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    • Ali
      CommentAuthorAli
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    Tried to stay away, then had a question to ask and the only place i could think of getting an answer was here......................

    Trying to decide if we should do invitations or not, as we're getting married abroad and no one really is coming (too expensive for most people) but there is a link from the Chapel so that people can log in and watch us exchange our vows and I would really like to have our friends and family watching this.

    I could be cheap and send an email with the link, but then I keep thinking it would be nice to have proper invites done even if it costs us a few extra pounds on top of the budget.

    What do you girlies think????

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    • ljeh92
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    How would you word it on the invites hun ?

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    • GregorysGirl
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    You might not specifically need invites, but if you want to do some and also if you want family and friends to have a little memento with your wedding date etc. on it then go for it! So in the future when they look through their box of cards, photos etc. they will see your invite and remember watching it and how lovely it was. xx

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    • Ali
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    thats what i'm struggling with, not the most imaginative person when it comes to things like this. Would probably be along the lines of;

    Alexandra and Mark would like you to join them in their wedding via webcam by logging onto the following link.................

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    • Unknown
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    maybe send a postcard to the people that cant make it with the info on?




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    • becky -mrs firth
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    awww ali iw ondered where u been!! dont stay away lady!! hmmm i wud do wat gregorsygirl said

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    • Ali
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    not only that, a lot of people ignore emails whereas a card would sit on a mantel piece, or fridge and people would remember to log on and view the wedding xx

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    • ljeh92
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    yeah i agree with gregorys girl, it could just be a little reminder for people when they come across your invite while doing spring cleaning or something a few yrs later lol

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    • luvlifejen (mrs berr
      CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
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    you can buy plain post cards and put a pic of yourselves on them yourself? with the date place etc... plain post cards are pretty cheap xx

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    • Ali
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    Oh a postcard is a good idea, I could get loads of nice ones and hand write them with the link to the page, good idea Mrsbarkertobe.

    Sorry for going off the radar Becky, needed few days to calm down, but the temptation to come back was too strong lol xx

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    • luvlifejen (mrs berr
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    pack of 50 on the bay 185 with free shipping link on my wall xx

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    • luvlifejen (mrs berr
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    £1.85 sorry haha xx

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    • becky -mrs firth
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    lol ali x

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    • Ali
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    cheers Jen, will go to your page now and look xx

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    • Ali
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    have just been on vista print and can get 100 printed postcards for £5.00, thanks girls :o) xx

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    • becky -mrs firth
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    ali i got them for nite do n bought sum little crystals to stick on

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    • Ali
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    to make them all pretty...............good idea :o) x

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    • becky -mrs firth
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    yep heheh

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    • Unknown
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    wow thats a great price!




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    • luvlifejen (mrs berr
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    excellent price from vista print :) xx

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    • Ali
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    just been and had a play, think i'm gonna order them from there as they do look stylish and i can get cheap envelopes from the pound shop and that way everyone will know what to do as i've put the instructions on the back............also want invites as i'm keeping a little wedding file to look through when we're old and grey lol x

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    • luvlifejen (mrs berr
      CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
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    sounds gr8! xx

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    ali th epostcards cums wiv envelopes!

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    • Ali
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    you have to pay an extra £3.50 for envelopes, i'm sure i can get them for less lol x

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    • Ali
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    better still, got the postcards for free through quidco and just have to pay delivery charges..........how i love a bargain

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    awww i dint i got free white envelopes wiv mine hun lol

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    • x~Hails~x
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    Id say yes to sending invites that way you can include hotel details, local attractions they can see while they are there etc.
    Would be a brill little keepsake for them

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    • Tinkerbell
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    postcard idea sounds het best mate, i would go for that if i were you,

    xxx

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    • suzky123
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    post card is better as someone said ppl may ignore the email or read it but forget about it. The card can stay out and if you added magnets to it then it could stay on someones fridge.

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    • lil miss sunshine
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    send invites and this can double up as the invite to the reception that you are going to hold later when you get back so they get the chance to watch on web cam and then have the party to look forward to

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    • Ali
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    thanks girls, postcards ordered, and even my mother approves (normally she's like thats a waste of money) but as i said to her she can take a handfull to France for my french family so they know how to log on and view the wedding. And like you say its a brilliant momento for people.

    Can't wait to receive them.

    Oh and Becky, I seem to have received £10 cashback through Quidco so they actually paid me to have the postcards printed...Bargain!!!

    xx

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    • Ali
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    Just incase you were interested on what i got, i've uploaded the postcard invitations to my photos................i'm really impressed with them and they're in my fav colour :o) xx

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    aww i lik ethem u shud get diamonds 4 the white line thing, hwo mcuh was weddin ring?

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    • Ali
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    ooh good idea about a bit of bling on the white line. Wedding ring worked out at £495 and its in Palladium with 15 little diamonds :o) xx

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    awwww bless its luvley!!

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    • Ali
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    can't wait to receive it from Smooch :o) x

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    aww i thought u ha dit? whos finger was it on lol is smooch online?

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    • Ali
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    It was on my finger lol, but it was one of their show pieces and they have to make mine up for me.....yes its on their website think the code is HEP142....... x

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    eh? am confused lol they hav a shop 4 u to go try them on?

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    • Ali
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    lol, sorry. No I won the monthly prize draw off here and the prize was rings up to the value of £1000.00 from Smooch rings, they are only internet based and come out to your home with a load of rings (we had tons to chose from) the service is fantastic and the products look great. A lot of the girls on here have had their rings from Smooch and everyone recommends them.

    At the moment on Smooch's website they are giving prizes away............get yourself on it and see if you can win :o) xx

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    awww yes i 4ogt cool!!!! they sound gud, home visits lol i wonder wat this months prize is

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    • Ali
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    its so much easier as i'd been trying to get H2B to come into town to choose the rings but he was too busy playing with his boyfriends on a saturday to come with me, and theres only so much one can do on ones own. So having them come to the flat was so much easier as i made sure it was an early appointment and he wouldn't have chance to go out to play lol x

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    lol i was lukin at not so expnsive weddin rings tho ( my engagement ring was over a grand)

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    • Ali
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    ooch, h2b loves you, £1k for the e-ring, i'm impressed lol. x

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    lol y ali how mcuh was ures lol

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    • Ali
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    not that much lol. 600 odd full price but was in the sale lol x

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    awwww i wanted expensive e ring and about 300 on wedding lol maybe push it to 400

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