When I went for my dress fitting I was breastfeeding and my boobs were a nice size n perky but since I have stopped bfing ( second baby done for 9months) so you can imagine what they are like now. It doesn't help that they are very wonky and a lot more obvious now than before my little ones. I am distraught ( I know most people will say its just your boobs) but now they are small and saggy and feel like I have nothing there and worry my dress won't feel/look the same now I have changed sized on top :( I have a real issue with my boobs and the wonkyness and oddness to point I am in tears a lot about them and doesn't help bras are really uncomfortable due to them being odd :( sorry for random rant just worry about my dress fitting right now! If only I had enough money for a boob job I would have it done tomorrow ( its all I can think about )
CommentAuthorCatherineR
What about getting a proper sort of corset to go under your dress or a proper support to help? Tbh, if it's a lace up or well fitted dress then you shouldn't need to worry as it will give you all the support you need x
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CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
I'd go to a lingerie shop and discuss this and how you need some underwear for your wedding dress, take a pic of your wedding dress and they will be able to help you I am sure.
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CommentAuthorInDreamland
I agree with GF. Go to a good reputable lingerie store or department and ask them to help find a bra that fits well that can go under your dress but also for other bras for every day use x
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CommentAuthorMrsC2bee
Where would you recommend going? We don't have many places around us x
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CommentAuthorSprucey
What is your dress like? Does it have a corset in it? My boobs after Kids are non existent and odd shaped but when I tried my dress on it was actually 100 times better when I took off my strapless wonder bra and let the corset do the work! Gave much better shape and meant the rest the dress fitted better. They can always also sew cups into it for you
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CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
I hear you! When I was breast feeding my boobs were bigger than ever and I was like wow this is great. Now they are smaller than ever and saggy!! The joys eh?? I'd say good underwear for your big day and I'm sure a good dressmaker can make your dress fit better!x
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CommentAuthormichgib
Sorry you feel so low, I would go to somewhere like m s they are supposed to be very good with underwear fittings. Hugs to you
CommentAuthorMrsC2bee
Thanks ladies, I requested the dress as lace up rather than zip so can be pulled in and had corset built in n might get some of those invisible cup things are try it on with that, guess we will see when dress is ready, will do a deb shop too for bra fitting x
CommentAuthorNelinde
Hey MrsC2bee :) How are things going? Did the dress alterations work out or did you manage to get any decent underwear? I'm having a similar dilemma but I'm currently still BF my 19 week old. They just don't sit right in my dress and I get middle boob lol! My dress is a corset lace up and I was just planning on wearing my reusable breastpads astey should stay in place with the dress done up. But now I'm not so sure lol :S
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CommentAuthorMrsC2bee
I'm still waiting on the dres fitting I think it wil be September time ( feels like years away lol) but they feel like they shrunk even more. I am so upset and sad about them as have always had small boobs but since bf 2 kids second one for nearly a year they look/feel small and droopy :( and going from perky bigger boobs while bf to this it feels rubbish. I'm going to go buy a bra once they ring and tell me dress is in although they say can do without one on but not sure if I would worry about the dress slipping ( although know it won't) have you spoke to ur seamstress? Sounds like ur dress might be abit tight on your boob area and if ur not feeding all day they will get larger and tender :/ maybe try a normal bra on with dress see if it helps or a balcony bra as they are ment to be good at stopping the middle boob plus having a bra on will reduce the tenderness when they become full up. And have you checked your little one will feed from a bottle?,sounds silly but I bf and to start with my lo would but when time went on she started refusing a bottle!! Or if u will bf in the dress have you checked you can do it easy enough? X