Wedding Forum - How many are you having?...

Your do hun you should do it your way x

i was thinking of having a night in with the girls but dont really have a space big enough haha im not really one for partying so might just see if perople want to go for a meal then maybe have a quiet drink x so just the one! x although might have a gett ogether with my bms the night before so does that count as one??
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Sounds good I aam having two one main hen do organised by moh and then one calle last night of freedom so my best friends who are male aand some friends who are better in smaller groups are able to come :) x

i invited 21 people i think and 18 came and it was a great night! we went to a theme night at a local hotel, 3 course meal, disco and cocktails for £20 each and they all donated £5 for the hen night gear

I just want 1 for friends, I'd be happy with a meal out and then a few drinks somewhere.

However work have told me that I'll be going straight the pub on the last day of work before the wedding, and told me to expect a hangover the next day!

I had a similar problem and then found it hard to find something that would suit everyone whilst thinking about money. I ended up having 5 and can honestly say I've had a fab time.

1 was with a group of us mums from school having a bite to eat then drinks
2 was with girls from work having a meal at the casio and drinks afterwards
3 was a spa day with bm's and a few work colleagues
4 was a meal with 3 other close friends
5 was afternoon tea at betty's with my mum, aunt, sil, siltb, mil2b, sister/moh and friend/bm

Everyone said they really enjoyed it. That way people picked which bit they wanted without feeling uncomfortable and having to lay out loads of money. I know you can do all the above in a weekend but not many of us could have been available for a full weekend away etc
Thanks what worked best for me anyway and wouldn't change a thing :) x

I want 2
1 big night out with all the girls
and a day do with close family and friends

i had 3!!!!!! my main one was a alice in wonderland themed tea party but without the tea it was alkyfrol....second was the "kids" one a chinese takeaway and party games and my third was a spa weekend with my bridesmaids and mum......brilliant fun xxx

Im having a night out and ive got around 34 girls coming but ive sorted a party coach and our own vip room with games to try get everyone interacting with each other for the first half of the night, then im sure everyone will break off into groups once we hit the dance floor then re-join at the end of the night for transport home.

Im also thinking of doing a meal with some of the girls at work who dont like clubbing and all my friends so can chat and relax :)

Go for it ive know people to have 4 different hen dos!