im stressin so much bout gettin everything perfect on the day, i swear summit is gunna go wrong, i cant relax at all and now my h2b has just said he cant deal wit stressy ppl.. AAAGGGGRRRRRRHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!! I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO!!!
georgina x~x
the little gypsy!!
CommentAuthorloolabelle
ok so uve got 2 months left.... Breathe, write down everything that needs to be done and everything thats BEEN done, u'll see that it is possible without the stress. Dont stress with him, stress with us x Chin Up and big hug
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CommentAuthorHalloween_Bride
and breath hun!! its not worth getting to worked up about because you will then expect evertything that can go wrong will go wrong, there, honestly just try not to worry about it all xxx
Little Miss StressHead
I speak my mind if ya dont like it then tough
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CommentAuthorsbride
Have a large glass of wine! Thats will de stress u, lol
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CommentAuthormrsmada
i have lists all ova. i hav my planner so i know where evry thing is and i hav a litte planning book where i write evry thing. get urself a nice glass of wine and write down evrything you hav left to do and cross them off as you do them. once you hav evry thing wrote down you will see that ur stressing ova nowt and that you dont hav as much to do as you think x
i would write down what needs to be done, where and when on the day. give a copy to someone else so they can keep check of things on the day so you don't have to worry about it! it will be fine xx
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
your day does not have to be perfect , it has to be enjoyable
i know exactly how you feel. after a strong talking to off h2b i chilled for a short while but now i'm stressing again and got a massive breakout to top it off :-s
CommentAuthorgemma.leftley@hotmai
I felt the same way before the wedding, everything was piling up and I didn't think it would ever come together but it does! The last week before the wedding was still chaos. The order of service's I did 3 days before the wedding, because our vicar dropped out and we had to get a new one, the guy driving our car dropped out 2 days before. Trust me, when the day arrives you forget all of those things and the stress and the chaos goes away. There is sooooo much involved in planning a wedding and I'm sure you feel very alone at times because people get fed up of hearing about it but the moment you walk down that aisle and see your h2b standing at the end it all just comes together. I'm sure we had blips on our wedding day - but I didn't notice. I was too caught up in the moment and had a brilliant time. Planning our wedding was a nightmare and I got fed up and stressed but it was worth every second! Hope it all goes ok. If you need any help or advice just ask. x
CommentAuthorcecileinlondon
Gemma is right, and the girls are all right. But if the stress is really to high and you cant manage it then you should maybe talk to your GP to have something helping relaxing. I was so upset by my in-laws 2 months before the wedding and so stressed because they wanted every thing to be perfect when I wanted every one to enjoy the day (including me and h2b), that I was no more able to sleep, I was nearly feeling sick and I started loosing wait. I left more than one size in few weeks. That is when I decided to go to Boots and ask for no addictive and non drawy de-stress pils. They have helped me calming down and I could sleep again. I only take some for few weeks (2 or 3) and I was back to my normal me. I did list of what was done and what was still to be done and make sure all the boxes were ticked, so was confident that the day will run smoothly and it did. We had a fantastic day. Good luck. xxx
CommentAuthorMrs Alsbetty
i had a day like this last week when i thought we wouldn't be able to pay for it all in time, i went out for a long with a friends dog, then i came back wrote it all down plus our bills we had left to do, now all fine. you will get days like this a friend of mine got married last year she had no stresses etc until a week before then for 2 days she just went into herself didnt talk really to anyone then was fine after xx im sure your man has his worries too and thats maybe why he said that but men have a different way of dealing with things i dont think he was being mean x
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CommentAuthordoangels74
eyup miss.......... you have nothing to worry about......... the little list you wrote yesterday will soon disappear over the weekend honest!!! Sit back n try some relaxation techniques........ they work honestly babe!!! I downloaded somestuff n put it on my touch.
you saw my list of stuff yesterday (ok its only got a couple of things on it)but we still have weeks to go nothing is seriously urgent hun........ And i promise you everything WILL fall into place!!! :) xxx
CommentAuthorbillybob
I'm quite a stress head but I have learnt that I've done my best and I cant control everything (as much as I have tried). Alot of the little things really dont matter, yes I want a perfect day but if things go wrong I dont care as long as me and H2B actually get married and the people that I love and care about are there.
