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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    so i have 4 adult bm's and 2 junior but only 1 is not family/..... i have a really ace/gu mate who i soooooooooooo want to be a bm but h2b says no too many.... i aint happy wat wud u do

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    • Rachie :D
      CommentAuthorRachie :D
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    Do it :D

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    h2b says no

    right theres a little mbit of history.... i was on a nite out and he was being nasty to me on phone so she texted him sayin f off n she cud do better... but we was very drunk and she has apologised loadsssssssssssss

    Engaged 27th November 2010
    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
    Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • Lisa Ramos
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    Tell him to get over it! It's upto you, who you have as a bridesmaid. I'm having 8 and 2 flower girls, so as long as your happy with the amount your having, that's all that matters.

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    awww lisa ye sthats wat i think!!! am gunna tell him!

    Engaged 27th November 2010
    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
    Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • Stave
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    Say to him that you can have her with his blessing or you will have her regardless
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    • Suzie Bear
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    Go girl! U want who u want for ur own personal reasons! Not up to h2b! x

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    yes am even gunna show him this

    Engaged 27th November 2010
    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
    Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • Nerdette
      CommentAuthorNerdette
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    If you can afford the extra bridesmaid, you should have the extra bridesmaid. I'm assuming you're not dictating who he can have as groomsmen?

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    no i aint nikky and the bms r payin for their own dresses

    Engaged 27th November 2010
    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
    Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • Nerdette
      CommentAuthorNerdette
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    Then I don't understand why he thinks it would be detrimental to have the extra bridesmaid.

    I wouldn't necessarily go all bridezilla on him, but unless he has serious reason not to have her (i.e. the extra bouquet would topple the budget or she's the most likely to get drunk and punch the officiant!) he shouldn't be dictating to you how many bridesmaids you have either.

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    • Enny
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    well there we go if the bms are paying for there own dresses its nt ur expenses so go for it and say he really should get over the past and let her be ur bm :)
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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    am gunan tell him in morning!! gunna say my word is final hehehe

    Engaged 27th November 2010
    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
    Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • MrsSaraParry!
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    please dont hate me but I'm going to disagree with the other ladies! I personally think that 4 adults and 2 girls is plenty of bridesmaids - but it does depend on your venue and how many guests you're having. If you're getting married somewhere really opulent and grand with lots of guests then it will probably look great but if its a small venue and short guest-list then it could end up looking a bit overkill! Sorry if you dont agree, dont mean to offend anyone :o(
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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    sara about 80ish day and 170 ish nite


    babe i not offended1 this is why i think topics shud be open for a bit of both lol

    Engaged 27th November 2010
    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
    Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • MrsSaraParry!
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    in which case I would have thought you can get away with another one :o) you see I've gone a bit overboard, I'm having 2 adults and 2 teens and a flower girl but we're only having 40 guests in the day! lol. I wanted my sis and best friend but adam really wanted his 3 cousins so I ended up with 5! i dont mind, but its been a nightmare trying to get something to fit them all! haha
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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    ha i can imagine lol

    Engaged 27th November 2010
    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
    Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • mummyto2
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    i have 8 bridesmaids so i say the more the better just think of your pics how nice they will all look

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    i have won!!! he said i can yayyyyyyyyyyy

    Engaged 27th November 2010
    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
    Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • Soon2beMrsHall
      CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
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    Yayyyyy

    I would love another 2 bms but i cant afford too so they are doing different stuff in the wedding

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    awwww, my bm's have ofpfered to buy their own dresses! am just buyin accessories n shoes

    Engaged 27th November 2010
    Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
    Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
    Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
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    • Soon2beMrsHall
      CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
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    My mam is buying my two sisters dresses but my moh i have to pay for. I also have the kids clothes to buy so i cant really afford other ones

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    Cant wait to to marry Martyn
    Wishes the wedding would come faster
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