well i've been browsing the interweb for venues, and i've come across butley Priory in Suffolk (take a look it is a-maze-ing) just emailed them for a brochure and price list. i already know it will be over budget. I will not get in debt for our wedding but i will only do it once. luckily OH has a job where he can do loads of overtime (like tonight he was supposed to be home at 5 and still no sign of him.lol) and i am more than willing to live on a shoestring for my big day. do you think it's worth it for getting the day of your dreams?

Yes! But at the same time it's what makes it perfect for you (I really should take my own advice on this one lol!), I'm sure there have been lots of married couples before us who have lived on a shoestring for their big day and there will be many more to come!

yes!! when we get back from our hols in Sept its spaghetti hoops on toast for 2 years! (I quite like that tho, so will be ok!)

We have £12k to save up in 2 years.

i have uploaded some pics if anyone fancies a nosey :)

will check out pics in a sec but i def think if you can find a way to pay for it and your happy to make the sacrifices then do it because fingers crossed you will only do it the once and you will always remember the day. You may as well have it as you want it. :) xx