I've 16 weeks until the big day and i'm feeling extremely relaxed, which is great, don't get me wrong i'd hate to be flapping about everything!!
However, i keep catching myself think, i hope i'm not too relaxed and forget something! eek!
Has anyone got any tips into what i should be doing/ have done by now?! lol i seem to be drawing a blank thinking that everything is done, but then get a bit :-/ thinking that i've forgot something!!
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
try looking at the bridal checklist ... in top section of the forum
Hey ocean, ive got 16 weeks on sat' and i am just like you. relaxed and calm. just cant wait for it to come around. my mum keeps asking me if am sure everything "big" is ordered and booked which obviously it is :)
think it helps that we've been super organised :)
try and enjoy your relaxed feeling, ive got a feeling it wont last the closer we get :D
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CommentAuthorElinor Claire
I'm the same, with just over 12 weeks to go. I think the only thing I haven't really done anything on yet is flowers. I'm still waiting on my MOH to make three bridesmaids dresses though.
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CommentAuthorRachelE118
Hi Ocean I'm so jealous. I've been a real stresshead (liken you wouldn't believe!!) and have fought this wedding from the start (I'm 44, been there, done that and didn't want a wedding but H2B hasn't been hitched before and wanted all the trimmings). I broke down to a work colleague a few weeks ago and she has been in similar circumstances. Her advice was great and made all the difference, so now with weeks to go I'm finally getting excited and relatively chilled!!
Thanks Lala, i'll take a look at that check list :D
Lindsay, my mum and mil keeps asking me the same "are you sure everything is done" etc etc and yes for what i can think about everything is booked and sorted. i'm sure the next few weeks things will start to fit into place. Such as planning meetings with venues, florist, photographer, cake baker etc etc etc but i'm not worried ill cross that bridge when it comes to it! he he he xxx
Elinor, I do hope that i will enjoy the build up, i don't think i could cope if things started to fall apart now at the final hurdle so to speak xx Like you the only person ive not really spoken to much is the florist although i'm going to be ringing them today to book an appointment to discuss things further :D Good luck on your bridesmaids dresses!!
Rachel, sounds like you've had a mare of a time lately xx I hope things settle down enough for you to enjoy the big day so that you and your h2b can have a day to remember xxx
CommentAuthorDanielleH99
I was relaxed all the way up to today, I get married on saturday and ive had people tell me they can no longer make it and they have know for over a week they cant make it
CommentAuthorocean
People not being able to make it is totally coincidental init, some times it just can't be helped!
I just want to be relaxed throughout :) i'm sure i will be x
CommentAuthorBlue
I was stressing and faffing, and i hope i've remembered everything,. but then i thought if not it cant have been that important. I've been thru the checklist too. Hoping mines not the calm before a storm lol xxx
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CommentAuthorInDreamland
I was relaxed at that stage too. If you're organised and have your checklist all will be fine xx
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CommentAuthor*KelBel*
I wouldn't say I feel relaxed about it all, but I do sometimes get an anxious feeling that I'm going to forget something,and that it be something really simple but really important to the wedding . I'm making a checklist tonight of everything else I need to do and going to tick them off one by one once done x
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CommentAuthorDonnaH39
I hope I'm relaxed when we don't have that long to go
