so sil2b is 20 and shes cumin on my hen do with her friend its a £20 depsoit which i have been waitin 2 weeks for she said she wud cum yesterday and dint show up or reply to my text and i text her today n she aint replied, i knwo shes on her phone cos shes been on face book! its £20 for frig sake not a bank breaker at all! every1 else has paid, we have a time limit with the hen company to pau deposits or place get taken away grrrrrrrrrrrrr shes my bm aswell and shes meant to be supportive not causing me more stress
Engaged 27th November 2010
Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
CommentAuthornini
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I think it would be best to send her a text message rather than ring her. If she knows she should have given you money she won't answer the phone if she hasn't got the cash. Send her a text explaining that the money needs to be paid by x date, if it's not paid the hen company take the place away. That way it is not your fault, but theirs! Then say that if she really wants to go but is short of cash could she possibly borrow it from someone short term so that her place is guaranteed? By doing that you are offering her a solution, if she can't then tell her that it's beyond your control and the company will take the place away. Or you could offer to pay her deposit for her as long as she pays you back by a certain date? Make it clear that if she doesn't pay you back by the agreed date then you will be giving the place to one of your other friends/relatives.
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
yes i have texted her now! i paid depsoit on her dress for her and it took like 2 months to get it back and am owed money from others i paid it for so i cant really h2b wud kill me lol
i aint textin her again now she knows it gotta be paid asap to get places etc! shes out at pub now
Engaged 27th November 2010
Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
CommentAuthorKath2010
If she's at the pub she has the money, if it's gonna take ages to get the money off her directly, go to the pub and she can buy your drinks all night lol. That will make up for you paying her deposit! Crafty but may be the only way.
CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Henderson
If she's in the pub now she's got the cash thn. I'd txt her saying if u aint paid by X date ur not coming. My MOH is organising my hen night and ain't letting me know anything about it, makes me glad i ain't got the stress of tht added to the wedding stresses xx
