me and ross have been so stressed because we genuinely did not believe we'd be able to pay off the wedding. We still have £3400 to pay to the reception, £100 to the bagpiper and £350 to the photographer, then on the day £250 to the church and £250 to the limo company let alone all the extras. The fact of the matter is we just dont have the money ( we did but its a long story ).
Anyway!... We were just down at my dads girlfriends and he has said on wednesday hes going to go and pay off what we owe, and we'll pay him back monthly!
This is the most amazing thing and i can't actually believe that it's now happening! Ive been so stressed and this morning me and ross were discussing our other options, we were pretty much going to land up in a heap of debt with no wedding. I even emailed the wedding reception to say i don't think were going to be able to do it.
I genuinely cant believe this is happening. I think ive gone into shock! this is just amazing! sorry for the gush but when my dad was saying it he started to cry, and said i cant afford to give you it but i can afford to loan you it. Ive never seen him cry! What a day!!! i now dont feel like such a wedding fraud! ITS HAPPENING!!!!!!!!!!!!! yaay!!!

aw Jay thats sooo cool what a kind daddy you have! yay it can all happen now :) :) :) x

That is absolutely wonderful, I bet you are thrilled. Your dad sounds like an amazing person and very proud of you! xx

Oh that is brilliant news, especially as you don't have long before the big day - think your dad deserves big hugs and kisses. :-))

well in our invites weve asked for money towards our honeymoon as opposed to gifts so the honeymoon may be sorted x

What brilliant turn up for the books babe, I'm soooo happy you can now get married!!! I bet you're dead excited??

thats brill news Jay :-) xx

Im still stunned, Ive turned into uber hyper jay! Ive just done jess's hair trial for the day and got her in her flowergirl dress etc, she looks gorgeous! Im truly thrilled, 2 things i cant seem to find are a black shirt age 18months and a black suit jacket age 18months, anyone got any hints?x

yeah ebay was a miss! i never ever thought id have to say that! but ebay had noubt, im currently bidding on jaydens shoes and may kill if i get outbid, theres only 4 mins left and ill cry lol.
tried john lewis, debenhams, h & m, asda and marks and spenser, and next. im a bit stuck now x

Wooh! won the shoes, i hate sniper bidders! tried next and bhs! Im running out off options and i dont think i have a local market?? x