I want to get married I want a big wedding which is what I'm getting but the amount of stress, annoyance of people and organisation is just stupid I read every bride mag, every comment e.c.t but it just doesn't get better and yesterday I said to my H2B f*ck it I don't want it not because I don't love H2B or doubt that just the stresss jezzz!!!! I don't even do loads of wedding planning either because most things are sorted somethings rattled my cage today I just don't know what
Just needed to rant a bit!
x
CommentAuthorJane
is it safe to come out from behind the sofa now??? x
think you need to have a chill out, maybe stop even thinking about wedding, at least for a few days, it can become overbearing otherwise and sometimes it feels like nothing else exists! open a bottle of wine, have some snuggly time with H2B and enjoy just being engaged for a while instead of being a bride to be, might help xxx
CommentAuthornickers
lol you rant all you want chick dont get to stressed if most things sorted you can relax just do them all gradually!!!xx
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
Hide the wedding mags for a while! Sounds like you have od'd on all things wedding. Rant on here as much as you want and we will listen! xx
I have a gorgeous husband!
2 brilliant wonderful boys, a wonderful life
in Cornwall. Happiest woman ever!
Now making our house a home. Blessing 2014.
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs Nicol
i agree with calla lily, just relax for a while and stop planning, thats what i have had to do and to be honest i feel better about it and so does h2b, plan a little then take a break, so far it has worked for us... hope you work it out.. :)
thats wat were here 4 hun, everyone rants to everyone..lol, ur ok hun xxx big hugs xx
georgina x~x
the little gypsy!!
CommentAuthorSuz80
Hun i was feeling like that a couple of weeks ago... Told h2b we should just elope to vegas or something.. he laughed at me and said..."who would deal with the family afterwards?!"... So i've decided to step back and not think about the wedding so much for a while.. it also doesnt help when its so far away and we allready have the biggest things booked and done. By doing that, i've noticed i'm not as stressed... think about it. Good luck hun xx
CommentAuthorloolabelle
Mrs Tyson to be, there is no rush u have over 2 years to do stuff, relax, think about this years hol or something put it on the backburner for a while, i just has a 3 week break from wedding stuff and am just beginning to get excited againx
Hurry up July31st I want to be Mrs Hall.
3 more sleep!!!
CommentAuthorKimi
take a break or even if you think its too much what about someone to do the planning for you and you just veto ideas :?
The days are flying by, can't wait :)
CommentAuthorToops
I had the samething MrsTyson, I swear my H2B was going to put me in a straight jacket, you could actually see my head spinning around. Eventually I came to terms that this is how it is going to be and most things I can't change so accept them and get on with it - bear in mind this is whilst I was having a glass (bottle?) of wine or two (hehehe). As per most comments, step away and chill for a while, you have plenty of time and then things will just fall into place. Good Luck :-)))
CommentAuthormrs pinkalice
if you've done all the main things i would say have a break from weddings for a while you got 28 months to go tonnes of time to arrange everything else xx
CommentAuthorLaura_Ann
I was getting exactly the same so we've decided to wait until 18 months before to start planning xx
CommentAuthorJay
join the club! i cant hide from stupid wedding planning just now though! *jay huffs in the corner*
CommentAuthorCeCe
MrsT2b .. relaxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx you have 2 years to plan..no need to be getting yer knickers in a twist this far away from the big day!
Oh and if peeps opinions aren't suitable..tell em to feck off and limit whom you speak to re wedding plans x
CommentAuthorcatch
aww! dear that's a shame l hope that you do feel better soon, god help who/what ever rattled your cage, if l was there l would swat!! them for you with all those bridal mags Grr!!!!!!
CommentAuthorKimi
Oh, I'm constantly bombarded with "ideas" from MIL - it's easier to nod or say "we'll see" and "maybe" a lot.
The days are flying by, can't wait :)
CommentAuthorPuddleduck87
Maybe you should have a break from it all. Your not getting married for 2 and half year yet you can afford to stop for a while. There isn't much to do this far in advance anyway! x
CommentAuthorMrsB
But thats the thing theres always something wedding I think its just the money which has got me like this I put money away once a week H2B every month (he gets paid monthly) and I think its because we can't afford to do much sometimes even buying an ice cream for our daughter is to much and I want to give my daughter everything (not material things) I mean taking her on days out and just doing what we want and I just can't and it upsets me and my grandma gave us £50 to take Tia out this weekend which we are but I just feel bad thats not my money thats my grandmas she gives me £30 a week as it is plus more and I can't get out of taking it as it upsets her she says theres only us to spend it on =/ I think thats whats bothering me and I can't not put money away or we'd be stuffed =( thanks girls I'm such a winger x
CommentAuthormomari
chill out.I need money this year for daughters school holiday ,for my holiday with children ,for my h2b tennis holiday .its around 2000 and we not have save yet half for it .money for next year wedding? we will think about Christmas time lol we live on just one salary and if grandma want take children out and pay for it its ok .relax
CommentAuthorKaya
Wedding are stressful hun.... loadsa married people I know have told me planning a wedding is the most stressful thing they've ever done. I'm soo stressed bout it all aswell.... cried, screamed, said I wanna call it all off... lol. I love h2b more than anything and can't wait to marry him, but planning the wedding is driving me mad!
Now Mrs Cobb!!!!!! :-D
CommentAuthorKimi
how about in exchange of receiving money from "grandma" you help grandma out with chores around her house or something so it at least feels like you're doing something for the money???
The days are flying by, can't wait :)
CommentAuthorCupCake
Mrs T ..... I think you need to put the whole event in perspective a little. You say you want, and are having a big wedding, but you have to ask yourself at what cost to my family? I think you need a break from it, and give yourselves a monthly treat, or you will go insaine by the time the wedding arrives! So what if you can't have EVERYTHING you want for that day ... whats more important?
1) Getting married to the man you love? 2) Buying and paying for things you could probably live without ( and still be as happy)
I am stressing out big time too, and driving everyone NUTS!!! but I am having to put the breaks on, or I think H2B won't even be here by next July, as I'm being so manic ATM! WE ALL need to CHILLAX a little me thinks ... it will all come good in the end.
