I dont get married until July 2012 and already i am having nightmares about it!!
We are having a big wedding of 120 during the day and another possible 60 at night, and the thought of walking down the aisle infront of everyone is already freaking me out! And talking infront of them all...omg!!
I have also been having worries that things will go wrong, no one will turn up (would save me from worrying about talking infront of people lol) that everyone hates my dress (which i still dont have btw, not even tried a dress on yet) and its doing my head in...
Has anyone else felt like this or do i have a big problem?! Help!! :( xxx
CommentAuthorJoey
yep totally normal! Im always having weird dreams about our wedding....much to H2b dissmay hehe Most of mine are where i havent paid for stuff or things dont arrive or are wrong haha xx
CommentAuthorLiz3yy
Awww surely it's normal to be nervous before the big day, I know for certain I will be :)
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CommentAuthorAirth_Princess
Im glad to hear im not the only one!! Its all started since i tried to find a band for our evening reception...i have contacted 4 already and they have all been booked already...2years in advance??? So what now, do i pay over the odds for a band im not even that excited about? Honestly its everything, i dont know if its because H2B is in Africa working and im planning it all on my own from here (i am running it past him b4 i do it but still) i think im just worried im going to fail... xxx
CommentAuthorJoey
its the same with me too :) when I start thinking about things ive got to still do, i will usually have a weird dream that night.haha Ive been needing to sort our a florist for a couple of weeks sooooo ive had a few dreams where my reception tables are boring and empty or someone has set them out in a way i didnt want... tbh i think i just have control issues haha xxx
Its totally normal, I've started having them. In them, I've had no say on whats been happening on the day and there's nothing I like so I freak out! not good! lol. xx
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
That is why we decided to just invite the people closest to us and keep the numbers to a minimum of 60. Even that freaks me out. I think its just the fact that everyone is going to be looking at you when your so emotional and you know you are going to cry. I also worry about what could go wrong too even though I know on the day I will be too wrapped up in Kev to care about anything else.
CommentAuthorEmsy5000
I think it does not matter how early we start planning our day the fact that it is so special to us means we may get nightmares. they are nothing to worry about.
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CommentAuthorrebeccalou21
lol iv had about 5 nightmares, all set in my venue and my day and always bad, my mum always told me that the opposite happens so lets hope so because i dont want tigers at my wedding lol
CommentAuthorHeidi
Ive also had to nightmare dreams, 1 that my dad was stuck in traffic and cudnt make the wedding and the second was there was no flowers delivered to the reception, no dreams that the groom has ran off so thats gotta b a good sign!lol what are we all like ah, must be going to bed thinkin of our special days x
CommentAuthorNHR115
I am the same hun, I had a dream that my venue was derelict and the cake maker had made me the arm of lego man as my wedding cake. lol. I think the Lego thing comes from my H2B's love of Lego and constant Lego talk. lol. xxx
CommentAuthorJulie Walker x
I have had loads of dreams about my day hun, lol the last one was we had got married but I couldn't find my husband, I went out side and could hear talking....he was up a tree with the MOH hubby lmao also dreams where I have no flowers, or had a great day and realised at the end the photographer hadn't turned up, so many but the worst one was the first...months ago where the make up and hair lady didnt turn up, nor the car, flowers and I couldn't fit into my dress. Im so pleased I can almost be considered normal after reading this!! xx
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CommentAuthorpanther_87k
I haven't had any dreams/nightmares about it but its taking me 3 hours or so to get to sleep! normally im out for the count as soon as my head hits the pillow, think I need to put a pen and pad on the bedside table to write down my thoughts so they don't swirl around in my head
CommentAuthorRachie :D
I'm constantly dreaming and having nightmares - don't worry im sure we're normal :) xxx
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CommentAuthorGregorysGirl
Whenever you start researching and planning wedding stuff it is on the brain and you naturally dream or have nightmares about it, i do and i am not getting married til next June. But i always have weird dreams anyway. Been playing Harry Potter on the Wii a lot recently and then i dream about it when i go to bed, very surreal, lol. x
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CommentAuthorNHR115
GregorysGirl when I was reading the Harry Potter books I used to dream I WAS Harry Potter. lol. xxx
CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
I have weird dreams all the time and quite a few of them are wedding related....my last dream was Steve turned into Dr Spock off star trek and no one else seemed to notice but we were stood at the alter saying vows and all I kept thinking was I cant marry Dr Spock. Strange as Steve doesnt have big ears or anything so I dont know where it came from. xx
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CommentAuthorboo
I had my first wedding nightmare last week, our youngest sons arm just *fell off* right as we were about to set off for the ceremony and had to rush up to A&E instead
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