hi girls,

i just wondered how many people you have coming to your wedding? we are having 40 people for the day and probably 60 in the evening. just seems like a small amount.. its mostly family and just a few friends. but none of h2b family wants to come so its just my side - who he feels closer to anyways but it just seems like its not gonna be very nice for him if its all my family and my close friends. he only has a couple bless him.
what do you all think?
xxx

think we're having 50 for the day maybe 60 and then 100 in the evening. Just depends where we go and who we ask! i have a big family...

It looks like were having the smallest at 30-35. Its only family.

amy - do you feel a bit bad for your h2b? cos i know he doesnt mind, and to be honest the way they treat him i am sort of glad that they are not coming, but im not happy that it was them that chose they didnt want to come. i know he feels more a part of my family anyway and always has cos we're all really close and he says he is happy having it the way it is. am just worried he will feel differently as the day comes closer xxx

we are having 65 day 150 night it seems a lot now i've read everyone elses !

We're having 80 for both day and evening do.

cece - thats true, at least we have just the people we want!!! i feel a bit better now about it not being as many people. :D xxx

We are having about 57 in the day ( 8 will be kids under 5 ) then anpther 60 at night ... Littlegerald HOW MANY??????!! OMG! :0

its not the fact its not many people thats bothering me i dont think, i think its more that none of his family will be there, and that makes me sad for them. but its their loss and they never did bother with him anyways so i guess he is better off without them!!! xxx

we are haveing 85 during the day then 150 in the evening, l have big family but h2b only has one sister her hubby, his mum n dad his daughter n hubby and two nieces, the rest are mine lol we couldn't invite friends during the day as l have seven sisters two brother several nieces n nephews and thier partners, we are haveing a lot more in the evening at that only cost £10 per head for buffet, l work for big company and h2b is submariner x

Pinkie - just a wee secret .. I will have my Dad at the wedding and he is the only member of my family invited (there is also a chance he may not turn up too!). Your H2B needs to be reassured your guests are there for you both..and if you have invited good friends etc he will spend minimal time assessing the lack of his family there!

There loss not his...

We're having 95 in the day (all immediate family, or very close friends.. I come from a very fertile family.. haha, so hope no more sprogs are born before then! lol) and then an extra 60/70 in the evening.. but that could change in 4 years... gosh.. no wonder it's clocking up to soooo much money!!
yes i'm very organized, the bride guide thingy told me to book a great venue you're best off booking years in advance.. so we are going to... as soon as we pick between our 3 favourates... :) x

we are having 70 for the day and the evening is at a min of 120 but will probs reach 160 through friends coming but we can invite as much as 240 for evening all is included in the price lol but only good friends and family coming i work at asda so have a lot of friends there and my mum is one of 11 and wants most of them there and his family is huge too and he has a step dad who he is close to his family too and my best friends im practically family t them too so thats why ours is so big that an my mum demands it lol

Our venue only holds 40 max, for the ceremony and that includes registar and photographer. Its family and a coupld of really close friends for us. x

65 to ceremony and wedding breakfast 130 to reception

we're having 70 for the day and 160 in the evening. even then thats leaving some extended family out! x

200 for the whole thing.

And no one will be there who we dont want there - each and every one of them is VERY important to us both.

I happen to have a large family, and we each have a MASSIVE circle of friends - not just "acquaintances". We're bikers.... i think that says it all.

Dont worry about how many people are coming to your wedding - it doesnt matter if its 20 or 200 honey x

i am having 50 guest to ceremony, as that is the most the registry office can hold. then for the evening im having 70 in total so not a huge one but big enough for us xxx

were having 160 in the day and around 260 to the evening and trust me, they are very cut down guest lists. If we had the money it could easily have been up to 350 - 400. That is still with some family cut out and having close friends who have been around all my life. Our list has caused many arguments due to the fact that we have had to miss some key people out of the day bit and they got offended, but we simply cannot afford to invite anymore! They understand now. In the day but there will be only family and no one distant, we only have brothers, sisters, grand parents, uncle and aunties! we have big families!

we have 164 coming to both... thats family and about 30 friends... lol

51 in the day and approx 150 in evening x

approx 50 in the day and 80 in evening

looking at about 90 for the ceremony, 60 for the wedding breakfast and 250 for the evening xx

we'er looking at about 45-50 for the day & weddding breakfast, plus 50 more probably for the evening hun.. xx

We are having about 65 in the day and between 150-200 in the evening. Most of them are H2B family and friends, as my family is quite small x