Lately I've been having some really bad dreams about the big day. Like no one turning up, nothing gets planned, sorted or booked. Everything falls apart. Kris doesn't turn up. Just loads of things like that. I know I still got ages till the big day but does or any one else have bad dreams about their big day? Please help me put my mind at ease!
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Its just you worrying about things that could happen. We all do it. It natural so don't go reading anything into it. All your brain is doing is projecting all the things you worry about during the day.
CommentAuthorSteph-Hughes-2b
Thank you hun, I can relax now :)
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Yeah just keep reminding yourself that dreams are not real. You may not be able to control them but you can control real life so you know that the planning will get done and I'm pretty sure unless there is a major catastrophe that people will turn up.
CommentAuthorLittle Kettle
There's been a couple fo threads on here lately about dreams. I was really worried and hadn't told anyone that I had a dream that featured one of my ex's. It was only when I plucked up the courage to say it on here, that I realised that a lot of other B2B's were also having similar dream experiences! I was so relieved!!! Dreams are just your subconcious playing about with different ideas, that's all. They mean nothing more than your brain letting off some steam. One of my most recent re-occouring dreams is that we're all having such a good time in Vegas (we're getting marreid there) that we all forgot about the wedding itself! Then we said stuff it, we'll do it at the local reg office back home, but we couldn't as our time had lapsed since we gave notice! Aaaagh!
Glad it's just that! I don't know much about the traditions and superstitions about weddings, I've been trying to stay clear of them so I don't get myself all worked up and stressed ( as I'm a bit of a worry wart) I was dreading that these bad dreams where a sign of bad luck or something silly like that! x
CommentAuthorEmsy5000
we all get them all the time should not worry its just the stress
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CommentAuthormrs_houghton_2012
I think its pretty normal hun and just something that happens if your worrying or got a lot on. Dont let it worry you xx
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