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    • Peach
      CommentAuthorPeach
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    I am struggling to commit to buying anything for the wedding because i keep changing my mind on the colour scheme. We only got engaged at the begining of March and i have since changed my mind from Pink to being completely certain about purple then last night i go and decide i like royal blue! Is this normal and how many times did you change your mind?




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    • MrsSaraParry!
      CommentAuthorMrsSaraParry!
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    We changed our minds just the once. We were set on having apricot then realised that we couldnt get any nice dresses for the bridesmaids in it, so now we have sky blue instead. But i've changed my mind loads of times on flowers - have made a final decision now though and they're ordered so cant change my mind again! haha xx
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    • Suzie Bear
      CommentAuthorSuzie Bear
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    So far we haven't changed our minds on anything - but we did talk ALOT about weddings before we got engaged so we had already kinda planned what we wanted x

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    • Stevie_Dee
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    Too many times to remember! xx

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    • Ataraxia
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    Oh about a million times! :)

    I'm the most indecisive person in the world. This might make you feel better!

    We've changed date 2 times, soon to be 3 times once we hear back.... we've changed colour scheme from various shades of blue to pink/orange/purple/yellow to red to "I don't care anymore".... erm, what else... oh, I can't choose a wedding dress because I keep changing my mind! And we've changed countries from Spain to UK to back again. We bought a wedding ring set, only for me to decide I don't like mine and want a thinner band... I've had 6 BMs in total... sacked 2 and now we've downgraded the wedding, I'm even thinking 4 is too many! :P

    Definitely doing Spain now. Will not be budged on that! But I'll probably change my mind about another million times before the day :P

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    • x~Hails~x
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    We've not changed our minds on colours or themes or anything like that which is a good job as ive got lots already and we are on our 4th date (kinda as we havent actually got a date at the mo) and we have changed our minds on venue 3 times as well.
    As we were going to get married here in one place but changed to the disney pavillion in florida but because of family we are now staying here in the best place EVER lol

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    • Peach
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    Thank You ladies, i thought i was going crazy. I think i am going to (try) wait until at least January 2012 before i buy anything needing colour co-ordination oh and maybe the wedding dress. Don't know if i will last that long, lets see haha xxx




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    • Kat
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    The only thing we (and by that I mean me) have changed our minds about so far are the style of our invites, I've pretty much made them now though so no going back now

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    • janetx71
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    to many to remember im still doing it lol xxx
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    • Peach
      CommentAuthorPeach
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    Oh Kat we are both in Hull where are you getting married? x




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    • Kat
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    Cave castle. You?

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    • suzky123
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    changed colour scheme 8 million times. Changed flowers 5 times. not changed anything else.... oh nearly changed shoes and still debating. Jewellry keeps changing too.

    cant wait to be Mrs Evans less than 3 weeks woooo
    start weight 10st 1.5 lbs
    weight now 8st 4.5 lbs
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    • Nerdette
      CommentAuthorNerdette
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    Um... about a hundred times on a hundred different things. Usually when I need to rein in the budget.
    I'm STILL changing my mind about things. I've probably spent 1/4 of my original budget on d@mn samples!

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    • Soon2beMrsHall
      CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
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    We have changed colours, Venue, Dresses, suits, Flowers

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    • sam73
      CommentAuthorsam73
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    ive not changed my mind on colour scheme but i have on my dress, i have bought another....so now i have 2! i am beginning to change my mind on flowers - i have already bought the BM's - 4 of them im just all up in the air at the mo!
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    • Jill
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    I am very indecisive - or am i? lol

    I question every decision I've made, and I always think other peoples things sound good so want to do that too lol got the reception venue, band, church and photographer as on these occasions I knew exactly what I wanted and these things definitely wont be changed. I've thought about downsizing but probably wont, my colour scheme will stick I think (gold, ivory, brown) but everything else is waiting until much nearer the time to book. Apart from the guest coach which doesnt matter to me anyway as long as I get the best price! Been looking at cars tonight and cant decide between the beauford or mercedes s-class.... decisions decisions! x

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    • ClareS
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    Hey Kay, we kind of had our colour scheme but I've changed my mind on my dress sooo many times. with regards venue we were torn between rowley manor and Tickton Grange, that was until we went to Lazaat's and we fell in love with the place. As you know I've been collecting things already, even my bargain shoes from ebay! x

    Kat Cave Castle is lovely!
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    • CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
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    we seen a selections of venues and decided on 2 places. we orginally was going to put a deposit down on one place in southport but considering everything we put it down on somewhere else xxx
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    • hlaraine1
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    we are on about our tenth version of invite, changed the number of bridesmaids, chosen a bigger venue for the reception so we can invite more people.
    i have no idea what sort of dress i want for me or for the bridesmaids, sort of decided on colour but that may change yet. oh and we changed the date we wanted to allow us to get a better time for the service.

    its definately not just you

    laraine
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    • MrsMelodyWalker
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    Lot's and lot's and lot's of times!

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    • Julie Walker x
      CommentAuthorJulie Walker x
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    The only thing I actually kept was the date and venue! From September last year I was banned from all future wedding fairs by H2B lol I have changed the car, the cake, the dj, the choc fountain, the amount of people in the bridal party, the florist has now finished going grey because of me.
    lol bit late now to change anything. I think it's safe to say your not on your own hunny lol xxx

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    • Lil' Cakes
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    500,000,000 times exactly :) xx
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    • linzi
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    we are forever changing our minds! my original theme was purple and thistles. Then it went to purple and baby pink. Now its lilac, silver diamonds and pearls! (my dress has now got a lot to do with the theme)

    also bought loads of things that I dont want to use anymore, cause have changed my mind! Even now we are changing our mind about the actual service, and having a religious one instead of civil!

    and keep going from big wedding to small wedding, then back again! lol

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    • spooney24
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    No we never changed anything, went with our first idea and just stuck to it. Which is rather amazing for me as usually I change my mind quite frequently lol.

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    • P
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    We have changed from a civil to a church wedding after watching the royal wedding, I have changed the colour of bridesmaids, and I have changed the amount of bridesmaids, one thing I was certain on was my dress and the tradition suit that H2B would be having and for me that is pretty good because I always doubt the decisions I make.
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    • MrsL2Be
      CommentAuthorMrsL2Be
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    Oh we have changed our minds so many times.. When we first got engaged back in 07 original date was 09 but then we decided to have a baby so pushed it to 2014 but then last yr changed our mind to a definate 2012 LOL...

    And the colour originally was gonna be white and Gold but now we've settled on Burgundy and can't change our minds as already have the favour bags ..

    Then we was gonna have only 2 witnesses and people in the evening then renew vows abroad in 10yrs time now were keeping it to family.. Plus we've changed from registry office to church but sticking with r.office as its been booked!! Now on Venue lol.. Changes quite alot hehe xx
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    • Liz3yy
      CommentAuthorLiz3yy
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    I have changed my mind countless times over different wedding related things, my dress - whether to have white or not, the evening reception, evening venue, whether to have someone walk me down the aisel, colour schemes......I'm so indecisive, drives OH mad!

    Can't wait until the day I become Mrs. Johnson :)


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    • Peach
      CommentAuthorPeach
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    Oh thank you ladies i feel much better now and have decided to try and not buy things (see how long that trying lasts ha) for now. When we booked the original date which was the 11th August we left the vicar's house and in his front drive, before getting into the car i told my H2B i didn't want the date and i didn't even know why ha xx




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    • ClareS
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    Nothing like keeping him on his toes! Probably knew you wouldn't be granted the leave from work ;) x
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    • madison_uk
      CommentAuthormadison_uk
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    i had a spell of changing ideas every other day, if i went to a wedding fair that was it id see something else, so far ive changed the theme twice colours are the same, date once and outfits for best man etc I'm on my third and even seen something that looks better, its never ending




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    • Mina
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    too many times to count :)
 

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