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    • serine4andrew
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    So, ive been thinking about the wording in my invitations for a while now. It seems that the most popular wording is of which the parents of the bride request the pleasure of... this isnt an option for me as my father isnt invited to my wedding!!

    So ive been looking wording starting with our names, then, whilst i was washing up today my eldest daughter was talking about the wedding and she said "mummy i am so excited about you and daddy getting married, its going to be the proudest day isnt it mummy, when you become a Stevens like us"!!! It then hit me, How about my three children requesting the pleasure of our guests instead of us, they are after all celebrating their mummy and daddy making them a "proper family".

    Ive spoken to my mum about it and she thinks its a great idea but my sister thinks its a tad on the tacky side, what do you think?

    Sorry for the long speech but had to explain the method of my madness!! lol any comments would be greatly appreciated, please be honest!! xxxx

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    • suzky123
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    i like personal weddings... and whats more personal. Think its a fab idea,

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    • mrs pinkalice
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    i think its a lovely idea to have them from the kids x

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    • x~Hails~x
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    Nope not at all thats what im doing, my girls will be inviting ppl to help celebrate with us and then our son will be thanking everyone for coming :-)

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    • Lofty
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    I think it's a lovely idea, I'd say definitely do that!

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    • mummy2Olivia_Lisa
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    i think its an amazing idea!!!!!!!!!!1 absolutely love it!!!!!! x x x

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    • Rachie :D
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    Its fab :)

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    • serine4andrew
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    Ahh thanks i thought it was a lovely idea, just started questioning myself when my sis said it was tacky.... but asking you love nladies has definitely made me feel that it was the right decision :) im excited now!!! Hails thats a really good idea to have your girls inviting and your lil man thanking! really cute :) thanks girls xxxx

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    • becky -mrs firth
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    cud u use mum & dad instea dof mummy and daddy

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    • Mrshales2B
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    We are doing the same, having our 2 children request the pleasure.... so much more personal plus the kids feel involved a lil bit more :) xx
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    • serine4andrew
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    Becky - My babes call us mummy and daddy so havent really given it a thought.... hmmmmmm :) xxx

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    • Mel D
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    I think it's a lovely idea xx

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    • becky -mrs firth
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    hmmmmmmmmmmmmm heheheh mummy and daddy gud lol

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    • KayteeG
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    I think it's a lovely idea hun - I was tempted to do our invites from our daughter, but H2B wasn't keen x
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    • x ashlil x
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    jennebel your always on hand with your pics. you have some brilliant ideas. where are these invites from? x
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    • becky -mrs firth
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    awww yes do them hun do them

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    • MrsOwen
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    that would be lovely x

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    • Spud
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    pretty much unanamous!! it would be so sweet and relevant for you and the family
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    • Mina
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    i think it'll be sweet and it shows as well how important this wedding is to your children as well
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    • Mrs T Hurley!
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    i think its a wonderful idea! My mum and dad aren't invited but i don't have any children so i don't know how we're gonna do the invites. :(

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    • MrsDadson :0)
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    That is a lovely idea, gets them involved and makes it so personal, oh and love the invites jennebel xx
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    • becky -mrs firth
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    yes girls me & h2b live 2geva! but if i put it form my ma &pa i can see the green eyed monster in his ma's eyes already

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    • mummybez
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    Our 4 year old daughter invited our guests to the wedding too and everyone thought it was a lovely idea and made it even more special involving her. xx
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    • serine4andrew
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    Ahh thanks everyone, thanks jennebel for the invite pics, ive definitely made my mind up, im doing them from my babies, as everyone has said, it includes them in our day and it is sooo important to them, especially my eldest, shes as excited as i am!! Ive
    even drawn one up this eve as had to test the paper, here it is....
    wedding invite - finished 001.JPG
    wedding invite - finished 001.JPG
    wedding invite - finished 002.JPG
    wedding invite - finished 002.JPG
    wedding invite - finished 003.JPG
    wedding invite - finished 003.JPG


    thanks again for all your help... once again!! haha xxxx


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    • becky -mrs firth
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    luv it hun.... not been picky lol bring ure rsvp date forward though

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    • serine4andrew
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    Thank you :) i was wondering whether i should becky.... by how much do you think?

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    • becky -mrs firth
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    i wud say end of march beginnin of april! sum girls on here have had proper poor response at first x

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    • serine4andrew
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    Really so soon!!lol thanks i will definitely do that!! thinking about it, my family are USELESS so youve made a real good point!! haha thanks Becky, i love this site!!lol xxxx

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    • becky -mrs firth
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    lol hehheeh!!! roll on 2012

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    • serine4andrew
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    most definitely roll on 2012!! dont you think the months are going so quickly though!! before we know it it will be our turn :)

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    • becky -mrs firth
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    yes i joined this site 19 months b4 am at 15!! yikkesss lol sorry mr bank man lol

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    • serine4andrew
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    lmao we are aiming not to have to make a trip to the bankman!! but with how much everything costs when the word wedding is involved, ive got a terrible feeling im gonna be apologising to him too!! haha

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    • MrsPink
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    My invites that are in my album are from our two children :-) xxx
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    • becky -mrs firth
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    lol hahaha am apologisin cos as soon as wage goes in £500 cums out 4 weddin lol

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    • serine4andrew
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    Aww they are gorgeous mrsrachelw2b!! did you make those yourself, there lovely!!

    the more i think about the fact that they are from the children the more im loving it :) xxx

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    • becky -mrs firth
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    its a really gud idea!!!!

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    • Jilly17
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    Loving the new invitation design! Really lovely! x
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    • MrsPink
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    They were actually made by my sister. She is amazing. :-) xxx
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    • serine4andrew
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    isnt it much better ryhope!! i really wasnt keen on the smaller sized one i done previously, but am absolutely loving these ones now!! xxxx

    mrsrachelw2be shes done a great job!! :) xxxx

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    • Jilly17
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    It is really lovely and I really like the layered 'wedding invitation' panel with red crystal. Very sweet!
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    • Gemmagem1987
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    I think there lovely hun xx

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    • Mel D
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    they're beautiful ... I read the post wrong about bringing the rsvp date forward ... though it was this year and was wondering why people were saying to you to bring it forward LOL But yes, I would bring it forward as you'll still be chasing way after the date, I'm still waiting for a couple and my rsvp date was mid-march!

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    • Gazza 122
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    What a wonderful idea! and so personal to you too xx
    your invites look fab! xxx




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    • CommentAuthorderangedbride
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    oww that is so sweet
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    • Peach
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    That is an absolutely lovely idea xxxx




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    • Tinkerbell
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    That's a lovely idea

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    • Liz3yy
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    I think it's a wonderful idea to have the invites from your kids, your sister should butt out!

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