I just found out on monday that i am 3 weeks pregnant so excited. This will be my second child my first little boy is already 2 where has the time gone. Partner and I are so pleased about having baby just not too sure what to do about wedding now as planned to get married next july and the baby is due in January but i feel mite be a bit too much stress for the both of us. We were thinking of leaving the wedding to the following year.
What do you think
Thanks Fiona. Xxxx
CommentAuthormillz090
Ah congratulations honey thats lovely news.
I think it depends how much you have done and how much wedding planning you can get done with a baby around.... if you have booked the majority of stuff between now and baby arriving then you wont have loads to do when baby does arrive?! xxx
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CommentAuthorAntonia9
congrats hun! eh this should defo give that h2b of yours another kick up the bum ;0) i think it would be a wise choice to postpone the wedding but that all depends on money, stress levels etc.... dont over stretch yourselves for the sake of 1 day, plus you and h2b arent going anywhere, whats 1 more year? and baby will be older and more aware of whats going on :0) x
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CommentAuthorfwills25
Thank you hun
Thats the thing we havent actually got a lot booked just a provisional booking for the registrar office which can be changed before payment is due. I feel like that hun as do want to get married next year but SIL2b she got married and organised while she was pregnant and said it was a load of stress and im just worried that i dont want to go through the stress
XXX
CommentAuthorfwills25
Thanks Antonia
Know what you mean. Im looking at it from both ways cause i would like the new baby to be aware of whats goin on instead of being too young and not being able to enjoy it as constantly worried lol. The money issue is another worry as losing my job so need to budget now and i feel if i try and do both im just going to be completely broke and dont want that
You dont want to remember the first few months of your babies life as you being stressed and too much on your plate... instead your want to enjoy being a mum and spending time with your new baby?! If you havent booked alot then no harm in moving stuff for another year as Antonia is right - your not going anywhere?! xxx
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CommentAuthorAntonia9
i agree hun, and your going to need the extra cash for when baby comes - i think replan for next year that way you have plenty of time to squirrel away any extra cash, so then you dont have to stress about the wedding, just think of it has more time to save :0) xx
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CommentAuthorfwills25
Thanks tasha xxx
I know what you mean cause when i had my first child i absolutely appreciated the first few months of his life as its so special and i want the same with new baby. I think it would ave been different if we had a lot booked but we dont which is making it easier
Xxxx
CommentAuthorMrsKisywisy
awwww congratulations!!!
i think it's wise to change it to 2014, but you can still plan just now. means you will have less to do after babba is here. i've found it difficult planning things since my youngest was born. everything went on hold. she'll be 16mths when we get married, so at least she'll be walking
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CommentAuthorMrsDanks
Huge congratulations. If you haven't already booked too much I would personally postpone. My son will be 6 months when we get married this July and it has made money extra tight. xx
CommentAuthorEmily jane
Congratulations
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CommentAuthorsprucey83
Congrats!! Depends how much you think you can get done in the next few months i guess, and if money's tight then there will be lots of baby things you'll want to buy and then wedding things you'll want too, i'd imagine it'll be difficult! How exciting though to be getting to plan wedding and for a new baby! We were thinking of having another but now i've put a deposit down on my dress which i have to fit into i'm not so sure it's a good idea yet! On the plus side the smaller they are, the more they stay still and don't interfere with things so sometimes you can get more done with babies than with toddlers! Do you have any friends/ family to help with the organising of things?
xx
CommentAuthorkrissy905
congratulations x planning a wedding could be very stressful especially having a toddler at home to. i think it would be easier to wait another year as they will be a bit older and you will be in a good routine. but only you know home much you can cope with and what your finance are going to be like. having had a baby and toddler at home myself there is 15 months between my younger to it can be hard getting a new routine sorted and its a lot more demanding having a new baby and a toddler at home to i was maxing 2-3 hours full uninterrupted sleep a night for about 6 months or so as they both use to wake up a lot.
they can still wake up in the night now and they are nearly 6 and 7
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
congratulations!!!!!!!!! i would personally leave it another year just so you can get baby into a routine before you get on with the wedding planning it takes the pressure off you then
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CommentAuthorfwills25
thanks all for congratulations and advice
we've been talking bout it and we are going to put it on hold for a year but maybe still try and organise the odd thing here and there for when we do get married in 2014
just looking forward to planning for our new arrival
xxxx
CommentAuthorkrissy905
im sure there is still things you can plan while your waiting for baby to arrive and after but it means your not in a crazy rush and can take your time.xx
CommentAuthorbrilly
congratulations hun on ur fantastic news and im sure putting it off by a year wont harm any1 and it will let u have a stress free pregnancy too xxx
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CommentAuthorfwills25
thanks huni
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Awwww!! Congratulations hun!! xx
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CommentAuthorfwills25
Thanks huni xxx
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Congratulations hunni ! :) x x
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CommentAuthorMrsBroady2B
Big congrats to you hun. Do whatever you feel is right. I had a friend who got married last year and found out she was pregnant. She had baby in August got married in September.
CommentAuthorfwills25
Thanks huni
xxx
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Awww Congratulations!!! x
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CommentAuthorHayley Elizabeth
Congratulations hun xxx
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Congratulations xx
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CommentAuthorUnknown
congrats! if you are both ok about waiting to get married then i would say do that so you have some time to save and you dont get too stressed as you say xx
CommentAuthorHa_x3
Congratulations hun xxx
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Congratulations xxx
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CommentAuthorfiona
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I have no advice for you just wanted to say massive congrats!!
CommentAuthorhigginszajac
Congratulations on your wonderful news xx
CommentAuthormrscookiecrew
aww congrates thats brill news x
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CommentAuthorRoxy
Congratulations :) Now you can have either 2 paige boys or one paige boy and a little flowergirl :)
CommentAuthorJill
Congratulations hun x
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CommentAuthorMrsMarr2B
Congratulations hun, exciting times! My advice would to do whats best for you and your family. If you really think its going to be a struggle financially then maybe best to postpone for another year or so? xx
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CommentAuthorfwills25
thanks all for lovely congratulations
xxx
CommentAuthorMrs Ross
Aw congratulations hun, if it was me personally i would still go ahead with the wedding as the baby will be born in jan and ur getting married in july thats like what we are doin we are ttc and hopin baby will be born in feb and we get married end of aug! Thats just my opinion but do what makes you both happy x
