just found out im 6 weeks pregnant due in january and getting married in august is that pushing it or would it be wiser to move it til following year
CommentAuthorJill
Oooh congratulations hun! Depends how your spends are - new babies are expensive wee things x
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CommentAuthorInDreamland
Congratulations! Lovely news! I agree with Jill, it depends on your financial circumstances, if you can afford it then go ahead with the wedding. Logistically you'll be fine, it's the affordability that will decide for you xx
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CommentAuthorDanielleW57
thanks ladies very excited right now itll be my first baby appreciate the advice
Congratulations!! As for the wedding, if you can afford it with a new baby then go ahead as planned, get as much organised before the birth as possible. I'm sure you won't be short of people on the day wanting to look after the little one.
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CommentAuthorMrs Badger
Congratulations, if you can afford it and feel like you could cope with the planning I would go ahead and keep your date. x
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CommentAuthorFernP61
I would still go for it esp now youll have your own cute lil babby in your wedding pics congratulations x
CommentAuthorMrsBroady2B
Congratulations. It all depends on how you and if you can afford. New baby's do lost a lot as there are all the essentials you need that don't come cheap. My friend got married last september and she gave birth in the august. But this was her third and she has all girls so the little one did't need loads spent on her. And they didn't have a big wedding wedding either. They stuck to a budget of £1000.
CommentAuthorMrsKisywisy
congratulations!!
as others have said, if you can afford to do both, you should. BUT, you will have a small baby around during the latter stages of your planning. during pregnancy and after the birth, you will have very little attention span and serious baby brain!!!
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CommentAuthordolphin
Congratulations! I agree with everyone else if you can afford it then go for it, but make sure you accept any help you get with either the wedding planning or the new arrival as both situations can be very stressful. x
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CommentAuthorDanielleW57
thank you all so much for your messages ive already got serious baby brain lol i think were going to keep the date my best friend is going to help more and my sister in law has all the big things a baby needs so shes going to give me those than you again ladies xxxx
CommentAuthormrsheavey2b
congrats hun xx
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Congratulations x
CommentAuthor2bMrsManson
Congratulations its going to be an eventful year now!! xx
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CommentAuthorMrsDanks
Firstly huge congratuations to you. I agree with the others you will have to just sit down with H2B and work out whether it is feasible to do both in a short period of time. Good luck and let us know what you decide. xx
CommentAuthorMrs Ross
Congratulations to you both x
CommentAuthorJill
lol kisywisy - serious baby brain is a definite! I remember getting ready to go to my grans when my son was only a couple of weeks old, got us ready, went to shops first, stopped to talk to people then only when I nipped to the loo at my grans did I notice I had 2 completely different shoes on hehe what a look! x
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CommentAuthorJoanna
Congratulations xx
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CommentAuthorfiona
Congrats!
CommentAuthormrs clarke to be
i would probably push the wedding on al little due to the exspense of the baby but also you will need time to get into a routine and settle down . xx but congrats
CommentAuthorprincesspixie
Congratulations... I personally would post pone the wedding purely because I have a corseted dress and any type of bump would be incredibly uncomfortable for me... but u do whats best xxxx
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CommentAuthorLeighS
Baby's are only as expensive as you allow. As long as it's needs are met i.e nappies, clean clothes, food, hygiene, and love that is all their needs met. There is nothing wrong with buying second had or accepting items that others give to us. Your baby won't care if their clothes are form next, monsoon or tesco and primark. It's us that make things expensive. I think you will be fine as long as you have a sensible mind and keep focused on what's important. Congratulations to you and your h2b.
CommentAuthorSerenity
Ive found out im pregnant the baby is due in 7monhs and im getting married in 11months. at first i wanted to put the weddding off but then i thought, i want to marry my fiance and we'll just cut the budget and only invite the ppl we really want there and im going to make beg borrow and steal alot of things... well maybe not steal but you get the idea!! LeighS is very wise!!! alot of place do NCT nearly new sales and you can get some great stuff whilst helping a charity out :-)
CommentAuthorkrissy905
congratualtions x
CommentAuthorSerenity
Thank you! was a shock i have to say but heyho the best surprises usually are :-) and as long as we have love and laughter that is all that matters x
CommentAuthorlows
Congratulations. How much have you already organised? if you are well on your way then i would keep your date and just keep tight to your budget. as for babies being expencive i totally agree with LeighS, you can get some great stuff from charity shops and im sure friends hand family will help with hand me downs and gifts etc. Dont go mad on baby things as they grow out of stuff so fast and they dont care if its the newest best toy or a 50p charity shop bargin. There are also lots of online baby swap shop type websites to help you keep your costs down xxx
CommentAuthorMrs Sheppard2B
congrats on your baby newz x and id say go ahead with the wedding if yous have organised alot of it then it would all fit in perfectly x
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CommentAuthorbex
congrats girls, go ahead and enjoy ur baby and ur wedding it can be done xxx
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CommentAuthorSammi_with_camera
Congratulations :-) lovely news. I would keep your wedding date, my friend got married 3 months after her baby was born. She was so happy to have the same surname of her baby and feel like a proper little family, she was also mighty glad she got married when she did as she said if she had delayed the wedding her priorities would have changed and she would have ended up not getting married for ages xx
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
Many congratulations to you.
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CommentAuthorloustew2012
congratulations on the baby!!! xxx
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CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs Nicol
Thats great news.. :)
CommentAuthormadhen
Wow huge congrats!!! :D :D :D I agree with the other ladies - have a look at how you guys can manage and if it looks like the finances will be a huge stress and strain maybe postpone - I'm sure new babies can be stressful enough without wedding budgeting on top! Having said that, Sammi makes a good point...a friend of mine is exactly the same, the wedding's just on the to-do list and once she had her two kids there always seemed to be other things popping up that took priority.
CommentAuthorKellyD
congratulations!!! xx
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CommentAuthormadison_uk
I had my son in March and were getting married in November, I find the weddings a good distraction from baby talk and wasn't to hard to plan while I was pregnant and meant I could taste as much wedding cake as possible lol , to help us out we stock piled on nappies etc things you go through at a fast rate when little one comes, to be honest they don't cost that much you don't need to spend loads on clothes as when they are little they don't need tons of things they grow so quick. Make a list get all the big stuff sorted like venue etc then its just paying for it and doing the little touches good luck and just think you could have a cute flower girl or page boy.
CommentAuthorDanielleW57
hi ladies thank you all so much for ur kind words and support weve decided to carry on and just trim the wedding down very happy cannot wait to have my little bubba and marry my best friend xxx