Hey ladies,

So was just wondering how much your H2B's are involved in the wedding prep because at the moment I seem to be doing more than half of the work lol I know that he is currently living abroad and he is really supportive and happy to let me choose most things but I'm hoping it's one of those he gets more involved closer to the time things. I think it'll be easier once he's in the UK with me (his contract finishes in a few months :-)) but i've got a couple of friends who are getting married and while one of their blokes seems to be very proactive the other is letting my friend do everything. I guess i'd like something in the middle. Of course I don't expect him to help me choose the flower decorations or spend hours looking for the perfect wedding favours but should I encourage him to get more involved? We're getting married next August and so I feel like we still have loads of time to do stuff together, right? xx