Steffi - I found out today that our best man has organised to take my h2b, my father, my sisters fiancee and the est of the slag night to a lap dancing club. I am unimpressed to say the least and am currently sabotaging it! lol

Why would he think you know any strippers?

really am not prude about these things, but id rather not hear about it! never mind bein asked to sort it out... n the worst thing is over here theres loads of lil w***** who will hear the word stag n jump on them anyway! so feelin rather para about it as it is! I trust him 100% its not about that, but i know some of these girls n i know how maicious they can be.. n a few would take great pleasure in twistin stories... never mind the one that said to him in front of me come on i'll give you o***!! oh n another thats said i never kept my promise when i said id sleep wth you on my 16th!! grr!

How rude, asking if you know any stirrpers for ur fella's stag?!? I get theres the whole "Last night of freedom" thing that a lot of fuys wanna play with, and that a lot of men would choose to hire a stripper for their mate as a joke, but asking the bride?!? Thats just wrong! Whilst I dont like the idea of Sam having a stripper at his stag, I've told him he can do whatever he wants as long as he is faithful (and even that last part was a joke, I trusk him enough to know that he will always be fiathful!), and his reply was that a stripper would be a waste of money because he wouldnt enjoy her, he'd b too busy missing me (I love my guy!)
To me, it sounds like the best man was just trying to push ur bittons. Rise above hun xxx

Ringos said the exact same.. He is really quite shy underneath all the bravado, n i can imagine him bein mortified n not knowing where to look lol x

lol, men! and i love the male stripper idea, sounds like a blast! and look at it another way chick ... if he's getting a stripper, whats to stop you having one? :P xxx

well if he hasnt been specific and said he wants a woman stripper, then he only has himself to blame wehn its a man who turns up lol xxx

ha im lookin into it as we speak.. hahaha badtimes!!! :oP

no m the same sonia (?lol) weve lived together have 2 kids etc... he knows if he does anythin that would offend me or upset me there'll be trouble!x

kk hun, sorry I mistook what you were saying! Im probs just being totally naive (Im only 21) but I trust Sam completely and know that nothing more than a quick look would happen, so I'm automatically applying that to every guy, becuase thats the level of faithfulness I'd expect a H2B to have (no implications ladies) xxx

my H2B isnt having one eather lol but im having a hen weekend.
his choice not mine

I told my H2B what goes on the stag do, stays on the stag do and then said that would be the same for the hens...and left it at that.
I really don't want to know what happens and definitely don't want to see photo's. My mind would go into overdrive.
I know in the past there has been lapdancing at stag do's.
But, in Brighton we have regular male strip nights where some bloke slaps his knob in your face etc so...

Pmsl sonia! Hahaha! knoew someone who did that too stacey.. but shes retired now (shes old ie past retirement age) ...

MzEden, ive told ringo not to do anythin he wouldnt want me doing! so heres hopin! on a plus where we live is soooo small im bound to hear whats gone on if its really out of order!x

Right Steffi, here it what you do. Go find the worst "roly poly" or "grandma" stripper you can and give their number to him :P

I would not hesitate!!

ah yes, middle of nowhere. Thats a problem lol

see now im a nasty cow and i would say it all sorted just tell me when and where and it will be the girl of my dreams.
lets see how much he would enjoy it if YOU turned up and started stripping HHHHmmmmmmm me thinks you wouldnt even get your coat off :)
my argument would be A. im the only woman you need to see strip B. you was willing to ogal some poor woman so now you can pay me and i can put it towards the wedding LOL
not good for them but funny as hell for you hahahahaha

tell em youve got one and then one just doesnt show up

i don't have a problem with gary going to a lapdance club, but i would think it's wierd if his best man asked me if i knew any strippers!!!

what did he expect you to say??? "oh yeah, i do!! in fact, why not get my MOH to do it??" ffs!! lol

you COULD have referred him to a MALE stripper, or a lady boy lol

My H2b is off on his stag weekend 2moro....no chance of any sleazy strippers tho he's climbing Mount snowden lol....altho when we first decided to get married I did express my views on strippers as the last time I got married it was ex husbands stag night that caused alot of hurt and upset...dont get me wrong I'm no prude but his BM hired a stripper she came into the pub stripped him naked....covered him in whipped cream...stuck a lit candle up his ar$e then whipped him with a whip and I was unfortunate to see the 'photos' which left me feeling pyshically sick. I think the licensed sort of strip clubs/lap dancing places wouldnt go that far but its the ones you hire privately seem to have no boundries on their slutty behaviour!!!.
Its not a nice feeling knowing that some scrubber had her hands all over the one person you love and trust in the world when I asked ex hubby why he went along with it he just said 'No choice everyone was cheering and she just took over' hence when we got home I made him sleep in the garage and threatend to douse him in a gallon of bleach .....just glad I wont have the same worry this time round xx

It seems to me more often than not the grroms dont even want strippers etc its just for the others to get their jolly's lol...good luck with it hun stick to your guns xx

Yeah same over here. I think its the best man living out what they want through the groom....

I agree that I think a lot of these stag nights are what others in the party want and they dont really ask the groom, just do what they think x

my htb isnt keep on strippers/lapdancers he says its degrading (or thats what hes telling me anyway) his brother is the best man and his gf is so controlling they'd be lucky to get 1 hr at the local for his stag do, so i'm trying to organise it for him. seen as he's a kid at heart i was thinking go carting and then drinks in town followed by a curry. strippers dont really bother me as long as you adopt the look but dont touch approach. just a normal lads day out without the sleeze.