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Wedding related rants: I'm sooo mad i can't even get excited!!

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- CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs Laura
Ok so many of u know the story about my OH ex and his son welllllllllll OMg at the stuff thats gone off!!

So to start off my rant.........

His ex told him he could no longer stay at ours cause my OH dad went for her mum and not in a good way, so the past few weeks we've been having to go up there and see him for a few hours every 2 weeks. now its our wedding on July 14th so we've been trying to sort it out for him to be able to come. i send her a message on a social site askingher to consider putting aside differences for that one day so my OH son can be there and the reply i got just OMG OMG OMG. i'm ready to kill her thats how mad i am!!!

This reply said

1. My OH is 32 and is capable of talking for himself. ( hes 33 and scared to say anything in case she stops him seeing his son)

2. She doesn't care about my opinion ( i don't give a monkies about that one)

3. If i disicipline her son again and SMACK him she'll report me to the police!!!! ( JUST OMG, i have never laid a finger on that child in the 4 and half yrs me an matt have been together) i stopped matt from hitting him!!! and her excuse, she didn't get the police involved because i'm matts missus!!! How much bull is that?? Im sorry but if that was my child and i'd found that out i'd be round there in a shot. Just another thing to try and stop matt seeing his soon.

4. Apparently his son doesn't even like me, just lol we went up at the weekend and took him out for the day looked to me like he likes me alot!!!!

I'm so angry i don't know what to do, Matt knows me and knows i have never touched sammy but it seems a bit convient to be happening now in my opinion! She was all fine with me before we set the date but since then its been one thing after another (even though shes married) I just wanna go up there and do some really horrible things to her!!

So to conclude it all i'm not allowed to do anything.........
Sammy won't be at the wedding..........
and now i'm just waiting for the comment of its your son or her!!!

So stressed out and i can't even be excited for the wedding as i know matt'll be upset that sammy isn't there
- CommentAuthorFutureMrsPite
ok really dont want to sound horrible here, but i have had a lot of grief from my ex, who is the father of my eldest 2. to cut a very long story short, he hasnt done much for his kids over the last 6 years and since he has been with his new gf (the past 6 months) he has taken an interest again which has caused a lot of arguements, esp me tryibng to get him to accept he hasnt done enough and he should pay towards them etc. Anyway... his gf has messaged me a few times, one being that i want him just for a bank and nothing else, and that she will shout me down in frontof my kids at the school, basically just sticking up for him. WELL, this was the stra that broke the camels back for me! i accepted her contacting me every now and then, but to threaten etc was way out of line, esp as shes only been on the scene the past few months and has no clue whats gone on in the last 6 years! but in reference to your situation, i would say get your h2b to contact her about his son. He might be scared or whatever but that was my exes excuse and he had no need to be, i think if u want to see your kids badly enough, u wouldnt care about the grief u get on the phone etc, u will just do it anyway, if there was a chance u could see them, so i hope me saying this doesnt upset u, cos i dont mean any harm, by the sounds of it u have been more than nice, but whatever u say, she might not like the fact its coming from u and not him, even if it is the truth or the right thing, do u know what i mean? def get ur h2b to contact her and ask nicely if he can come to the wedding. If she had a heart she would agree, and if she doesnt, dont make a fuss straight away, let it sink in with her, u never know their son might be asking her if he can go and she cant say no to him. Good luck! x x

As the beatles say, Love Is All You Need x
- CommentAuthorMrsP2be
Just to put another spin on it my H2B has 2 children from a previous relationship. We have been together 4 and a half years and all that time i have met his ex twice maybe three times; he picks them up from her house and drops them off. He arranges everything through her and her alone. Me and her new partner stay out of it. At the end of the day the children are theirs. I don't have her number and i dont think i need it - why would i?

I understand your frustration but i really think its down to your OH to stand up and say that he wants his son at his wedding.

Hope you get it sorted.

xxxxx
- CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs Laura
we've been together 4 and half years also and me and her have gotton on up uptil a load of stuff between her mum and his dad. He has always been there from the day he was born payed child support. The fact of it is her mum doesn't like me or matt and is trying to push him out. i mean sammy even calls her husband dad!! Now her husband simon is a nice guy and hes trying to get it bk to how it was whih will prob never happen as she doesn't want sammy near matts dad and we live next door. this will not be sorted by time the wedding comes!!
- CommentAuthorTsukijin
Some women can't bear to see others happy. I don't have any advice but I don't like reading and running!

eru, shiteiru ka? shinigami wa ringo shika tabenai?
^_^

- CommentAuthorb2bnicola
My h2b has two kids who live down south. Unfortunately as his ex is not exactly the nicest in the world we cant even tell her we're getting married (all cos of csa rules!) so there is no chance his kids can be there!

If there is a chance ur OHs son can be there then it is well worth him giving her a ring!

Sounds to me like shes just jealous hun! Definately dont rise to her message! x

Happily Married! :) xxx
- CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
I have never been a fan of my ex's new wife, but I would never ever stop the kids going to their wedding.

Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
- CommentAuthorObsidian_Winter
My oh has a 3yr old that he barely gets to see and that's only because the courts have ordered it. I have never met my future step-daughter and she is discouraged from calling my OH dad by her mother. The chances of my S-D2B being able to attend the wedding is slim at best.

The best you can do is let Sammy know what is happening (if he is old enough to understand) and try to be the bigger people about it. Maybe have a family-moon after for a couple of days.
- CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs Laura
Well Matt had a message last night saying Sammy wants to come and stay but there are 9 rules that follow..... some i'm not bothered about but heres a few of them

1 I'm not allowed to disipline him ( I'm sorry but I don't disipline, I tell him to stop doing things he shouldn't be doing) So this one won't work! If he's in my house and he's naughty i'm gonna tell him off

2 He doesn't like calling me mummy laura ( I never wanted him to start in the first place) We'll see how many times he does it this weekend after being told he doesn't have to. This one came up b4 and the first word out of his mouth was mummy laura!

3 We're not allowed to say "don't tell your mum what happens at ours. (never said that before so don't know where thats come from!

And the others are basic like don't force him to go see your mum and dad if he doesn't want to..... We don't need to force him its the first thing he asks when he wakes up!

So for this weekend seeing as I get married tomorrow I will be nice but thats it come sunday the guns wil be blazing and the solicitors will be seen and its being done properly! There is no way a 6 yr old wrote these and as she was texting quiet late its very unlikely

xx
- CommentAuthorMrsP2be
Well i am happy that you will have him at your wedding.

I would take the "rules" with a pinch of salt - concentrate on getting married and enjoying your day.
- CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs Laura
I'm glad he's coming to, we'll focus on getting married tomorrow but then come sunday all hell is gonna break lose once she finds out that we are going to go to a solicitor and take futher action so she's not going to be in control anymore!

xx
- CommentAuthormillz090
Ah honey she is just a devious little cow who cant stand anyone else being happy so sticking her oar it. I HATE poeple that use children as pawns, he is a little boy and can happily have 2 families but she is making it hard.

Enjoy tomorrow, relax and dont worry about it then solicitors afterwards sounds a good idea. Also dont stress over her stupid rules as she is being silly and wanting control still. xxx

Finally marrying the love of my life !!
10th August 2013 - 9 years to the day we met !
- CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs Laura
One good thing is we have her aunty and gran on our side :D and if it came to going to court they'll testify on our behalf as to how twisted she is.

xx
- CommentAuthorweemindyxx
yeah thank god he will be there,enjoy your day hun and everything will be sorted after the wedding, my h2b 's ex was like that one time especially it was christmas (we were about 2n a half years into our relationship) and h2b was buying the kids pressies, and i suggested that the pressies get kept at our house, as it wasnt fair that my kids had to share there toys all the time and it wasnt fair that his kids didnt have toys of there own to play with at out house quite reasonable i thought considering they stay every weekend from friday at 4 till sunday at 6 and not to mentions weeks during holidays, (our kids are the same age) and because of this she put all the blame on me and stoped him seeing the kids over christmas which was realy unfair on the kids considering we have them a lot, and that was only one occasion, hope you have a fantastic wedding huni cant wait to see your pictures.xxxx

future Mrs Cole
Soulmates, 2 halves of the same soul
Joining together in lives journey.
- CommentAuthornatalie2614
Its great that you get to have him there on the day now. Take them rules with a pinch of salt and have a fabulous day! xx

Married my best friend 05.04.2013

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