Okay so between me and H2B we have 7 nieces n nephews plus a daughter of our own. We want to incorperate the family but there's too many kids for our budget.
H2B sister has 2 girls and a boy and his brother also has 2 girls and a boy. I have 1 niece. We were thinking of have our daughter as the main flower girl plus H2B sisters oldest daughter n his brothers oldest daughter plus my niece.
He wants his oldest nephew to be page boy but I feel guilty leaving out the other nephew n nieces. Should we just have our daughter as flower girl or have a few nieces n nephews too???? Or is there any rolls the others can have =S

I would just have your daughter as BM, I think it would cause arguments if you have some nieces and nephews and not others! What is the problem with the budget hun, it is buying their outfits? Feeding them? I only ask because there are other ways round this problem!! x x

i am having all my nieces 5 and nephews 2 but the parents have all said they will pay for the outfits as it will only be a cheap white dress from debenhams and a waist coat for the boys but i will be buying the sashes and tieras x x

i think it would be better just to concentrate on your daughter, else you will have to have everyone and then the budget will be enormous x

The parents would be made up that their little angel, lol, would be in your day that they wouldn't mind paying for the outfit, but there are also lots of sites out there that do really good dresses at great prices, i will put link on your wall just so you can look. I got my wedding shoes/boots off this site, and i love them! x

Well we had this problem H2B has 1 niece and 1 nephew.. and I have 4 nieces (well 3, but 1 on the way) and 2 Nephews... So I have just explained to everyone that Kev's oldest niece and My oldest Nephew (who I also have helped bring him up since birth) Will be the only one's as it is 1 from each side and they are both the same age, there isn't anymore nieces or nephews that are the same age and we only want 1 fg and 1 pb...
Everyone understood cause I didn't ask I told them that's what we wanted and that's what was happening (obviously I asked the Kev's sister if Phoebe could be FG.. and Didn't need to ask about my Nephew.. everyone already summised he would be anyway! xx

I was going to suggest that you ask the parents if they wouldn't mind contributing otherwise you wont be able to afford to have them all and I am sure they wont mind, its 2 years away so by giving them plenty of notice it shouldn't be a problem. Don't forget to shop around as well hun, I found a fabulous site that does boys 5 piece suits for £27.99. So there are definitely bargains to be had :o) x x

I'd just have your daughter as BM to be honest and leave the rest out but that's me lol.

who ever you pick just make sure its the right choice,editing photographers pictures is expensive,make sure its someone you trust