I have just got in from work and my brother has posted on his facebook page that he is going to the USA at the start of march for 90 days. So he will miss my wedding. He has already confirmed he is coming months ago and has not had the decency to call me and tell me he wont be there, Im ment to just know by seeing it on facebook. IM SO ANGRY RIGHT NOW.
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CommentAuthorxox-Zoeee
i would be angry aswell xx
CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
i dont know what to do it wont matter if i kick off he will still go and then the rest of the family will be stuck in the middle as well i relly dont need any added stree the close to the wedding. it wouldnt be so bad if he had booked the tickets TODAY !!!!knowing it was only a few weeks till the wedding
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im married
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wow that is harsh!!! He could have had the manners to contact you personally no matter how excited he is about going away!
CommentAuthorMrs Steer
I wouldnt be happy either, i think i would want to know why he hasnt either told me about it face to face, or why he even considered it knowing ur wedding was happening in those dates xx
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CommentAuthorx ashlil x
ah poor you, id be fuming with him x
CommentAuthorMel D
Aww hun ... I would be really mad at him too. That's so rude to let you find out on FB.
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CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
he couldnt tell me face to face he lives to far away but he wont answer his phone and wont reply to me on facebook :( i cant belive i found out via his status. he is so selfish. I know he misses his girlfriend (live over there) but he could have waited a few weeks till after the wedding. i feel like crying as if it's only my wedding and im not good enough to put yourself out for. This is the iceing on the cake for me
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im married
im now Mrs Dove
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CommentAuthormcquire81
Oh hun, poor you thats awful. I would be so cross if my brother missed my wedding. I hope the situation gets sorted out soon xxx
CommentAuthorUnknown
oh no...thats terrible that he didnt tell you and he is ignoring all your calls! have you got hold of him yet? could his girlfriend not come over here? xx
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
awwwb thats awful1 i wud tell th emother to talk to him
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CommentAuthorMrsd
Selfish really selfish and i would tell him that too. I would put it all over his facebook so all can see how selfish he is too! id be fuming with my bro if he did that. xx
CommentAuthorsuzky123
he defo could have waited. he wont have a good excuse in my opinion. Kick his bum!
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CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
well according to facebook his young daughter is none to pleased with him and will not talk to him at all. he leaves tomorow and she will not be seeing him before he goes it's not just me he has let down. His daughter is used to staying with him for half the week and for him to pick her up from school 3 times a week she is very hurt :(
im not seeking attetion i just like everyone looking at me
im married
im now Mrs Dove
no more wedding planning LOL yer right
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
That is very selfish. I could understand if the wedding was 6 months, a year away but surely he could wait 7 weeks?
CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
he doesnt care about the amount of people he is hurting and upsetting to do this.
it wouldnt be so bad if he haddnt just come back from a two week holiday over there ( i mean it has only been two weeeks since he got back)
im not seeking attetion i just like everyone looking at me
im married
im now Mrs Dove
no more wedding planning LOL yer right
CommentAuthorMrsMelodyWalker
What an awful thing to read on facebook! I can't believe your brother would stick it on there before telling you or he done it instead of telling you, taking the easy way out. Wimp! I found out through facebook that my cousin's weren't coming to my wedding because I wasn't having children there BUT I am having children there lol I haven't told them this though as I'd rather not have them there if that's how they want to act, Same with your brother, he doesn't deserve to be at your wedding if he cares more fore going to the USA than seeing his own sister marry!
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CommentAuthorGemmagem1987
How selfish.... i would be sooo angry, especially like you said hes just got back and could of at least waited a few more weeks, it would of been slightly easy if he had told you over the phone. Chin up hun xx
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CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
hold ure horses!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! to miss ure weddin to terrible BUT to leave his kid just like that is disgraceful???? sorry girls i aint a parent but my thoughts x
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CommentAuthorLisa Ramos
I totally agree the way he has treated you is disgraceful, but to p!ss off and leave his daughter for 3 months is unforgiveable!
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CommentAuthorLisa Ramos
I totally agree the way he has treated you is disgraceful, but to p!ss off and leave his daughter for 3 months is unforgiveable!
I love my lickle Ava
CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
yep i agree but nobody can talk an sence in to him his baby girl (she is 7) really dont want him to go and is taking it badly but thats not making him change his mine now she isnt talking to him :( he is leaving tomorow and nothing is going to stop him
im not seeking attetion i just like everyone looking at me
im married
im now Mrs Dove
no more wedding planning LOL yer right
CommentAuthorVicky
wow that is terrible I cant believe anyone would actually do that especially with his daughter too..
CommentAuthorFruity_pops
hey hun sorry to hear i no it stucks ...i just had my brother tell me his goin australia to also see his gf.... and his the best man also so not sure how to handle that one and all the plans
hope u find away around it with him x
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CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
well he is gone prob landed by now :(
im not seeking attetion i just like everyone looking at me
im married
im now Mrs Dove
no more wedding planning LOL yer right
CommentAuthorfelicity.h
what a selfish t**t sorry i know hes your brother but his daughter really? plus knowing your wedding has he said hes coming back for the weekend? x
CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
nope he is gone for the next 90 days
im not seeking attetion i just like everyone looking at me
im married
im now Mrs Dove
no more wedding planning LOL yer right
CommentAuthorsuzky123
well I hope he doesnt expect you to drop everything for im in the future, esp when it comes to his wedding
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total loss to date: 24.5 lbs now need to maintain!
CommentAuthorMrsB
Has he even told you... thats disgusting sorry I know he's your brother but c'mon, I hope you have a wonderful day and I hope your niece isn't to upset =/ xxx
CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
WELL my mum just phoned to say he MIGHT be home in time for the wedding MIGHT!!!!!!! well i replyed TOUGH SHIT cos the seating plan is done and im not messing it up just cos he MIGHT be back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if he does come back he will be sat on his own in a corner eatting chips from the local takeaway !!!!!!!!!! cos im not going to put him back on my list im not being messed around by him or anyone
im not seeking attetion i just like everyone looking at me
im married
im now Mrs Dove
no more wedding planning LOL yer right
CommentAuthorLiz3yy
Families can be a bitch at times eh? good for you sticking to your guns, I would tell him to forget the wedding if he can't be arsed to tell you about his plans, what a pig
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CommentAuthoralanafx
Quite right ! Why should you have to re-arrange everything for him because he might be back xx
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CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
Sit him next to us ukb girls that are going.......we'll sort him out for ya ;-)
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CommentAuthorNishaVyas88
That's just disgraceful! Good on you for sticking to your guns- your wedding doesn't, and shouldn't, revolve around your brother. If he doesn't have the decency to tell you his plans then stuff him!
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
Yeah sit him next to me and hails and see what he thinks. We WILL eat him alive if he complains
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CommentAuthorsuzky123
dont change things for him, esp if based on IF. He was the one that showed no interest so who cares if his feelings are hurt. Can I just add how nice it is that you have uk brides going awww bless ya. Think they will defo keep him in line if he dares to be a pain. Sit him with the girls : )
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start weight 10st 1.5 lbs
weight now 8st 4.5 lbs
total loss to date: 24.5 lbs now need to maintain!
CommentAuthorAbbi
Wow, thats awful!! I'd be angry too!
CommentAuthorx ashlil x
i agree, you cant be messed about x
CommentAuthorlulliebiscuit
What a horrible selfish person!!
Thinking of you hun
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CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
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well i have just had a facebook message he is on his way home and WILL be comming to the wedding i told him he was **** and would be sitting at a different table to the other brothers and sisters
im not seeking attetion i just like everyone looking at me
im married
im now Mrs Dove
no more wedding planning LOL yer right
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
I don't blame you after all that he has done. He can't mess you about that much then expect you to rearrange everything for him. I know its nice that he is at last making the effort to come but he has left it way too late to be letting you know to expect to just swan right back in again.
CommentAuthorRachie :D
I agree sit him inbetween Steph and Hails - he'll soon be very very sorry lol
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CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
hmmmmm i do belive that is the only table with a space on it PMSL
im not seeking attetion i just like everyone looking at me
im married
im now Mrs Dove
no more wedding planning LOL yer right
