Hi All

I just found out on monday that i am 3 weeks pregnant so excited. This will be my second child my first little boy is already 2 where has the time gone. Partner and I are so pleased about having baby just not too sure what to do about wedding now as planned to get married next july and the baby is due in January but i feel mite be a bit too much stress for the both of us. We were thinking of leaving the wedding to the following year.

What do you think

Thanks
Fiona. Xxxx

congrats hun! eh this should defo give that h2b of yours another kick up the bum ;0) i think it would be a wise choice to postpone the wedding but that all depends on money, stress levels etc.... dont over stretch yourselves for the sake of 1 day, plus you and h2b arent going anywhere, whats 1 more year? and baby will be older and more aware of whats going on :0) x

good luck! xx

Thanks Antonia

Know what you mean. Im looking at it from both ways cause i would like the new baby to be aware of whats goin on instead of being too young and not being able to enjoy it as constantly worried lol. The money issue is another worry as losing my job so need to budget now and i feel if i try and do both im just going to be completely broke and dont want that

Xxx

You dont want to remember the first few months of your babies life as you being stressed and too much on your plate... instead your want to enjoy being a mum and spending time with your new baby?! If you havent booked alot then no harm in moving stuff for another year as Antonia is right - your not going anywhere?! xxx

Thanks tasha xxx

I know what you mean cause when i had my first child i absolutely appreciated the first few months of his life as its so special and i want the same with new baby. I think it would ave been different if we had a lot booked but we dont which is making it easier

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Huge congratulations. If you haven't already booked too much I would personally postpone. My son will be 6 months when we get married this July and it has made money extra tight. xx

Congrats!! Depends how much you think you can get done in the next few months i guess, and if money's tight then there will be lots of baby things you'll want to buy and then wedding things you'll want too, i'd imagine it'll be difficult! How exciting though to be getting to plan wedding and for a new baby! We were thinking of having another but now i've put a deposit down on my dress which i have to fit into i'm not so sure it's a good idea yet! On the plus side the smaller they are, the more they stay still and don't interfere with things so sometimes you can get more done with babies than with toddlers! Do you have any friends/ family to help with the organising of things?

xx

congratulations!!!!!!!!!
i would personally leave it another year just so you can get baby into a routine before you get on with the wedding planning it takes the pressure off you then

im sure there is still things you can plan while your waiting for baby to arrive and after but it means your not in a crazy rush and can take your time.xx

thanks huni

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Thanks huni xxx

Big congrats to you hun.
Do whatever you feel is right. I had a friend who got married last year and found out she was pregnant. She had baby in August got married in September.

Awww Congratulations!!! x

congrats

congrats! if you are both ok about waiting to get married then i would say do that so you have some time to save and you dont get too stressed as you say xx

Congratulations xxx

Congratulations on your wonderful news xx

Congratulations :)
Now you can have either 2 paige boys or one paige boy and a little flowergirl :)

Congratulations hun, exciting times! My advice would to do whats best for you and your family. If you really think its going to be a struggle financially then maybe best to postpone for another year or so? xx

Aw congratulations hun, if it was me personally i would still go ahead with the wedding as the baby will be born in jan and ur getting married in july thats like what we are doin we are ttc and hopin baby will be born in feb and we get married end of aug! Thats just my opinion but do what makes you both happy x