So my mil2b is paying for our honeymoon no budget on it where ever and what ever we want we can have it which I am SO grateful for especially since we don't get on however I want my little princess with me I want a family holiday not a honeymoon thats just not us, I don't mind a night away from her but not a week or 2 like shes suggesting, she wants to take her on holiday whilst we're on honeymoon but that just frightens the hell out of me! What if something happens and we're all at different ends of the world its not like I can just fly home if somethings wrong I've told her this but shes not having any of it I know its a few years away but she wants us to book it early on next year so in the next 6ish months maybe less. I trust her with my little girl its not that I just wouldn't enjoy it i'd miss her to much and worry constantly Helpp =( x
CommentAuthorlelbel1
I understand you completely. We're going away for 6 nights and we're leaving our 5yr old at home with my parents. This took a while to agree to as I've never left him for that long before. The comfort is that he's in his own home and carrying on as normal. I wouldn't be keen on him going abroad with my parents, especially if I was somewhere other than at home. Why don't you have a super indulgent few days tucked awaysomewhere in the country on your own and then maybe a week away with your daughter afterwards? x
CommentAuthorNuttytart
I Understand what your saying you just have to make it clear to her. You cant book some holidays that early anyway, so the booking oart may have to wait a while.
CommentAuthorMrsB
I thought you couldn't book real early as well but apparently shes been in and had a chat she is very controlling H2B doesn't have a problem with it but I really don't think i'm being stupid you never know whats going to happen, she will only allow it abroad I don't understand she thinks its a good thing for us to both go away as we never go anywhere without her =/ its a tough one =/ especially when H2B doesn't see it as a problem x
CommentAuthorEmsy5000
why not go somewhere like France at least then there is the channel tunnel to get you back. and its a very romantic place to go. I see her point she is trying to be generous so that you can have a very special time not that you could not have that with your baby there but there is an argument to her not being there as well. It is very unlikely that something go wrong but if that's what you are worried about why not ask her if she minds buying you some travel insurance that will allow you to return if something does.
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could you say to her that although you appriciate the offer of her having your daughter that at some point youd like your daughter to join you so maybe the mil could take your daughter for a few days somwhere then come and meet you so your daughter can spend the rest of your honeymoon with you and h2b as a family?
CommentAuthorfelicity.h
i get how you feel, but i can garantee you'll forget about the worries you had once your out there) theres obviously phones etc to keep you in contact with each other. I must admit i would jump at the chance. not because i dont care about my kids, but we dont get alot of time together and when we do its only a few hours. A weekend away in london would do me, its lovely having a few days feeling almost normal as in no one is relying on me and i can just walk out of the house to go shopping etc without having to get everything and everybody ready lol, id know they would be happy where they are. I would miss them and unless someone offered i would never ask as id would spend the whole holiday feeling guilty as there my responisibility. but again i do see where your coming from as you dont spend alot of time apart
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
What if you get your mil to have her for a few days while you and h2b spend a few nights away and then see if she will pay for a ''family honeymoon'' too
Cant wait to to marry Martyn
Wishes the wedding would come faster
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