Sorry everyone just need a rant and to see if I am being unreasonable. (long story so will try to keep it short). A close friend of mine is getting married this year, we have known each other all of our lives and when growing up discussed who we would have as our BM we all ways said each other. I was ment to get married 10 years ago and she was the first person that I asked. Unfortunatly the wedding never took place. last year my friend anounced that she would be getting married this year, so rightly or wrongly i persumed that either myself or my daughter would be a BM she is my daughters god mother. i found out through FB that she had decided not to even ask any of us, i was really anoyed at this, she even then left it to her mum to tell me the reasons why. Any way I have been really naffed of about this but decided not to cause to much arguments as her mum and mine are close.
This is my main rant she has sent out her invitations but mine was added on to my mum and dads, now I have not lived with my parents for over 10 years, and feel very hurt that she could not even send me and my daughter are own invitation. i know that they are expensive but it has made me feel as if i am just an add on as she feels that she has to invite us. Am I being unreasonable to be miffed again, my mum thinks so. What do you all think??//
CommentAuthorRachie :D
i would be gutted tbh if any one did that to me as I would never do it to them xxx
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CommentAuthorLittle Kettle
No, I'd be miffed too, to be honest. Hx
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CommentAuthorada
Thanks all was starting to think that it was just me. when I sent out my invitations I made sure that I sent them out to everyone at their own homes.
CommentAuthorMrs.Caz.Lewis
id be very miffed also hun, i wouldnt like to feel like just an add on.
I'd be upset too, especially if you're still close. Did you find out what her reasons were?
CommentAuthorada
The only reason that I got was that she is not having any FG so I can understand my daughter not being one, then I got told that she decided against havig me as my daughter might feel left out. which I dont by as I am sure my daughter would think mummy looks realy nice and how exciting.
CommentAuthorkimmy
I would be miffed as well hun!!!
CommentAuthorClareS
hmm, I'd be pretty miffed about just being added to someone elses invitation. By sounds of it you two need to have a chat and talk things through. If you're friends why did she get her mum to tell you?
CommentAuthorJilly17
I think it is incredibly rude to include you on your parents invitation!
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
it would have been worse had you not been invited ..... does it really matter what invite you are on , the things you decided growing up cant be the things you stick you as an adult ...times change ...people change .
at the end of the dauy it will be upto you how much you make of this ...surely to smile and attens the wedding with good grace will show that you have matured
I completely understand why you're upset hun. Try not to mention anything before the wedding though - be the bigger person xxx
CommentAuthorjanetx71
i agree with lala regards the bridesmaid thing the promises we make as children surley cant be held against us when we grow up i promised the little boy across the road i was going to marry him we said this for years but i dont feel that i should marry him just cause of a sill childhood promise its true people change over time however i think if your not living at home anymore you shuld have got your own invite i think including you on your parents one was a bit silly but i wouldnt take it to personaly as she maybe just hasnt thought you would mind i would just smile and enjoy the day be happy for her xxx
