Sorry its long, but have to tell you some background so that you understand the most recent argument.

My sister was always my mums favourite child, and consequently her children became the favourite grand children.
it was very upsetting, to know that she always loved her more than the rest of us, but more upsetting when her daughter got lovely xmas and birthday presents....and mine got something less than a fiver. My mum really didnt have time for me or my kids and I learned to live with it but it still upset me when my kids called her ''sarah's nanny'' like it wasnt THEIR nanny.....they wasnt being funny, they just thought she wasnt . and when I told them it was their nanny, they asked why she didnt love them.....I didnt know how to answer that.
Her daughter even had her own room at my mums, and stayed there with her friends and mum would be her slave while she was there.....feeding her chocolate and crisps and running around after her.
I often used to say get her to make you a cup of tea mum instead of you running around after her....she is 15 and you are 80....my mum always told me not to start.....that she WANTED to do it.

My sister was always borrowing money off mum to pay her debts, like thousands at a time, and never gave her it back, and i know for a fact that when my mum died, she still owed her £3,000.
yet when it came to sharing out my mums finances when she died, she held her hand out for her share.....she SHOULD have said take the £3,000 off mine because I owed mum that....but of course she didnt.

My sister always was the kind of B1TCH to want what others have got.....which is how she ended up with MY husband! and they are really unhappy and it couldnt happen to a nicer pair of twatz!

Anyway we shared out mums jewellery, and there was a lovely sapphire and diamond ring mum always said I could have, it fitted me and I loved it.
Well when she died guess who ended up with it...? yes of course she did. my sister.
Anyway my other sister told her that mum had promised it to me, and she said she will give it to me. 5 years later and still she hasnt. I imagine its only worth £2-300 .....not mega expensive but really nice. but the cost means nothing to me, its the sentimental value .

Anyway I resigned myself to the fact I wasnt going to get the ring, but my other sister....the nice one......went to see her the other day and asked if I could borrow the ring as my something blue....

My sister said NO.......she wont give me it back, and anyway I have given it to Sarah....(her fat ugly daughter) and if Anne wants to borrow it she will have to ask her permission.....

EX...FOOKING....SCUSE....ME???????

So I was straight on the phone and told her DONT judge me by your own stinking standards! I am not a theif and I would have given it back to you.....even though it was promised to me by mum.
I couldnt stop....I told her how I knew she still owed mum money when she died, and I think she is a disgusting person to sponge of an 80 year old.......

the next thing i see is Sarah....her daughter, has changed her profile picture to a picture of the ring!

So I emailed her and told her it looks hideous on her fat sausage fingers.....I asked her ''do you think I am jealous?'' and doing this only goes to prove what I said that you dont want the ring for sentimental reasons, but for greed and spite.....

You think its worth lots of money and that's why you want it.....

Through all of this, my sister hasn't had the guts .......to answer me

Her daughter emailed me back and threatened to kill me.....i just emailed her back and said........BRING IT ON FATTY!

I am FUMING!

Rant over...just wanted to vent.....(but somehow I dont feel better)

Yikes, I kinda have to agree with lows there, they're obviously causing the fuss about it cause they know it gets a rise out of you, which is pretty pathetic of them but you're better than that!

I wondered why you thought she was a teenager, then I re-read the post and I had said she was 15.
No, when she WAS 15 I used to say these things to mum, and my mum died 5 years ago, but when Sarah was a teenager she stayed at mums because she got spoiled there.

This is an on-going feud that never ends. This is the very first time I have retaliated.
My sister is a liar and a theif, her children have learned her ways. her son got his dad to take out a £3,000 loan to get a car....then sold it and never paid the loan. her other son was in business with his cousin...(my other sisters son) and he did the dirty on him by taking the business money out of the bank and closing the business down behind his back....

These things you dont do anyway...ESPECIALLY to family. but they have no morals.....

To be honest. I would not have anything to do with your sister or her family. She has done wrong to you in the past by going off with you then husband never mind anything else. She doesn't sound a very nice person and knows what buttons to press to us set you. Just ignore her, don't respond and just move on. Remember your better than that.

I agree with heather that you shhould just cut all ties. They're not worth your time to be honest.

As for the ring its a pity there wasn't a will stating that it was for you. Its probably not worth the cost or the hassle involved in going to court over it either sadly. :(

I'm a firm believer in Karma and have no doubt it will come back to bite them on the backsides one day. Until then take the moal highground and remember, everything you have in your life, not just material possesions but things like your morals and your manners and everything good you have in your life (including, i've no doubt, well mannered children as opposed to ones that expect life handed on a plate.) All came from YOU.

You never had your mum making things easy for you, which of course is sad, but in the same breath should be empowering to you. Knowing that your sister got all your mums affection along with her kids. But you and your other sister have gained so much more from life through your own doing as a result. *hugs*

what goes around comes around, im a firm believer in that and dont worry about having a rant thats what we re here for get it all off your chest, your`e better off without them in your life, keep your chin up and look forward to your lovely day x :-)

Oh hun, how awful! What a nasty piece of work. She and her family are like the bacteria on a flea!

Rise above it and cut all ties and ignore her and her nasty scummy family. Horrible horrible horrible.

What goes around comes around and they will all get their just desserts! Just not at your hands hun.

BIG HUG!
xx

so she gets to upset your daughter does her not have the b*ll*cks to say oi thats my daughter you're being a horrid slimy witch to?
i really do not understand why people end up with siblings like this h2b is 1 of 8 only 6 alive and all 4 siblings except one are lovely yet they are raised exact same way

all i can say is "what goes around comes back around not yet but it will come back to bite her on the a$$"

im not being funny but im 21 and since i was 18 i have done what i want im not a spoilt brat but my mum didnt know where i was half the time!!! he sounds like an utter ar$shole and by the sound of it your better of without him and her i really do desipe evil twisted people like that grrrr so mad on your behalf

raggedy anne the situation sounds like my mum and 'dad'. i feel for your kids and you too. it is a shame you cnat get your ring back, but best totally ignoring the lot of them. your kids know their dad is a useless, utless wonder and you have done the right thing through it all. sounds like hes having an attack of the guilty concience! try not to let them get to you xxx

I just hope they won't be there!

I really hope they don't just rock up xx

Could you brief management before so that if they do try to gatecrash they will be removed before they even make it to you?

If they try they will actually make themselves look terrible in public ..............imagine all your guests will just see even more how awful they are so yeah, hopefully they won't chance it xx

I have today bought off ebay an tiny little silver locket, which I will add a picture of my mum inside and add it to my bouquet.
I also have her watch too.

I am beginning to think its jealousy.
OK she wanted him and she got him.....boy didnt she do well? but they are unhappy and are only together because she is ill and cant work and pay the mortgage, and he stays because he has a stake in the house......what a good reason to be together?

They would both like to think I was moping around missing him.....c'mon its 17 years ago.....i think they would prefer if I was as miserable as them. the fact I am getting married , I think they are jealous because they dont have each others love.....they love themselves too much. they are both alcoholics, and my sister has Emphysema, which I dont wish on her or anyone, but the drink they could try and sort out.

crikey anne.... to be fair! u sound a gud lady to of been ever talkin to ure sister again after the nasty thing she did to u, as for this so called niece puttin a pic of ring on her profile... shes 32 not 12 shes immature and pathetic! and to be fair i wud be messagin poeple about it, my gran promised me this cup and saucer set ( u kno old style) all way through til she died wen i was 16, but last 2 years of her life the family had big fall out so no i dint get it and cos dont speak to anyone i always wonder who got it! and it does annoy me cos wen i was young i polished it etc ( sounds dumb lol)

chin up hun, they sound liek evil cows, and will have to life wiv wat they hav done... hope karma cums soon

Life is too short to waste time on people who suck the happiness out of you, karma will win in the end and you can walk with your head held high, self respect and dignity are worth more than they will ever have xx

I can't believe what I have read here, your sister sounds disgusting, and your niece is not much better!!

Her going off with my husband would of been the final straw for me.

Hugs hun your better off without her xx