i am dreading my hen night for 2 reasons 1 when ever they girly nights out with in my h2b family i am never invited i was not even invited to his daughterinlaws hen night so i wonder will any1 turn up and 2ndly really really nervous about the fact that h2b daughter will be there i no its ur hen night and u supposed to do silly things but what if she says owt to her dad and then he calls the wedding off
CommentAuthorfuturemrsstockwin
even though you do funny things i would never do anything that would make tom call off the wedding. have fun but you dont have to do anything crazy if you are worried dont get too drunk then you will be in control. The silly things that you get to do in dares are collect as many phone numbers, dance on a chair, or down a drink they are never that bad that he would call the wedding off. and as long as your friends turn up dont worry about anyone else! x
CommentAuthordodge
i aint got firnds though it would only be his family and may b a couple of mine
CommentAuthorfuturemrsstockwin
well i am sure someone will turn up! it not worth worrying over x x
CommentAuthordodge
i suppose i guess i just feel left out as never have girly nights with his family but he goes on blokes dos everytime there a girly ione
I'm a little bit as I think it's going to be really boring.. I don't have the money for what I want to do..
So hopefully we will just make the most of it :) xx
CommentAuthorAlexandralmill
same i am scared it will be boring to. but at least it wont be my fault ive left my bridesmaids in charge so i have no idea what we will be doing.
CommentAuthorheidianne
Yeah I'm a little concerned. But I don't know why
Tick Tock "why is a raven like a writing desk???"
CommentAuthorsteffi
I'm a bit worried too, thank god it aint just me! I dont particularly like bein teh centre of attention n am really quiet, so the thougths of them dares sends shudders thro me lol! Oh n when i feel uncomfortable in situations i tend to get really drunk, normally when out with h2b n left listenin to footie chat lol xx
CommentAuthorG.I
I can't wait! I'm off to Tenerife on Friday and my friends have told meto be very afraid! No idea what they are planning but I'm not scared, I can take humiliation!
CommentAuthordebs x
I am scared stiff my lot and there are about 20 of us love to do really outrageous things and I normally hide in the background but im not going to be able to this time, its all booked for 31st July and they keep talking about strippers which terrifies me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
CommentAuthoralimarie05
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one idea is to have two hen dos. one where you invite all the "boring" ones and have a nice meal and a few drinks and another one thats completely wild with your best mates and the people you can let your hair down with. i dont really have a lot of friends and my partners 14 years older then me so his family are older too. so this is the best option for me. whatever happens just remember its your night and have fun (without being too naughty :P) x
CommentAuthormrs pinkalice
it sounds like you are really dreading it which is not right at all, how about having a spa day or seeing a show or something instead. it doesn't have to be all flashing L plates and chocolate willies!
CommentAuthorMrsNorton-Cuthbert2B
i dont think im going to have one cuz ive got one bridesmaid and ma maid of honour. im not really close to any females so said i didnt want a hen night. i think me and my 2 girls are gunna have a night in at mine with some home cooked food, few bottles of wine and some girly films. id rather stay in than paint the town red tbh xx
CommentAuthormrselbie
I'm not having one, mainly I'm not having my friends at the wedding and secondly because the concept of hen nights terrifies me senseless lol!
CommentAuthorvintage lass
Yes hun me too.....simply because I have alot of very different friends from very different backgrounds etc! Not everyone will know each other and some of those that do dont get along :( x
If I were you Id do what pink suggested....have a night in or go see a movie or something!!!!!!!!! xxxx
CommentAuthordodge
thanks
CommentAuthorJoolsy
I had my hen night last night and ended up a pretty good night!!x
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CommentAuthorKesha
I had my hen night 2 weeks ago and it was absolutely fab. It doesnt matter if not everyone knows each other, thats what its all about, bringing everyone together. I had a hen party, we hired a room in a bar and had a good old knees up, played hen games etc everyone got involved and were soon chatting to each other like old friends lol.
CommentAuthorCeCe
..oh dear. If Mr dodge is the type to be taking on little snidey tales from the kid and the wedding gets threatened i would be seriously having a chat about how things work!
..as for the hen night WHY are you inviting folk who doent bother with you..can you not have a small affair with REAL friends?
CommentAuthorKatie
We are having a sten night cos most of H2Bs friends are girls and would want to come to my hen night lol We are thinking of having a fancy dress evening out somewhere :-)
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Those who mind dont matter
Those who matter dont mind
CommentAuthordodge
well i its only family mayb a couple of friends if i don't invite the family i will have no 1
CommentAuthorSharyorks
please try not to worry about your hen night! like someone else said = try and enjoy it and don't get too drunk that you can't remember what you are doing!
the only thing i worry about for my hen night is not really having a lot of people to invite! i have moved areas in the last couple of years and slowly not kept in touch with my old friends due to life getting in the way. but it's what you make of it!
CommentAuthorcatch
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l'm having all my sisters 7 of them and nieces 5 of them my daughters and step daughters 4 of them and my work mates so all in all we have 65 guests for the hen and they have all responded to say they will be there, lve made wee fun bags with fun n naughty bits for the hen's and put on a finger buffet, the pub gave ne free room hire, my bm's are going to decorate it up, and they have a surprise for me so excited roll on 4th sept xx
h2b is going paintballing so l have told him to order the body armour lol xx
