so exciting to actually give them out. Wrote out and addressed the remaining daytime invites when we got back and they're all ready to go out next week. Feel really excited about it!
10 years together...
Finally Mr & Mrs
27.07.12
CommentAuthorKat
Wow Lofty! Have a good time and tell us how it goes
Jen, I was most excited when I finished putting together my first invite. Nothing has seemed as exciting since! The hotel for our wedding is already fully booked with guests and we only gave out the invites last month.
I got colour swatches for getting some shoes dyed, through the post today. One of the colours matches with what I am looking for so now the shoes hunt can begin in ernest!
CommentAuthorlows
well i'm getting mega stressed out yet again over invites. not finished making them yet but should only take the next week or so but everyone is harrassing me asking where they are and when are they getting an invite!!! I sent out save the dates over a year ago so everyone knows when it is and the hotel has a block booking in our name so they dont have to panic about booking a room either.!!!! just wish they would all shut up!! told H2B that the next person who asks is getting the responce " O everyone who is invited already has one!!! so I guess you didnt make the cut!!! "
Rant over sorry ladies
Apart from that issue, I have my dress fitting on wednesday and hopefully will find my underwear and the veil to complete my outfit. Have bought bridesmaids shoes, flowergirl now has everything except shoes which we are leaving till last minute as she is 4 and her feet are growing so fast worried she might grow out of them before we make it down the aisle. Have picked up the wedding rings last week and they look fab!! cant wait to finally have H2B put it on my finger. Have the frame for the table plan ready to go and all the stuff for the kids goody bags.
Left to do:- Make and send out invites!!!!! confirm coach, book hair and makeup get bridemaids dresses fitted sort out mens suits pick the reading for ceremony- any help would be appricitated
CommentAuthorhaylz127
getting married 14th july :) everything all done and ready except dress fittings and suit fittings :) so organised lol xx
CommentAuthorSally
Haylz127 - i'm the same date :) and in pretty much the same boat with the organising. Had my first fitting on saturday was pretty exciting. Sent out the invites yesterday and ordered my veil today. it's really only very little bits to sort out now :) and we only got engaged at christmas lol xx
CommentAuthorAtaraxia
Update time.
Oh god where to begin.
We have our rings arriving on Saturday at 1, I now have both dresses sorted out. Bought my second dress yesterday then got home to find that I am now down a bridesmaid, one of my maids is graduating the day before the wedding and so she's pulled out because she won't be able to make it.
We decided two days ago to make a slight change in our colour scheme, stuck with navy but now using gold instead of pink, also having a few Harry Potter themed things in the wedding, h2b is currently diy'ing our cake topper, an owl which he is painting white, gold and blue. All of the decorations are being sorted next week, h2b's suit has now been done and we've ordered him a Ravenclaw blue and gold Bowtie to wear too.
DIY things - I shortened my dress to wear for the ceremony (details of that are in my dress story thread) and now just need to find underwear, jewellery and any other accessories. Still not sorted an entrance song, that's my next big item on the list!
Got married 27th June and blessed on July 5th 2012
Finally Mrs M :3
Love, love... Here we are.
CommentAuthorJessL
Hello ladies, Im getting married on 21st July! We have gone for a cadbury purple, ivory with a splash of diamonds colour theme!! We have most things done now church booked (despite having to find another church last month as ours cancelled on us even though we booked over a year ago! because they are having a new roof fitted!!), reception booked, caterer booked, dj booked, photographer booked, SECOND dress brought (now just have to try sell the first 1 lol!!) cars booked (still need to find a cheap limo company for bridesmaids)! I still need to book my hair and make up and buy rings!!!
I must admit my biggest worry at the moment is paying for it all, After paying all the deposits over a year ago its not hit me i have 1000s to pay and no money left LOL!!
x x
CommentAuthorxxJennyxx
Does everyone have their dress yet? I keep going through moments of panic as mine's not in yet and when they said it could take up to 6 months (Ordered in at the end of December) I didnt really think it would take the full 6 months. Am I paniking a little early?
Also, anyone else had quotes back for make up?? Most of the ones I find are £70+ for the bride on the day and only £40 for bridesmaids. I'm worried to go ahead and book.
If I finally book my make up....I have nothing left to book! Just DIYing the little things.
Bought some great wooden arrows for 'gone to garden shed' so repainting them to say Jen & Raj's Wedding to use as directions up to the venue and they also had little heart door hanging signs which I will do the same with!
Anyone else got ideas for little DIY touches for the day??
Just over 11 weeks to go!
Soon to be Mrs Mawee!
Hawaii - Booked! Dress - Bought!! Bring on the day!
CommentAuthorKat
Just had my first no RSVP. Very gutted to be honest. Totally understand but it was important to me that they were there.
I'd be panicking about the dress Jenny but I think the panic would be unfounded. I'm sure it will arrive in time. I still need to book hair and make up and not really sure what I want. That's why I haven't sorted it. My to do list tonight is to sort out the very last of the day invites so I can finally hand them out tomorrow. I've been a bit lazy about the work ones, and also to finish my passport form. I'm getting mine changed over for our honeymoon. I really want to go as a Mrs.
CommentAuthorxxJennyxx
I really wanted to do the same, but seemed pointless as I need a Visa which I needed my new name for which can't be authorised till the day of the wedding :-(
Did it.....booked my make up! Trial is a week today.
Every thing booked! Last 10 invites ready to go out!
I received my first no RSVP last night...hope there's not many to follow.
Soon to be Mrs Mawee!
Hawaii - Booked! Dress - Bought!! Bring on the day!
CommentAuthorlows
hey ladies sounds like everyone is very busy in these last few months. I have been busy making the invitations and they have taken longer than expected as we are having to cut them all out by hand. Its taking about 30 mins and invite at the moment and we have 65 to make in total day and evening!! Hopefully they will be finished by friday 5.30 pm to catch the last post so people get them on saturday or monday.
Apart from that we are all sorted, just waiting to hear back from the bridesmaids dresses as they should be in by now and need to book and appointment with the seamstress but cant until i physically have the dresses.
am having my hair cut and coloured tomorrow the last colour before the wedding, and will then book for my hair and make-up trial.
Last things on my list Order cake from M&S (26th May) Order Coach sort out the mens suits finalise order of service and make them Finalise seating plan ( once all rsvp's are in.) finish all my little craft projects- pew ends, place cards, wishing tree, cake flowers, confetti cones, favour labels order confetti make all the jams for favours
can't believe how my list is finally getting smaller and smaller!! :o) yay xxxx
CommentAuthorKat
Just ordered my shoes. Going to try and if I like I will be having them dyed green to match the BM dresses.
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CommentAuthorSijen
They're lovely Kat. I've just ordered a brooch identical to that on your shoes but for my bouquet.
We've hit 99 days today, I can't believe it! I'm getting really excited now. Mum and I are going for a little MOB dress shop on Saturday to proper MOB shops, she's moaning because although she picked a dress and bolero up on Saturday in Kendel that she loves (I am yet to see it) she won't wear it as "it was only £50!" What is she like? So I'll go on Saturday morning to see the outfit then we can compare it to the official MOB dresses in the shops.
All of our daytime invites have gone out and we have had two formal and one text RSVP back to say YES which is brilliant, although did have one off my friend last week saying No and that was before I'd even posted her invite lol. Haven't written out our evening invites yet but they'll go out next month.
My dress should be in at the end of next month so I wouldn't worry about it Jenny As long as it's in one month before your wedding then its plenty of time. Our rings should also be delivered next month too. Can't wait.
10 years together...
Finally Mr & Mrs
27.07.12
CommentAuthormelliecake
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I've had a horrible few days waiting for my dress. Was meant to be in between 14th - 18th so booked in for tomorrow as it should have definitely been in by then. Just found out it's not there yet so had to cancel and wait til at least Monday. I am so impatient so majorly gutted right now and also stressing big time as have uni assignment due next Friday and wanted to dedicate next week to that.
We have sent all the day invites out and had about 8 rsvps back, just one no so far. Have given a few evening invites out (with a few awkward moments from people assuming they would be day guests). Just finishing writing out the rest of evening ones and losing the will to live as they are taking sooo long!
The only thing left to book is my hairdresser, struggling to find a mobile one so might have to settle with going to the hairdresser across the road (who charges extra for sunday :( ) Just got some DIY bits to sort out after that.
I don't feel very excited right now, I think cos I have uni to think about and I am sooo tired of waiting for my dress (ordered in in January). It's custom made so I have no idea if it will come out like I asked, had a big cry today cos I am so fed up. xxx
CommentAuthorKat
Thanks Jen. As you can see the website does matching bags etc, so if you want to know where I got them from to match your bouquet just let me know.
Mellicake, why don't you arrange to see your dress after your essay is done. That way you can concentrate on your essay and fully enjoy the dress moment after? Its only a week after all and the dress can wait that long.
Booked first my dress fitting for 7th June, done the last big batch of day invites, sourced the right colour cravats ( just waiting for BM dresses to arrive so I can confirm) and completed my passport forms this week. Next important job is working on my new signature!
CommentAuthorMRSL2BE
I havent been on here for a while BUT OH MY GOD 85 days left :-O
I've been doing my exams so all of the wedding stuff has been put on hold and OMG we've still got loads to do!! Even though all the big things are now more or less paid off .... It's all the little things that need to go with them. But I did have my hair trial a few weeks ago (5 hours I was sat in the chair) not that I'm fussy or anything hahaha but I did pay for it with my a$&e going dead lol, at least now I know what I'm going to look like lol. Hubby-to-be thinks I'm NOT wearing a tiara or veil - I told him I look stupid with them hahahahaha LITTLE DOES HE REALISE!!
How is everyone else getting on????????
Oh invites have finally been sent out, just need the RSVP's back. Still need to get my little things including my shoes, got my first alteration booked for the end of May so I need to find a pair!!
CommentAuthorKat
OMG! Bridesmaid dresses arrived today. Wrong colour, wrong fabric, not lined or hemmed properly. Not even had the bridesmaids try them so probably don't even fit either!!!
Could not be more livid......
CommentAuthorlows
omg kat where did you get them from? internet or a proper wedding shop? I would be going crazy!!!!!!! xx
CommentAuthorAtaraxia
Oh no Kat... what a nightmare!!!!
Got married 27th June and blessed on July 5th 2012
Finally Mrs M :3
Love, love... Here we are.
CommentAuthorxxJennyxx
Oh no! Thanks awful! I was just about to log on with my excitement as my dress and the bridesmaid dresses have come in and I get to see them on Friday!! Can't believe it. Are they going to sort it out for you??
Nervous about mine now!
Soon to be Mrs Mawee!
Hawaii - Booked! Dress - Bought!! Bring on the day!
CommentAuthorKat
I bought them off the Internet as couldn't get the colour I wanted anywhere. So I will be spending sat trawling actual dress shops and the bridesmaids will have to lump what they end up with. I'm waiting to hear back if they will give me a full refund. I don't really want to say goodbye to the money but they can't wear what has been delivered.
I'm more motivated to get it sorted than stressed now I've calmed down. The problem is my shoes and the mens cravats are all waiting on the exact colour of these dresses! It's just disgusting what some people claim is quality!
Jenny, yours will be fine since it sounds like you bought them in store.
CommentAuthorAtaraxia
Aww no Kat! That's such a nightmare about the shoes and the cravats too... I'm sure you'll get it sorted! What colour are you trying to find?
Got married 27th June and blessed on July 5th 2012
Finally Mrs M :3