Basically myself and my husband got married in 2012, We had a big ish wedding a lot of input from family, we must do this and that! We had a lot of problems on the day which is always bought up! i was 1 hour and 45 minutes late due to not having a dress delivered on time,it was then two big and she forgot my vail and headdress, Photos are not what we wanted (style) I cried the whole way down the aisle and can't actually remember the service! I remember it as one huge mess of a day.
So me and my husband were thinking about renewing out wedding vows, We have been married only 4 years this august! he said celebrate 5 married years together? personally is that to short? i know its our choice but would like to get someone else's advice.
Thank you for reading my post x
CommentAuthorFayeJ67
As its a "do over" as opposed to just a renewal I think you will be fine! Maybe word the invites such that people know why you are renewing so soon
CommentAuthorMrs T Hurley!
It's definitely OK! I have heard of a couple renewing their vow every year on their wedding anniversary. Although I personally wouldn't do it, I thought it was lovely. You will be making more wonderful memories with your husband and that is never a bad thing x
Met 18/09/03
Engaged 06/09/08
Getting married 05/09/17
CommentAuthorStephH96
I would have said 5, then 10 years etc. You don't have to have a massive thing if you don't want to, but then you may want another 'big day' done your way the way you wanted it first time round. I think its lovely to go for next year, go for it! :)
CommentAuthorFutureMrsW
If you can sort it for next year then do it! Most people who will be there will know that the first time round wasn't as you planned.
You definately have the ok on this one. Do it as soon as you would like the way you would like it. You can look back on it and finally smile
CommentAuthorEmily17
I don't see an issue. Its reaffirming your love for each other so doesn't matter if you do it 1 month after or 30 years. It still has the same importance xx
Met in 2009
He proposed Jan 2014
Will become Mrs P 7th October 2017
CommentAuthorHannahB6329
Aww thank you all so much :) I've spoken to a friend about it all and she said it would give my family something to look forward to (My mum passed away suddenly last year) I quite fancy a afternoon tea type of thing (if possible) X
CommentAuthorFutureMrsW
Hannah that sounds like a lovely idea. My condolences about your mum. Mine also passed away last year . Hope you are coping OK x
CommentAuthorDanielleG93
i agree with everyone else hannah, so sorry to hear about your mum too. afternoon tea sounds really lovely we are doing a sort of vintage garden party theme so lots of flowers tea lights in jam jars and that sort of thing x
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2nd September 2017
CommentAuthorMrs T Hurley!
We're having afternoon tea at our wedding! So sorry to hear about your Mum. Some companies let you hire the china as well as provide the food x
Met 18/09/03
Engaged 06/09/08
Getting married 05/09/17
CommentAuthorHannahB6329
Thank you for your kind words, Im getting there slowly with my loss holding everyone up isn't easy!
Ive got a vision of what i would like :) Hopefully can make it happen! this was actually my husbands idea to renew which is lovely :) I didn't realise there were companys that hired china and did food also, this afternoon i will see if anyone is in my area! x
CommentAuthorMichelleC961
I just replied on your other post, but I dint know the background, so I woukd say def try for next year, seems you almost need closure on the disaster of your first day- it will give you all something positive to look forwards too as well :-)
I too lost my mum suddenly due to an aggressive cancer nearly 2 years ago so know how hard it is xx
CommentAuthorInDreamland
Plus there's nothing to stop you having a celebration again at 10 years too x
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
CommentAuthorHannahB6329
Hi Ladies
sorry I've not replied i have 2 unwell children! We have decided to go for next year, Were looking at a venue tomorrow and I'm hoping its perfect!!
CommentAuthorStephH96
Lovely, great news let us know how you get on
CommentAuthorFutureMrsW
That's fab, congratulations. Looking forward to hearing about the planning x
CommentAuthorHannahB6329
The place is beautiful!! Its our taste and everything, I walked in and could picture everything tables chairs, what colours we would have! Were just waiting for a email to price up everything :) I keep checking my emails to make sure. Im like a child in a sweet shop x
CommentAuthorMichelleC961
Fab news :-)
CommentAuthorMrs T Hurley!
Ooh exciting times hannah! x
Met 18/09/03
Engaged 06/09/08
Getting married 05/09/17
CommentAuthorHannahB6329
Price is fantastic!!!! and under budget. I can't wait now :) going to pay the deposit tomorrow morning. I actually can't remember feeling this excited the first time around x
CommentAuthorMrsBU2B
Fantastic Hannah, hope everything goes well for you this time around. Being excited is a good sign
