Ladies am too impatient and I don't want to wait but h2b is adamant it's gonna be 2014 and I really want a baby too and all my friends are having them and I feel a bit left behind tbh :( Anyone else impatient? X
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CommentAuthorIzzy_w
Yes! I am too!
My OH thought we'd be engaged for at least a couple of years (we have already been together for 9 years!), but I still have Grandparents alive who I am very close to and I want there. They are both in their mid 80s so I told him it'll be 2013 or not at all!
Either way hun, I dont think 2014 is really that far away. TIme flies when you're planning a wedding! All the extra time wil help you perfect all the details and have more time to save some cash!
CommentAuthorMrstalbot2b
I know how you feel I really would love to do it sooner but we just haven't got the money so wouldn't be able to have wedding of my dreams, we bough a house and done it up in last 2 years so lots of our money got on that, hopefully it fly by.
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CommentAuthorElliekitty
2014 will fly here! Don't worry, just because all your friends are having baby's now doesn't mean you have to too! Everything will come in time :) xx
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CommentAuthorNinaDawson
I'm just as impatient as you, I'm coming off the pill about two months before the wedding, can't wait to have a baby, but don't wanna be a shotgun bride
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CommentAuthorNicholaP44
I dont think because all ur friends r having babies is a good reason 2 want 1 hun. lol wait til its here, ur life is never ur own again. Enjoy ur freedom wile u can is wot I say!! x
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CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
I want babies n feel really left behind, half the people I went to school with have at least two kids n have been married for a few years or don't bother, I want a bambino really badly but tell hubby it's too soon at the moment
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CommentAuthorLauraJo87
Last year we booked for 2013 and it's coming round sooo quick! Don't worry it'll be here before you know it xx
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CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
Hope so! Does anyone know about the implant? I want to have it taken out before or wedding but don't want to be 'on' (sorry) for the day.... Would people advise I leave it till after the big day or risk it? XxxX
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CommentAuthorRosyF77
yes im at the point where i just want to go and book a registry office for in 6 weeks but i know deep down that i should wait untill 2014 so its extra special x its horrid waiting isnt it x
CommentAuthorSam
Not really impatient as it will happen when it happens.
CommentAuthorNicholaP44
I wud say leave the implant until after the wedding, just in case x x
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CommentAuthorShazk
You are so not alone I am SOOOOOOOOOO impatient and only waiting til 2014 as cant afford it any soone but like RosyF77 I would happily just go book registry office but I know deep down I wouldnt be totally happy with that so I just going to have to wait or hope to win the lottery xx
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CommentAuthorprincesspixie
I can understand why you're impatient but I don't think it should be rushed especially the baby part. Me and OH have been together for 5 years and engaged 18 months. We're now expecting our first child so had to postpone the wedding as I want to get rid of the baby weight before the big day. I'm very traditional so if everything had gone to plan I would be getting married next year and the baby the year after. Don't rush into everything enjoy the time you have now before everything comes at once xxx
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CommentAuthorlizzylou
Just waitm you've got the rest of your lives to do all of these things. Enjoy each other for a bit longer before you start worrying about a family. x
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CommentAuthormillz090
Haha, nice to know I'm not the only one. Our parents are contributing to our wedding a lot so we can get married next year as I'm desperate for kids and h2b is even more so. All my friends have children and even though we are only 25 and 28 so still young we just wanted kids before we were 30. I am coming off my pill in may but use condoms, get married in August and then can start trying. I didn't want to be pregnant on my wedding day but also been on the pill for 8 years so my body needs a break and doctor said it may take us a while as been on the pill for so long and it will happen when it does. Just be patient, when I get upset about it my mum reminds me I have my whole life with this man so an extra year is nothing in our life's xxxx
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CommentAuthorPrincess2be
Your not the only impatient one hun. Waiting will just make you want it all even more! x
CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
I am so impatient!! I have everything worked out in my head but cant book or pay for certain things yet as it is too early and we dont have the money! I would get married this year if I could afford it! As for the implant, my friend had this and had a bleed for nearly a month after, it wasn't heavy but it was constant so I would say leave it until after the wedding to have it removed. Your body won't take long to adjust, my other friend fell pregnant within 2 weeks of having hers removed! Millz 090, also be careful after coming off the pill if you dont want to fall pregnant within a certain time frame. My aunt came off the pill after being on it for 16 years and fell pregnant within 3 months. You can't take what a doctor says as gospel as it is all down to the individual and how their body reacts to things xxx
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CommentAuthorMissRyanxo
I'm getting married April 2014. I'm planning everything but when I tell people when the wedding is, they look at me like I'm crazy for planning it now, but I'm impatient too :( lol. it'll be here before we know it!!. xx
CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
Awe thanks girlies! I feel better knowing I'm not alone! An I think I will wait to have my implant out hmm maybe the Monday After we get married hehe! It's frustrating because by the time we do get married we will have been together 10 yrs haha xxxxx
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CommentAuthorLegoWife
I also know how you feel with the contraception issue. I wanna stop it now but it's probably not worth the risk until after the wedding. Damn impatience!
There's three of us on H2B's side of the family getting married and wanting babies and it feels very much like a competition at the moment and I'll be so glad once we're married so I don't feel part of this "must win at life" atmosphere cause it's so hard not to play into it!
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CommentAuthorlizzylou
Be careful coming off the pill too early, my bm did that thinking it would take ages to wear off and ended up pregnant on her wedding day!!!
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CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
That's the thing Lego bride... My 2 bestests are getting married next year and one already has a little who I just adore she's beautiful but I'm Deffo at the wanting to be a mummy stage! Lol
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CommentAuthorTatty
I want to get married tomorrow and have a baby the day after but sadly have to wait! Lilmisschuckles I would leave the implant in, I had mine out and was mega heavy for 2 weeks after x
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CommentAuthorKirstyM3690
lol like u all i wanna get married tomoro!! but i suppose they say good things are worth waiting for eh?? xxx
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CommentAuthorKellyN29
i want to be married now too :( apparently it will fly by but i'm not convinced, but i would leave the implant in if it is stopping things, strange things can happen when you change hormone levels. babies will come, enjoy your day first. waiting is horid tho!
CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
lol now am watching obem! hmmmm prob not the best move hehe x
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CommentAuthorJodyx
I was like this too, and managed to move it too next year, because i couldn't wait any longer :) xx
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CommentAuthorHelenW
I'd also like ours to be sooner, but there is no way we can possibly afford it! So for now we are having fun booking/choosing things every month. And I actually quite like that! Spreads out the planning in a nice way.. xx
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CommentAuthorAmyK
I'm impatient to get married too (and have babies if I'm honest - think I can feel my ovaries shrivelling up already)... but in terms of implants etc, perhaps keep it in til after the wedding and honeymoon - I assume you drink alcohol so maybe you'd want to be able to enjoy champagne or cocktails without the slightest worry of any potential damage. Plus, I can only imagine that tinkering with hormone levels at one of the most stressful times of your life wouldn't help much!!
CommentAuthornatalie2614
I know how you feel, but we originally had April 2014 in mind and had to bring it forward 12 months because h2b is going in the marines earlier now. So then it became panic stations to get everything sorted. Enjoy the time planning and perfecting things and saving up, I wish I had the luxury of saving up.
With regards to contraception, I had my implant out in May, went straight onto the pill, the woman in the clinic advised me that if I stop taking the pill my fertility resumed normal levels straight away, but with the implant it could have taken a few months. Maybe see about going onto the pill before your wedding, maybe 3 months before?
Probably TMI, but I never had a period on the implant, and havent had one since I went onto the pill in May. God knows what I'll be like when I eventually stop taking it to start trying for babies! xx
