Ok, so I thought this would be an easy thing to do, but its turned out as being quie awkward now...

Story is, my best friend from school got back in touch around a year and half ago and we got friendly again and she asked me to be her Moh at her wedding last year in August. I was really happy she asked me as didnt expect it but the day was fab, I see her on and off we sometimes meet up for food once a week for a couple of weeks but then I wont see her for maybe a month and then well see each other again...its like that...

When I told her I was getting married I said to her she could be Moh as she had already married so could help me out alot and she had also took me to view a venue, I felt obliged to ask her as she had asked me.

THEN,

There's My Best friend, we've grown up together, we lived next door to eachother throughout childhood originally I was close to her sister who is a year younger and my sister was friendly with her as she is 3years younger but this has changed over the years due to us working together and having children we have more common ground, we spend alot of time together I see her throughout the week every week PLUS she asked me to be her daughters God mother as a surpise in her christening the beginning of this year!

I want her to be my Moh as she is as excited as I am, I think she just 'thinks' she is as we are so close and Im doing all my wedding ideas/planning with her... she wants to help me with everything and has seen me in the dress whereas my other friend I havent asked to go dress shopping with me or anything...

How do I let one of them down...I feel so guilty :(

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i think what lisa said could be good if you want to do that it might stop argument and u can have them both in your wedding xx

i got my sister being MOH cos she married shes sittin on top table n doin a reading in church. My best friend thats not married is CBM and shes signing the register! she dint wanna sit on top table cos shes not too confident lol