Am absolutely gutted for my h2b, three days before our big day and his family have caused all sorts of ructions, his step dad insulted him saying he wasn't a man because he hasn't paid for the whole wedding (my parents have paid a large sum of money towards the wedding , his parents gave us £50) His brother's fiancee has said it's too long a day for her so she won't be coming, and his son who is supposed to be his best man has told him he won't be the best man. This wedding has been being planned for over a year....why bloody now....AT THE END OF MY TETHER!!!! sorry just wanted a spout!!!
Mrs Hay-to-be
CommentAuthorsarah
OMG... how terrible. Just remember in 3 days you'll be married to your man no matter what & that is most important thing.
CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
Awww how awful.... The important people will be there hunny x
Ill marry my hero
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
I think that's awful that family members are trying to get the attention from you and your wedding, think they need to stop acting like children ' man up themselves' ( who actually cares who pays for the wedding)? And get their acts together and be happy for you guys....
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CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
dont worry hun the important people will be there and to be honest stuff the rest of them.
enjoy your day and don't let anyone bother you about anything further :-)
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Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
I can't imagine what your feeling right now. I'm sure you're fuming but if they're causing this much hassle so close to the wedding, then I would imagine their jealous.
As for his son, is he nervous about his role as best man and the speech. I would hope that it is not of maliciousness but that he's nervous. Maybe a quiet word of reassurance might help. Also if he feels pressured to say a speech, maybe you could cut that out for him.
Please try not to worry, as the others have said this is your day and you'll be a married woman this time next week. Congratulations and good luck.
CommentAuthorSianyCaitlin
That's awful, how spiteful of them !! Why have ALL of them waited until now?! Makes you wonder if they planned to drop you in it last minute, so you wouldn't have time/energy to sort it all out! Nasty. & as Kel said, who cares who pays for what?! My parents are giving us a chunk of money towards it & his mum is paying for our cake. Doesn't make anyone less of a man or woman for it !! I hope you get it sorted soon (if you want it sorted) & just enjoy your special day xx
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CommentAuthorSazzell23
Try your best to not let this affect you and h2b too much, I know this is easier said than done. It really is rubbish on your h2b so close to the wedding. Weddings really do put things into perspective with the people that do / dont matter. Sounds like his son is just nervous?? If you can get to the bottom of it and reassure him hopefully he'll do it. Most of all, just concentrate on having the best day ever for you two xxx
CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
As MrsMann said stuff the restwho wish to ruin the most special day of your life just look forward to getting married finally marrying your other half at the end of the day thats all that matters Dont let no one ruin your wedding day enjy being pampered getting your hair and nails done putting on your dress your shoes your veil if your having one and just focus on your H2B as you walk up the ailse forget everyone else its just about you two your day your "Moment for Life"
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CommentAuthorMrs Hay!!!
Thanks all your words really helped calm me down, with regards to his son he was told he did not have to do a speech etc but it was a definite no last night. My son who is a year younger told H2b this morning that if he wanted he was more than willing to step up into the role. H2b was very touched by this and has now made him his second best man as my step son amazingly has changed his mind!!!! I am so proud of my 16 year old son for saying to H2b, this is not about me or anyone else this is about you and my mum, if Cameron wants to be your best man then that's fine but if not I'm there for you. God i love that boy. Just wanna marry my man now!!!
Mrs Hay-to-be
CommentAuthorVelcro
aw thats lovely of your son, did that make his son realise he was being an idiot? what explanation did he give?
if it were me id be saying tough shit, youve had your chance and blown it...but thats just me, im a hot head lol
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CommentAuthorBobsi
That's really lovely of your son.
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your son is a proper young gentleman how sweet bless him he will step up to the mark if your h2b son does not how mature is he his maturity levels are at a peak for someone of his age =D ♥ X
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CommentAuthorKistHall
Aaww isn't your son a gent! Such a lovely lad x
CommentAuthorJennifer84
Aw what a lovely gesture from your son! Just enjoy your day mrs, not long now! Xx
CommentAuthorMrs Hay!!!
thanks ladies, last day at work and i'm on here as i have finished up all the little bits. He had no excuse, he said we hadn't told him he was best man.....uuuuuummmmmmmm that happened at the beginning when we first began planning, then when we chose the suits then when we discussed arrangements then the stag do that he let his dad down for etc etc!!!! Right now i don't give a damm if he does or he doesn't but the other half does...hey ho never mind!!!! can't wait i might just burst with excitement xx
Mrs Hay-to-be
CommentAuthorVelcro
Wooooo, Im so jealous you get to do it in 3 days, eeeeeep!!! Hiccups aside Im sure you will have a fantastic day, and as you said, whether he does or doesnt, sod him :)
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CommentAuthorMrs Hay!!!
Mrs Hay-to-be
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
I think your son needs to step up as well x
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CommentAuthorcarnally
Glad to hear it got sorted. Have a great day
CommentAuthorGillianE
what an awful situation to be in, but try not to worry, the people important to you both will be there on the day to help you celebrate. What a lovely gesture from your son, you must be so proud of him. Good Luck and congratulations on your wedding. xx
