ok i have my invite printed and they came the begining of the week,we have a few people traveling from ireland, so we decided to send them out early so every one who wanted to come had plenty of notice.... on the invites we have put an rsvp date on, for the 4th of april, so if i need to fone around people who havent rsvp'ed, i will have enough time. so i was really excited about sending out the invites.................
BUT... today we got a phone call telling us that karls uncle had died last nite ! so i duno if its the right time to be sending the invites out to the familly especally to his aunty, as it will no longer have his uncles name on it, i dont want to upset people but if i dont send them out soon i will have to get them reprinted as the rsvp date will run out !!!!!!
what should i do ???????????????????????????????????????????????
CommentAuthorloubylou
sorry for the loss in the family x personally i would hold out at least til after the funeral to the family at least, im sure a week or so shouldnt make much difference and im sure they will all understand that they havent as much time as 1st thought to rsvp. x
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CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
send them out in 2 weeks hun, just get them all ready1 the funeral will have been held by then and it will be something for her to put he rmind off the upset for a little while, sorry for your loose
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CommentAuthorHunny Bunny
Same here, I'd wait till the funeral has passed. I don't think anyone would think bad of you for sending them out after then and they'll understand the close RSVP date. I'm sorry about the loss also x
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CommentAuthorljeh92
I agree with lou, just leave it a short while, they will understand.. I'm very sorry to hear of your loss x
yeah thats what i was gonna do ! thank you everyone, i hate funerals !!
CommentAuthormitch2509
just emailed the woman who done the evening invites to see if she could reprint the rsvp date for a month ahead, and she said she would only charge 10p per invite so im just gonna do that !..............
CommentAuthorVicky
Sorry for your loss. Good idea with the date change. Its a hard one
CommentAuthorx ashlil x
sorry for your loss. x
CommentAuthortillyturtle
sorry for your loss..however its very good of the invite lady to do that for you....dont get to stressed over it it will all be o and people may actually find the invite is something to look forward to xxx
CommentAuthorMrsBroady2B
Thats very good of the lady to do that for you. Sorry for you loss..xxx
CommentAuthorUnknown
sorry for the loss...i would leave it till a week or so after the funeral. the good news of a wedding invite may just be what she needs to put a little smile on her face for a few mins x
CommentAuthorluci
what an awkward situation ... glad the lady could help you out thinking of you and karl xx
CommentAuthorEmsy5000
give it at least a week after the funeral maybe give your aunts to her personally.
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CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
I'm sorry to hear your bad news and agree with the girls waiting until after the funeral is the best thing to do. I know it will be hard on your aunt but it might help her to have some good news to look forward to.
