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    • linzi
      CommentAuthorlinzi
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    just wondered if any of you are banning s-e-xy time before the wedding for any length of time? Like a month before the wedding or something?

    Just think it would make the honeymoon a heck of a lot more fun! well the first few days anyway........ lol

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    • Attention seeker :)
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    EERrrrrmmmmmmmmmm
    NOPE LOL
    i did jokingly say a week but that went done like a lead ballon

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    We have another forced absintence as it is with living so far apart... no thanks!

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    • Mrs Turps (Nicpep)
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    I'm not worried, Turps will have left town by then cos my stress will be too much :p

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    • jellytot
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    i want to but i dont think it will make much difference. h2b isnt here in the week anyway and up until a few weeks ago he wa sonly home once a month. lol x
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    • Soon2beMrsHall
      CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
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    was thinking about it but i thought why you do it all the time why stop just before the wedding just coz it is the wedding

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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    nope !!!!!,,and il be brutally honest with you all,do it the night before because 1,it helps you sleep and 2,your to bloody knackered the night of the wedding to think of even doing it!!,,thats afact,,
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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    apparently h2b is goin to be too "drunk" to do anything on the night..t.ut

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    • Possum
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    Ahhh sounds like bliss..no s.e.x!
    But no, not going to. Did think about it but h2b didn't want to lose the connection we have xx
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    • Stevie_Dee
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    We have forced abstinance...its called kids. Though on the upside the night b4 the wedding and the night of the wedding, grandparents will have the kids so......HELL NOOOOO, not abstaining. xx

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    • mrsCoopertobe
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    lol will have to abstain for 3 days before the wedding as thats when i kick him out to get my dress in :@)
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    • auntiewoo
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    Well-we only see each other every 2 weeks-for one night! So.... I don't think so!! lol x
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    • Kesha
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    we did for a week before the wedding, it was great! all the flirting and fondling it caused lol. The wait was well worth it x
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    • vickyG
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    we hardly get naked time anyway simce havin second kid i not really been up for it (even tho its been 9 months since i had him) adn even if i do fancy it i cant be bothered by end of day too exhausted from runnin round after the kids lol, xxx
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    • Spud
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    I hadnt even thought about it tbh! I cant decide if i'll b so excited or stressed lol

    xxx
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    • SuffolkSteph
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    I'd like to..... not sure I'll be able to though.... defo the night before we'll be apart but as we get married three days into our cruise I think we will be celebrating from the begining....
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    • b2b
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    That sounds like a good idea, I may propose that to h2b. Though we will be taking out little boy in tow, so might not be worht the build up lol!
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    • SuffolkSteph
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    I've just spoken to H2B and he says it fine to go a month without it beofre the wedding as long as I dont want the wedding night to last more than 5 seconds.... Bless him!
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    • Possum
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    I'd happily never do it other than for kids! Heh x
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    • Spud
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    lol love it!

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    • celi
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    I suggested it, and got laughed at so i don't think so!
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    • Kerrylou
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    Keep my hands off Ross? You are joking right? :D
    Nah - I've got at least 2 months of abstinence starting at the end of October (having the baby) and that's going to be hard enough, but to not out of choice.......ooh lord no lol
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    • *Vixie*
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    i think andy would laugh at me if i suggested that. might try it though just to see what reaction i get. could be half hours entertainment.lol xx
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    • Kaya
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    Don't think I could do it! lol

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    • MrsEminson2B
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    I couldnt do it i have tried before to tell matt no s e x but couldnt even last a day so doubt im going to last the night before the wedding xx

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    • Mrs Alsbetty
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    nope

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    i wont be..tbh i thnk its a tad old fashioned in my honst opinion xx

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    • Mrs Brakes
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    We struggle to keep our hands off each other for long enough to go to work! ;0)
    I did mention it to Kieran who looked at me and started laughing. He said I'd crack first...and he's probably right!
    We're not staying together the night before so, obviously no actual s e x then but there is still a morning and afternoon! Sometimes when we go out separately with friends we have text s e x, neither of us stays out too late when that happens!

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    • nickers
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    mm dont think so lol just the nyt b4 as we not spending it together!!!xx

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    • Mrs Hinch2B
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    I don't think there would be a wedding if I even suggested it hahaha!

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