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    • b2bnicola
      CommentAuthorb2bnicola
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    So i had a bit of a to-do with one of the staff members
    as shes ment to write down her hours weekly but shes sed that our boss (my dad) told her she didnt have too
    loooooad of rubbish
    so i told her manager that i wasnt happy and that i cudnt pay her without evidence of how many hours shes worked
    well shes ment to be "having a talk" with her atm and i buzzed her room to pass on sum information

    the phone must be up or something cos i can hear their conversation and have been able to for the last 15mins.......

    this member of staff and the manager are sat their calling me lol!

    i do believe our boss (my dad) will hear about this!!!!!!

    xx

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    • b2bnicola
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    (btw im the manager of the finance department lol for this story to make sense)

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    • Joolsy
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    OMG thats shocking x

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    • Suzi
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    LMAO cheeky so and so's..!!! I would send them both an email saying you have overheard everything and it will be dealt with in due course.. Scare the sh1t outta them lol...!!

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    • Roxii
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    Cheeky Sh!ts... x

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    • Eriksfjord
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    OMG - bet they will be wishing you hadn't heard them! xxxxx

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    • vintage lass
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    Im sure that was difficult to listen to hun....yes Id go to dad straight away without letting them know that youve overheard their conversation....you wouldnt want them to gang up and create a fabricated story (get dad to put them on the spot)!!!!!x
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    • b2bnicola
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    lol im still listening to them
    apparently they have a lot to say about me lol
    plus theyre also ment to be working and theyre just sat downstairs talking about how their kitchen is gettin fixed, hwo they wud improve the company, what their having for tea.... ive not heard the keyboard type once lol

    heheeeeee toooo funny!!!

    nice to hear im "imcompetent" tho lol xx

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    • Joolsy
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    omg i would get your dad in and let him listen aswell x

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    • Suzi
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    Yeah I agree with Joolsy!

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    • b2bnicola
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    oh and thyve decided to leave early "cos they dont see why not" lol xx

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    • Roxii
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    I hope you're recording this.. :P x

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    • nickers
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    That is terrible bet ur fumin!!get them bloody sorted out chic x

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    • claire1984
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    i agree with Roxi - u should be recording :D x

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    • ammo
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    oooooooooh what happened.
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    • Joolsy
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    I know what happened did they leave early and did you tell your dad??x

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    • marypenguins
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    Oh my god... LOL! Naughty and nasty people! x
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    • Stevie_Dee
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    Lol you must tell us what happened! How sweet to hear all that, the amount of ways you could go about it now to watch them squirm! Not that Im vindictive but nice to know they could get what they deserve. xx

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    • welshcerys
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    Come on Nic - tell us!! (Just thought I'd bump the thread up girls!)
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    • kellyc13
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    lol, come on were all dying to know what you did, hope you recorded it for your dad. bet their regretting it now

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    • mrs pinkalice
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    hahaha busted!! defo pass that on hun xx

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    • cecileinlondon
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    b2bnicola did you sort out your dilema?
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    • catch
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    oh dear!!
    l hate it when one person say's one thing(employee) and some one else says another (bossdad) and then you are caught in the middle, which has lead to the employee thinking that you are pulling rank and having a go!!! as they see you as bossman daughter and not the job you do!!
    let's all face it girls we have had day's like that when a conversation has went totally off the wall you know you could fa rt but by the time it got round the room ( chinese whisper ) you have sh it yourself lol
    so you have all had a bad day and all having a rant!! just given that you are bossdad daughter the girl has gone off on one
    l would find out if bossdad did tell her not to bother clocking her hours, as men are impossible sometime!!!
    then think about what you said to upset her!!
    do tell her you have heard her conversation as she lambbasted you because she was mad as hell with you!!
    and see if you can sort it out, she possibly thinks you don't like her, and maybe that you have picked on her because you are bossdad daughter,
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    • b2bnicola
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    im here........

    so basically they did end up leaving without saying goodbye to me, and they left the door open - which theyre not allowed too cos we're on a front street and i work upstairs so them leaving without letting me know leaves me vulnerable.... but obv i heard that theywere going to leave so i waited 5 mins then shut the door lol.

    my dad came back into the office and i told him everything.
    i told him useless points of the conversation like the kitchen guy is coming at 11am to one of their houses just to prove to them that i did overhear everything.
    but i told him i listened to them from 4:15 till 4:45 not doing 1 single piece of work and that they were discussing puttin 445 as the time that they left.
    i also told him that i dont appreciate being called incompetent and for a manager to be nice to my face then disrespect me to a lower grade member of staff is bang out of order and im not puttin up with it.
    ive asked to be treated as a member of staff and not his daughter and i want something done about it.

    checked with bossdad and hed told her to write down her hours (as its been since she started working here) so i was definately in the right, and he also informed me that the manager involved also had a talk with him on friday gone regarding her writing down the hours - so they both knew she had to do it!
    its not like shes singled out tho cos everyone gets paid by the hour so everyone has to hand in how many hours u work each week!

    oooo no v43 this girl involved basically 2 months ago got disciplined cos she was found out *by the manager involved in this situation* that she was claiming at least 10 hours extra a week that she wasnt working so she was in trouble with the bossdad as its fraud... since then bossdad and manager have been keeping a close eye on her to make sure shes doing her work. she knows i wasnt involved in that situation though, im just the one who pays the wages and produces reports and shes been fine with me up until yesterday.

    my bossdad is going to deal with this today so ill let you's all know what happened!

    xx

    Happily Married! :) xxx


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    • lala "mod" bunni
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    sack them both

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    • b2bnicola
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    lol wud love too
    i hate the manager shes caused soooo many problems for this company - and is currently doing a qualification within work hours that has NOTHIN to do with the job shes employed to do so shes basicallly making a mug out of my bossdad!
    and that other lass i quite liked, she was alright (bar the fraud) but obv now i know her real feelings towards me.

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    • nickers
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    Get them sorted today chic its shocking!!!!!!!!!

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    • b2bnicola
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    Quite nervous actually
    Ive worked here 2 years and ive never had a problem - i know its going to be difficult for my bossdad to deal with but i just hope he doesnt brush it under the carpet like he does with most things in this company!
    xx

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    • nickers
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    Ye im not suprised you are chic well god luck just think you done nothing wrong its them being irresponsible xx

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    slap them all the buggers lol

    trip them up as they walk lol xx

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    • Lauren&John
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    Good Luck chick i hope they get whats coming to them silly cows!!! x
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    • stacey
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    i'm so sorry that you had to put up with that behaviour some people are really immature and if they are skipping work to have a natter then that is where the incompetence lies, hope it gets sorted for you :-)
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    • b2bnicola
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    my bossdad is being very weird with me this morning, hardly said two words to me!
    both of those 2 women arent in yet - cos obv they come in whenever they feel like it!
    xx

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    maybe its cause he's away to give them into trouble but dont want it gettin alkward for u ? xx

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    • b2bnicola
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    Ok so one of them is in and she's come straight up and appologised (the girl who i had the todo with not the manager)
    She's going thru the change apparently so its making her quite snappy

    She did prefusly appologise tho!

    Just the manager to see now........ dun dun duuuuuuuuun

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    • Joolsy
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    Lol Nicola at least she apologised!! Wonder what will happen with the manager x

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    • b2bnicola
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    shes not in today!
    cant believe shes just took today off
    x

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    • Joolsy
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    Geez oh I was waiting for the fireworks aswell!!

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    • b2bnicola
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    I know me too :(
    Everyones confused as to why she hasnt showed up considering her time was down last week.....
    Hmmmm.....

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    • Mrs fairytale
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    wow only just caught up with the posts, what b itches, if people dont have the guts to say it to your face then they shouldnt be saying anything behind your back, do u think that may be she has found out some how that she is in the poo and just doesnt want to face it xx

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    • b2bnicola
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    nah she usually just takes days off wen she feels like it lol xx

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    • Mrs fairytale
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    oh god i wouldnt mind a job like that lol xx

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    • nickers
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    Sounds like she cant bear to come in and confront you lol she should watch what she is saying!!least other ones said sorry does that help or i bet you srill well annoyed xx

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    sounds like she needs to be sacked if she's blatently not turning up for work :P

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    • lou
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    ow my god, how funny (sorry) but i mean i would sack them both hun x
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    • lala "mod" bunni
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    has she (manager) still got holiday owing???? surely she could be running out if she does this all the time ......

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    • Jay
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    lol what an effort this was to catch up with! What b!tches! idve sacked them just for being b!tches! cant believe the manager didnt turn up though! x
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    • b2bnicola
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    yup!
    and to make things just super at work
    my bossdad had a "talk" with the manager
    and she completely defended everything that she said about me..... and that was it!!!! it was dropped!!!!

    so evidently not only can she get away with doing no work cause shes too busy with college work (college work that every other staff member does in their own time), she can take a day off without letting anyone know and still get paid for full weeks work she can now get away with taking the p i s s out of the boss' daughter who happens to be a manager herself!!!!!!

    i cudnt be more annoyed with my dad right now!!!!!

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    • Jay
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    have you expressed your ragingness to your dad?x
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    • Lindsey Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
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    i think id be a little annoyed as well....its just not on at all. I ope your dad sees sense and sorts her out!
 

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