So my hen do is coming up in 2 weeks and my bridesmaids have been less then useless they had 8 months to sort out my hen do and left it to the beginning of the month then wondered why on 7 people are coming. So i feel awful there is going to be 8 in total! not great when over 30 were on my list to start with. So they decided to go to Portsmouth instead of all this being a surprise i have had to have everything told to me as it is coming down to me to help organise things.

So i go out to lunch with the bridesmaids on Saturday and they hadn't even booked the club for our night out so I have had to do it as neither of them wanted to put it on their credit card. I am now looking online for other things for us all to do while on my hen do as i'm worried we will end up doing nothing. I feel so let down by these people who are meant to be my best friends. Sorry to rant ladies but had to say it somewhere x

I know its not fair of them to ask you to help organise your own hen do. but look at the positive side at least they have asked and its not a total write of as you have time to rescue the situation and plan your self a great night. I would let your bridesmaids know how let down by them you feel.

I had 12 coming on the Thursday morning, by Thursday night there were 4..... OH and I were both quite mad at my so called friends who "had a cold" etc etc. We have a lot of mutual friends so we had a combined hen and stag.... On 1st Sept we're having a combined stag and hen too! lol

Those who gave excuses werent missed on my night and Im sure you won't miss them on yours either!xx

I know the feeling, and I agree its horrible, I had to sort out my whole hen do, as my BMs wouldn't get in touch with each other. I told them in January, I need to know early which weekend they were thinking of as I work weekends, but nothing.
I don't think bridesmaids understand that its part of their "job" to organise hen weekends etc.

Fingers crossed you have a good time, and they sort something for you. That is a surprise, and that you have a lovely time.

I would love to say that in the end after all the hassle of mine, it paid off and I had a great time. But I'd be lying, and wont go into detail.

I'll keep my fingers crossed yours is a good one, as I'd never wish the horribleness I had to endure onto anyone else xx

Just frustrating i always go out my way o do things for other people but never seem to get that in return! Thanks ladies i have some good friends going so fingers crossed it will be a laugh x