My best friend since 13 married someone I new at 18 and moved to Newcastle leaving everything behind for him she knew nobody in Newcastle, we don't speak much anymore and i've missed her so much =/ I live east yorkshire so thats far away from there anyways she rang me today to tell me her husbands been with someone else buying her really expensive gifts, and she known a month and he said its all her fault shes coming back to Hull tomorrow I just don't know what to say I mean shes only 19 been married only a year and he kind of blamed me to saying he wished he'd never met me which I couldn't careless about how he feels or what he thinks I just feel like its partly my fault for them meeting, shes in loads of debt because of him, I'm just glad he did it now in a way so she can start again I don't know how to help her, how do you help someone when things like this happen? =/

It's a shame you didn't see much of her, newcastles only 2 hours from yorkshire!!

But i agree with jo, all you can do is offer support, she needs to learn to stand on her own 2 feet as shes obviously got married too young b4 she was ready for it!

Thanks, 2 hours is far with a hyper 2 year old and i'm a carer aswell, she said shes giving him time to forgive her I don't know what to say or do it should be the other way round i'll always be there for her but this is a choice she'll have to make herself he was more bothered about her taking the tv =/ hmm I hope shes okx