for the past few week h2b dont seem intreasted in me hed rather watch the tv never says he loves me anymore what is the point i tell him i love him but i never get a responce what so iam think of cancelling the wedding and have told him so he said do what ever that impression 2 me is that hes not in treasted in me anymore i have asked him and he shruggs his shoulders
ooooo muchly love my mr c fletcher
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Wow! Calm down girl...... then go and calmly talk to him about it and tell him how you feel about things and then ask him how he feels etc. Maybe he has a lot on at the moment and is trying to destress in front of the tv or he thinks you are happy doing what you are doing and doesn't want to interrupt?
Communication is the key. The reason why he is just shrugging his shoulders is because he doesn't know how to react to you saying that it is all over. Try talking to him when you are calmer and you will get a better response from him.
CommentAuthorclareabella
i cant my heads spinning just fed up of living like this doing my head in
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CommentAuthorjanetx71
ohhh yeah i agree hun calm down then talk tell him your hurt and feel unloved dont do ultimatums hun he will just clam up they are men after all xxxxx
CommentAuthorljeh92
my h2b loves the tv, and we dont tell eachother we love eachother as much as we used to but it really doesnt mean that we don't.. you def need to sit down and speak to him about this, make him undertsand how u feel and how serious your are.
I know but the more you get wound up the worse it will make things. Take a deep breath and talk to him once you are calm and you will find you will get a lot more out of him that way. Men hate it when you get wound up and don't know what to do or say. Give him a break and then talk to him. In the mean time rant away in here so you can get it clear in your head what is winding you up and what is really a valid point and what you can leave be. Don't bombard him all in one go or it will go over his head too.
CommentAuthorclareabella
i cud cry buckets maybe its my hormones or something
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CommentAuthorjanetx71
awwww hun big hugs it will be fine xxxx
CommentAuthorljeh92
try not to get too upset hun, i really think you should calm down and definately haved a word with h2b before you get too worked up.. hope your okay x
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CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
It could well be. I'm sure that you can sort things out and that your h2b does really love you. x x x
CommentAuthorMrsMelodyWalker
Whoooaaa tigger! Before you bounce off and cancel that wedding you need to talk to him, if he doesn't listen ear bash him until he does. If he thinks you are seriously considering putting an end to the whole thing I'm sure he will think twice and hold you tight and tell you everything is going to be ok. We all need kisses and cuddles and affection but men don't, they don't need to feel as wanted as we do, I'm sure he means nothing by it. Don't do anything drastic because you know you will regret it. Maybe hes worried about paying for it? Or he's just got cold feet already! Men aren't like us, we're over the top excitable brides, they are grooms who need to have a shave and stick on a suit, say a few words and be done with it!! xxx
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CommentAuthorTinsel
To be honest Clareabelle, this sounds a bit like H2B and me, but we're the other way around and your TV is my school work. Sometimes we drift apart and other days we are inseparable - it's normal. But I agree, maybe try to talk to him, preferably away from distractions like the TV.
Don't give it all up; I'm sure it will pass xx
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CommentAuthorsuzky123
a friend of mine never once heard 'i love you' in the lead up until the big day. The groom actually mentioned in his speech that he may not express his feelings in the open but he did really genuinely love her and was so proud to now call her his wife. Men are just different hun. Speak to him about it but make sure that you go in calmly (or at least perceived to be calm) and make sure you know exactly what you want to say without being too judgemental or he will retaliate... but you dont want to be a push over either. Its probably work related and he just wants 'him time' to chill. You may find it has nothing to do with you but unfortunately hes unintentionally taking it out on you.
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CommentAuthorMrsMelodyWalker
Sometimes, h2b says to me "I love you" and I say "thanks" just to show him how I feel when he is the "thanker" lol.. I don't think they do it purposely, its just men! The TV doesn't help, so switch it off one night and make him talk or tell him next weekend we're having an "us day" do something special even if its just a walk around a park, just the two of you. You need to get that love back.. maybe some sexy lingerie would help tehehehehe xxx
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CommentAuthorsuzky123
date night once a week?
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CommentAuthorMrsMelodyWalker
Thats an awesome idea! And date night doesn't have to be expensive. You just need to relight that spark that made him fall for you in the first place, he's just let other things get in the way, like the TV. damn TV!! xx
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CommentAuthoralmostmrswood
My h2b is quite similar. He's quite happy to sit in front of the telly and when I say 'What do you think about....' he just shrugs and says 'I dunno'. I could strangle him sometimes because that's his answer to everything!
As for affection, well I get a cuddle at bedtime and the occassional kiss during the day. The last time he said he loved me was after he'd had his wicked way! That's just the way he is though. He hs his soppy moments but usually he's like a caveman.
Men are funny things and usually need a kick up the bum to get a proper response! Talk to him once you're calmer and be careful with ultimatiums. Things are said in the heat of the moment that can't be unsaid x
CommentAuthorKatkin
We are always telling each other how much we love each other, probably at least once an hour lol - very sickening to everyone that knows us I'm sure!! We have been together almost a year and we are still as soppy and loved up now as we were when we 1st got together. We even write messages to each other on facebook or e-mail each other when we are sitting in the same room ;-)!! My friends have told me they want to reach for a bucket when they see our facebook comments!! Long may it last :-) ( not the being sick, I mean the soppiness!)
CommentAuthorKatkin
Oops sorry clareabella, I went off the subject a bit then lol! I'm sorry your h2b is upsetting you. Maybe you could try talking to him about how you are feeling? As others have already said, men are very different to women and can often say the wrong thing or struggle to show their affections (not mine I hasten to add-he's more romantic than me lol). I hope you are feeling happier and more appreciated soon xxxxx
CommentAuthorTrish Goddard
Awww don't cancel the wedding...
My OH and me don't say ILove You all time.... Otherwise it just becomes habit and it don't mean the same.
Has he got alot on at work or is he worrying about the expence of the wedding?
You need to sit down and TALK.. As some of the other girls have said.. Communication is very important!! Big hugs xxx
CommentAuthor*Kat B*
hi hun any luck with the talk xx
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CommentAuthorGriff
Woah hun sit down and TALK! My goodness you could throw away the love of your life just because you're in a slow patch? No way! Get those lips moving quick and get this sorted! ;) xxx
CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
you defo need to sit down and talk! i hope he made a fuss today and made you feel like you should feel hun date night is excellent!! we always make an effort even if its going for a drink on our own (which is a challenge in its self!!) xx
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CommentAuthorljeh92
Hope you managed to talk to him hun xx
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CommentAuthorgreyarea
Sounds like a bit of a rut to me. Me and my oh is in one at the moment but its ok and natural its valentines day so we are celebrating it this year without spending money. I made shortbread and his morning coffee and he ran me a lovely bath its the little things that make a difference
CommentAuthorekielty(now Trow)
I would definitely make time to sit with him and talk to him about how you're feeling hun. It does seem as though you are stuck in a rut... you should take the time for each other and maybe go out once a week, try and do something different every week so it does not become a routine with that too.
I hope you sort things out hunni! We are here for you! xxxxx
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